Suhomlinski said: "True love requires not only falling in love, but also mutual insight into each other’s inner world."
After thinking about it, you can do what you like and use a more suitable way to conquer the other's heart and easily win the other's heart.
How can we choose a more suitable way, we need to observe and understand the person we love.
is like in our lives, we often see some women, in order to retain the heart of men, they do their best. Either you let yourself go to the hall and the kitchen; or you care about women, hoping to use such goodness to touch the hearts of men; or you pay and sacrifice yourself for men in exchange for your sincerity.
It's just that this kind of superficial effort is too unbearable. Women must understand that what a man wants is to be able to hit his soft heart, not a woman's self-movement.
Henry once said: "If there is no wisdom in my life, it will only be overshadowed; if there is no love in my life, it will be destroyed."
Life requires a heart-warming love, and at the same time It also requires us to face it with wisdom, not our own blindness and self-righteousness.
Whether a woman is stupid or smart, the biggest difference is that stupid women use their own efforts to tie up men, while smart women will attract men quietly.
Balzac said: "Any poor, troubled woman, her heart is equal to a piece of sponge that desperately needs love, and a drop of affection will swell immediately.Women like
are also very common in life. For an insecure love, they give desperately to love this man, just like moths fighting a fire.
In their opinion, Love needs to be expressed directly, so that a man can feel his sincerity, so that he will not have regrets.
What women don’t understand is that if a man doesn’t love you so much, no matter what you are No matter how much you give, you can only touch yourself in the end. If a man loves you, you who give in such a desperate way will make the man feel that your love is too casual and too frivolous, and will gradually feel Your love is too cheap. How can a man cherish such a cheap love and have always been devoted to you?
It is difficult to keep your love alive when you meet a woman who swells in love.
Can be deep A woman who is attracted to a man must be smart and know how to understand the mind of a man. Only when she understands what a man thinks, can she better think of the way to deal with this love, and can capture the man’s heart as she wishes.
You don’t have to tell a man how good you are and how much you have paid for him, but when a woman improves herself, she invisibly attracts the attention of men.
Dickens said: " Mature love, respect and loyalty are not easy to show, its voice is low, it is humble, retreat, latent, waiting and waiting. "_P1p
Good love, isn't it such a mature, humble, low-sounding one?
If a woman expresses her love easily, how can we convince a man that this woman is mature? Yes, attractive?
Really attractive women will put their minds on themselves. Because they know that men like excellent women and like that unique woman. In any case, they can't love at first sight The last casual, flirty woman.
Plautus also said: "Controlling love with reason, pros and cons, crazy indiscriminate love, there are harms and no gains."
The most taboo of love is letting I acted too casually. There is a sentence in Eason Chan's "Red Rose": What is not available is always in a commotion, and those who are favored are not afraid.
The more a woman gives, the more a man feels that this love comes too easily, and he naturally feels confident and does not worry about the woman leaving him. In a man's heart, the more unreachable a woman, the harder it is to approach, the more curious the man is and the more he wants to conquer this woman.
It's like we have two things in our hands. One can be bought everywhere, and the other is a hard-working one. You don't need to think too much to know which one we are more sincere.
If a woman keeps running after a man, beg the man to look back at her. Such a woman is never better than a woman who doesn't have to do anything. Women seem to be calm, but they have already attracted men deeply.
Zhang Ailing said this:
Meet the people you meet among thousands of people. In the boundless wilderness of thousands of years, there is no early or late step. It just so happens. When we caught up, there is nothing else to say, only a gentle question: "Oh, are you here?" It is enough to make people feel his charm and the magic of love.
A woman's calmness to attract a man is much more reliable than a love that is gained by giving everything.
Learning this way is the best way for a smart woman.
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