With the development of the times, many people now yearn for a fast-food emotion, especially for a creature with strong emotional needs such as men, they have always longed for a life full of passion.
Therefore, many men who have no sense of responsibility will choose to betray their marriages and families, but they devote themselves to extramarital affairs without hesitation, which does not mean that they are not afraid of extramarital affairs being discovered.
Xinyue has produced many marriage cases and found that most men's psychological states are similar when they are exposed to extramarital affairs. Today Xinyue will give an example that has been solved in detail.
Warm reminder: The contributor is the original wife, the protagonist is her cheating husband, and has now returned to the family under the guidance, the names of the full text are all pseudonyms!
I hope that today's story and solutions, can bring some warnings and inspirations to the original spouses who are in troubled marriages!
Mr. Liu is 52 years old this year. He has been married to his wife for more than 20 years. He is a very ordinary small worker. As ordinary as his position is the relationship between him and his wife. It is also very ordinary. When they got together, they had no feelings for each other.
Mr. Liu thought his whole life would be over until he met Xiao Cheng while playing games.
Xiaocheng is a divorced woman. Because she just got divorced and experienced major changes in her life, she is very enthusiastic and cheerful, doesn't care about anything, and gets along very well. After chatting for a long time, the two decided to meet.
The two immediately got together as soon as they met. At this time, facing this active woman, Mr. Liu found that not all women were so strong. Compared with his wife, Xiao Cheng was gentle and kind and lovely.
From the physical to the psychological, the two have always been very compatible. Usually, the two live their own lives by themselves. Once they have time, they will meet each other. Xiao Cheng is not a jealous and purposeful woman, even if he already has a relationship with Mr. Liu relationship, and did not make any willful demands on Mr. Liu.
As long as Mr. Liu is at home, she will never contact her. She bluntly said that she will not destroy Mr. Liu's family. In Mr. Liu's eyes, Xiao Cheng is the most perfect woman in the world, better than his own wife. too much!
At first, Mr. Liu thought that this extramarital affair would continue beautifully forever, but his wife found out about his cheating after a year and a half!
At the moment when the incident was exposed, Mr. Liu's wife was very angry and directly started a fight with Mr. Liu. Mr. Liu recalled that at that time, he had only three feelings in his heart, and he explained each of them in detail.
The first feeling: I feel that my wife is unreasonable.
Mr. Liu's wife realized that while she was working diligently for her family, her husband did such a shameless thing and immediately lost his mind. Temper, and said that he would never finish with Mr. Liu.
And because of emotional out of control, the words he said were very terrifying. It didn't mean that he wanted to kill the scumbag and the third party. Same, looks very crazy.
Faced with such a wife, Mr. Liu felt very frightened at the same time, but also felt that the other party was unreasonable, so he did not dare to stay at home, let alone go to Xiao Cheng, for fear of stimulating his wife, what price would he really pay .
So he can only hide sometimes at his friend's house, sometimes at a hotel!
The second feeling: Worrying about the breakdown of the marriage
Although Mr. Liu thought that he and Xiaocheng were true love, when the matter was exposed, he was suddenly scared, couldn't help but started to quibble, and bluntly said that his cheating wife was also responsible.
If it wasn't for the fact that his wife was too cold and strong, he would not have done anything wrong. At the same time, he said that Xiao Cheng first seduced him, but he just didn't reject it directly. Mr. Liu said a lot of things aside from his own responsibility.
And he said this because he didn't like Xiao Cheng? Not really! He does have some feelings for Xiaocheng, but he will never divorce his wife for Xiaocheng.
Because he has been married for so many years, the common interests of him and his wife are too intertwined. Once divorced, it will cause great losses to Mr. Liu. For a man whose interests are paramount, this is a very heavy blow.
So he is Divorce is impossible!
The third feeling: I am afraid that things will be exposed, and I will be pointed at by others.
Even if Mr. Liu is very righteous when he argues, he understands that cheating is a very humiliating thing, so he is very afraid that his wife will tell it. Let your relatives and friends know about your infidelity.
Men are all selfish, they want to save face when they do something wrong, and they are even more afraid of others pointing at them, so Mr. Liu implores his wife not to tell this matter, he can admit his mistakes, and also It can make up for the damage caused to the wife, but it's fine, just don't say it.
For this reason, he also moved out his parents and their children, hoping his wife would save him some face.
Mr. Liu bluntly said that after he knew that the incident was exposed, his married life could never be restored to its previous calm, but he still didn't want to be known about his cheating, which would change his image as a good man in the hearts of others.
It can be seen from this that Mr. Liu is a timid man, who is a little afraid of his wife, and has some conscience about marriage. In fact, this story was shared by Mr. Liu's wife to Xinyue. She shared her husband's After explaining all the circumstances, ask the man if it is necessary to save him.
Because their children are just getting married, not to mention that the two of them are already so old and don't want to toss any more, so she bluntly said that if a man can be saved, she will not divorce!
Let's be honest, when a man complains to his friends about his wife's insecurities, he's ready for divorce, no matter if he's cheating or not.
And Mr. Liu is so obvious that he will not divorce, and there are many things he is afraid of in this marriage, such as his own reputation and the interests of marriage, so it is easy for to get hold of him.
As long as the original partner finds a way, he can easily start from Mr. Liu's weakness, separate the third party from the man, and let the man never dare to cheat again!
's follow-up original partner also solved the marital problem with Xinyue's help, and now his love life has returned to calm. How to solve
Xinyue? First of all, helps the original partner to analyze Mr. Liu's true attitude directly through various means using words and routines. The above three feelings are summed up by Xinyue after analyzing Mr. Liu and combining his real words!
It is not so much Mr. Liu's three feelings as it is Mr. Liu's three weaknesses.
As long as you know the weakness of a man, marital problems can be easily solved!
If you are in an extramarital affair, you are really helpless in the face of a cheating husband, and you don't know how to solve the problem, you can privately please your specific situation.
I will give you the most professional guidance and help as soon as possible!
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