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Two people love each other, have experienced eachother in their immature, vigorous youth, and finally it all comes down to one thing, that is life. Even if
lives in ideals, it should be based on the present. From being full of passion to being flat, it seems to be the fate of every relationship.
stepping into society, starting to work, getting married and having children, firewood, rice, oil and salt, many complicated things, make us no longer full of expectations for life. Even after passing by, there is no hope for love anymore.
When love passes over time, marriage is also facing a break.
But two people who truly love each other and know how to live, no matter how ordinary life is, they can find different sweetness from ordinaryness.
Everyone’s marriage will be ordinary, and only a couple who can withstand this "test" can truly stay together until they grow old.
01
When Feng Ming took a shower at home last time, he found that his wife's bath ball was out of order. He took it down and threw it in the trash can. When he was going to the supermarket in the afternoon, he would buy another one.
He was afraid that he would forget, and he also wrote it down in the memo. Seeing the content about his wife in the memo, he suddenly remembered that when he had dinner last night, his wife praised the braised eggplant that he made so delicious, so he also wrote it down.
Feng Ming has always left work earlier than his wife. After he got off work, he went to the gate of the elementary school to wait for the children to finish school, and then went to the supermarket.
waited until his wife got off work and found that the meal was ready. She was surprised that Feng Ming would only cook a meal except on special days, or when she was really busy and had no time.
Now, not only is the meal ready, but the child's homework is almost as tutored by Feng Ming.
His wife sat down to eat happily and couldn't help but admire the same dish of braised eggplant yesterday. Feng Ming on the side laughed from ear to ear as he saw his wife's satisfaction.
02
After dinner, his wife helped clean up the dishes and Feng Ming sat on the sofa and watched the game. After
cleaned up, his wife went to take a bath. My wife is a clean person. She has to take a bath every day, but today she takes a long time to take a bath.
Feng Ming didn't care. He felt that buying a bath ball by the way was a very common thing, and there was nothing special about it.
What makes Feng Ming happy is that his wife likes to eat his dishes. Her unintentional praise can remind Feng Ming from time to time, happy for a long time.
may be because out of a mentality of being needed, what Feng Ming feels is not the fatigue of cooking, but happiness.
After a while, the wife finally came out of the shower. She hung up the bath ball that Feng Ming bought today, took it out, and asked him with a smile, "Did you buy it newly today?"
Feng Ming smiled, "I just saw that your one is going to die. I went to the supermarket this afternoon and brought one back for you by the way." The
wife looked very happy, she said to herself: "I also danced a favorite color."
Feng Ming saw his wife look like this , Could not help laughing: "Which gift I usually give you is not more expensive than it? How can you be happy with a small bath ball?"
wife said shyly: "You don't understand."
Then he explained: "In fact, we women don’t want much. No expensive lipsticks and bags are fake. In life, as long as you can help me cook a few more meals and bring more children, These are enough to satisfy the small details I want." The wife of
looked at her embarrassedly. Now she still has stars in her eyes, as if she was back when the two fell in love.
At that time, they were full of infinite beautiful fantasy about the future. After many years of marriage, they are still looking forward to the future.
Feng Ming also laughed. His wife didn't know. A word or action she accidentally made Feng Ming recalled for a long time and found the feeling of love.
03
No matter how good the marriage is, it is hard to escape a kind of "test". It is a lifetime husband and wife. The test of
is plain.
's life is very long. If two people love each other, there will be a day when they are bored and bored, and they may even think of separation.
It’s nothing, but if you separate, leaveThe relationship you are tired of at this time will only be a repetition of this relationship after opening a new marriage.
What we need to do is to find the heartbeat from the ordinary, and when we see firewood, rice, oil and salt, there are still stars in our eyes.
Love is to fall in love with each other in the ordinary life time and time again.
is only enough to understand one person in a lifetime, and may not be enough to fully understand one person. Because of the human heart, there are many areas that others cannot explore. What's more, as the years go by and the environment changes, people will also change. Both
are changing, both of them are changing their attitudes towards life and the way they behave.
Therefore, we are not always in love with a very familiar person. In this way, it is easy to fall in love with each other again due to certain changes and continue to plunge into a boring life.
To be honest, if a person really wants to be with you and go to the end with you, even if life is dull, he will still try his best to make you happy and make boring days interesting.
Love or marriage is just for us to live better, and life itself is the dullness of repetition. Because there is love, the ordinary is worth it.
Anyone's marriage will slowly return to dullness. In no one's days, there are so many earth-shattering events that happen. Mereness is the daily life of life and the ultimate direction of marriage.
But in the ordinary, there is also happiness, depending on whether you can find it. In fact, plain is just like everyday white rice. It may be very tasteless, but it will make you never get tired of it, let alone eat it. The key to
is how we live in a normal marriage, this is the most important thing. In fact, it is not difficult. You can achieve this by knowing some marriage management methods.
Then why not come and read the book "Marriage Psychology" to help you master the management skills of marriage as soon as possible.
There are methods for everything, and marriage is no exception. This book can help you deal with trivial matters better in the daily life of marriage, so that you can get along with each other and have more happy moments.
Don't always blame the marriage for being so dull. If you can master these business methods and apply them to your own marriage, I believe you can also find your little luck in dullness.
