"Low-key people, you can know it at a glance": People who are low-key usually have three characteristics. Don't underestimate them, they are often very powerful, but they only know how to hide their wisdom! If you meet someone with these 3 characteristics in real life, you must look highly, and it is best to make friends with them and become good friends. You will benefit a lot from this!
1. Disguise yourself appropriately
Disguise is a means for animals to hide themselves or deceive other animals. For example, many butterflies disguise themselves as unpalatable butterflies to avoid predation by predators. Animals camouflage, on the one hand, is to protect themselves well and survive in a world where the weak and strong; on the other hand, they are better at attacking others and getting everything they need. The same is true for animals, so are people!
In fact, each of us has pretended to hide our true inner thoughts and our true character. Some people even have two sides: at work, they are a normal workaholic; when they come home, they are another person, indifferent and autistic. In fact, sometimes a moderate disguise can protect yourself.
You have to remember that disguise is a very deep art, and when used properly, it will have miraculous effects.
2. Don't expose one's ingenuity easily
Being too talented and dismissed by the wise, clever cover-up is the best way to win praise. Don't show off all your skills at once, win one brilliant success and then proceed to the next one, and expect greater success after the warm applause.
In life, no matter how talented you are, you must know how to overcome the arrogance and arrogance, and learn to hide your edge in your pocket so as not to show your edge. This will not only protect yourself effectively, but also give full play to your talents. .
Some typical examples of the upper body that caused troubles because of their sharp edge were too strong in the old days. When fighting the country, the heroes of all walks of life gathered under their command, showing their sharp edges, and one is more capable than the other. Of course, the master needs to borrow these people to realize his ambition to dominate the world. But the world has been determined, and the talents of these heroes will not disappear. At this time, their talents became the emperor’s heart disease, making him feel threatened all the time.Therefore, there have been many cases of killing heroes in the early days of the founding of the country. The so-called "killing the donkey" is also. Han Xin was killed, Ming Taizu burned the Qinggong Building, all of them.
At work, everyone wants to get ahead, and everyone has ambitions. Unfortunately, promotion and salary increases have always been too much. If you expose your ambitions about your career or position too much in the office, you will undoubtedly provoke your colleagues and bosses openly and make your colleagues more wary of you. Even the boss will worry about whether you are secretly coveting his high position. You stand up and transfer out.
The so-called "tree attracts the wind", ambitions can be but not revealed. In every case, if you want to be strong and perform, it will attract strange eyes. You may wonder, is it wrong to be positive? Basically, being positive is a work attitude worth encouraging, but if you are too active and steal too much limelight from others, it will make others feel that your position in the company is threatened and look down upon them; people with less-minded minds may even talk secretly Your hind legs, some small movements hinder your work.
The best way is to do your job competently, maintain excellent performance, try to maintain a low profile, and don't give others a sense of threat. The "capable" "can" do great things, not big talk. Showing off tends to lead to arrogance, but arrogance inevitably leads to contempt. Displays should also be revealed in a humble manner, so as not to become vulgar.
No matter what outstanding talents you have, you must remember: don’t think of yourself too great, don’t think of yourself too important, don’t think of yourself as a saint and gentleman who saves the country and the people, or constricts you Edge, pinch your tail and conceal your talent.
3. Occasionally be a man with his tail clipped
Being a man with his tail clipped is also a great wisdom of human beings. This is what the Art of War says. A person cannot always be smooth sailing. There are too few facts that one can do it with his own temperament. Especially people who are addicted to Chinese culture have lost their spirit to speak, and what is even more frightening is that they have also lost their courage to think. People hold their tails as the highest state of life, so as to cope with sudden changes and avoid disasters.
In modern society, people's personalities can be publicized, and talents have a place to play, but the "rules" of living with their tails still cannot be given up.
, for example, in the interior of a group,The general manager can cock his tail, but his subordinates cannot be like him. If the subordinates think that they are more intelligent and ignore the height of the tail of the general manager, they often criticize and suggest the decision of the general manager of the company. If the objection is wrong, It may be okay to be reprimanded. The general manager is generous and not as knowledgeable as you. If your tail is high and beautifully displayed, you can really point out the general manager’s mistakes, even if you save the company a huge loss, you There will be no good end, unless the company belongs to you personally.
If you learn to be a human being with your tail sandwiched, you must be kind to others; Open-minded and generous, generous to others. Only if a person is open-minded, tolerant, considers fame, power, and profit a little, can he handle the relationship between people well and eliminate jealousy. Treat everything with a "normal heart". We should treat competitors with generosity and magnanimity, and we should be kind to others.
Of course, what we mean by "being a man with a tail sandwiched" here is not to be a "good old man", "it's nothing to do, hang up high; knowing that it is wrong, it is better to say less; be wise to protect yourself, but never fail..." On the contrary, we are required to get rid of the cowardly "good old man" character in the face of principles, throw away those vulgar styles, and become a bloody and brave warrior! Advocating a low-key life does not mean being low-key, it means following the old ways, but to invigorate, down-to-earth, and do every job well. Proud but not complacent, low-key but not low-key, this is the real "life with the tail sandwiched".
Friends, "a low-key person, you can see it at a glance": a low-key person usually has 3 characteristics, don't underestimate it! What do you think of it? Welcome to leave a message and discuss it together!
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