I can't sleep at night. I think about the people and things around me in the past few years, and I also think about my own state. Some people walk away and leave, which inevitably adds sadness; forward.
Want to set a flag, but don't know what to set? I want to get a certificate to accompany the baby, but I don't think it makes much sense. Recording life as before, some people are watching silently, some people are leaving messages generously, some people become friends and turn relationships into productivity. In the end, think about what I originally wrote for myself and my children, to leave a mark on each stage of life, just maintain the present, why care about others.
Someone asked me to continue to write a public account, but I never put a lot of pressure on myself. I was afraid of being urged to change, I was afraid that I would not be able to connect every day, I was tired and tired, and I was too lazy to deal with some unfamiliar people's problems. In fact, when a person has the ability to influence more people around him, it means that he has a greater responsibility. I have no ability and I am willing to take on so many responsibilities. Taking care of one-third of my own land is my life goal [covering face].
In fact, every three or five years, many subtle changes will occur in all aspects of people, whether it is the cognition of things or the choice of life.
is in an industry, the longer the time is, the more different "doorways" will be seen, and the same problem will have completely different views. I think this is the so-called from looking at a mountain as a mountain to seeing a mountain as not a mountain. As you become more and more able to put yourself in other people's shoes, you will understand the reasons behind many results.
For example, for investment and and family finance , after looking at it for a while, many people can say a few high-sounding and seemingly impeccable theories or methods, and even openly want to influence other people's family decisions. I really want to ask if you are responsible if there is a risk to someone else's family? If people don't ask about the deep level, I will definitely be too lazy to mention it.As a result, the spread of certain influences has kept more people in the drum (valley). The market has salt: what you can do is worse than what you can say, and what you can say is not as good as what you can pretend.
chatted with an old friend today, saying that so-and-so is very good now, so-and-so is not a good mix. He said that and are the hardest to do. Down-to-earth means unassuming and inconspicuous, which is the most easily overlooked. But at the same time, it is invaluable. Because someone has to pull the mill silently in order to grind out the flour. But it's not enough to be able to turn around in circles, it will become more and more mediocre over time. We can be ordinary, we can't be mediocre, and we can't be mediocre. It looks like chicken soup speaks to , but for us who are in it, it is not hypocritical . The predecessors cannot be deterred by ignorance and ridicule. The predecessors have a strong heart, can not fear and bear everything, and move forward resolutely.
Before the age of 40, I always want to be in the early stage and want to have a world. This is the blood burning in the body of every individual who has a dream. Beginning at the age of 45, the blood burned out, and the accumulated of the previous 45 years. With enough accumulation, we can be more and , and have the capital to be the most authentic self. Because before the age of 45, you can still say that you are in your 40s, but after the age of 45, you will be almost 50 years old, nearly half a hundred years old, is there any meaning to being vain?
has gone too far, talk back to myself. I have always believed that work, ideals, and family are like the triangle of stability in life. Life is too short to please others. Talk less, see more, do more, do it yourself, take good care of your loved ones, and have three or five friends. Continuing to invest in the direction of your own efforts, establishing a new self in your work, and creating value for the people around you are also an accumulation.
In the final analysis, everyone's life is like a donkey pulling a mill.
There is no difference between people and people, it depends on what is the carrot that attracts you?
Some people are passionate, some are money, fame and fortune, some are art, some are science, some are having children, some just like to do nothing and stay in a daze. As long as you don't have to worry about survival, these things are essentially not high or low, and no one is more meaningful or advanced.
thinks through all of this, and has no regrets going forward or looking back. After all, as a human being, even if you are sorry, it is not something you can decide. Since there is only one life in the world, no one should laugh at anyone and despise anyone.
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