Nowadays, there are many older girls, and gradually they no longer have obsession with marriage; just say "Let's do it" and just let things go.
Many girls feel that they can't meet the right person; why marry if there is no guarantee of marriage quality? Isn't it good to be single for a lifetime?
In reality, there are really girls who have been single all their lives; it's just that the unmarried old age of this life is not as beautiful as everyone imagined.
Auntie was born in Shanghai in 1953, she is 68 years old this year; she now lives in a 9 square meter loft in Shanghai. The thing that I think about the most and look forward to now is to wait for the demolition, so that I can almost get the demolition fund of more than 3 million...
Auntie has two younger brothers and a younger sister. The younger brothers and sisters have already married, and now they are all grandpas. Grandma; she is the only one in the family who has never been married.
When the parents were alive, the aunt didn't feel lonely; but in the past few years, as the two elders passed away one after another, only the aunt was alone.
Although there are younger siblings, they have already married; they rarely walk around on weekdays, especially with the two younger brothers. The relationship with the younger sister is pretty good. When my father was hospitalized, she and younger sister took turns taking care of him; the two younger brothers were not even seen.
Auntie said that family relationships in Shanghai are basically the same; for the elderly, they are basically taken care of by their daughters!
Aunt has been retired for 20 years and now has more than 4,000 pensions per month; alone is enough for food and drink, but in the long run, it is obviously not enough.
Auntie said that she usually helps neighbors in the neighbourhood run errands, buy things, clean up and so on. She can also earn some money. In the future, she will need money when she goes to nursing homes or after leaving many funeral affairs. This consideration,Need to save some money.
Regarding why I have never been married, my aunt said that when I was young, my parents kept urging them; but they never met a suitable one. Parents urged the marriage and blind date, but they just didn't, they just... got old!
Now I am alone, and there must be loneliness, but I don't want to get married anymore; I'm all old! When Auntie said this, she felt a little bit helpless...
Auntie lives in a 9 square meter attic, waiting to be demolished; there is another house left behind by her parents. (Brother is living), if that house is demolished, she can also get part of the money.
Now I don’t want to do anything else. My biggest wish and expectation is probably to wait for the demolition; I can get about 3 million yuan!
The whole life is long and long, and short and short; there are days when flowers bloom again, and people are no longer young, and time is hard to return. For some people, it is a lifetime regret.
Many netizens said that seeing Auntie's current situation; it seems that after seeing her own, she can't help but feel sad.
Many netizens also said that aunts are not necessarily wrong; so many people suffer from marriage and regret why they choose marriage. Is it not good for a person to live alone, simple, happy and unrestrained?
Everyone has their own ideas, what kind of life to live, you can choose not to regret it!
We don’t know whether the aunt regrets the fact that she was not married in her whole life; when she was young, she couldn’t meet someone she thought was right, and worried that her quality of life and spiritual quality could not be guaranteed after marriage, and she always felt that she would encounter that hit sooner or later. The destined person...
But the reality is that the destined person came too late and too late; we don’t know if Auntie can wait for that person in this life!
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