is really mature enough, everyone will find that it is indeed a small probability to be happy.
Otherwise, love would not be so precious and rare.
Of course, many people believe in "water droplets through stone" and believe that sincerity and persistence can always move each other.
But if you pursue a woman for a long time, but still can't get into her heart, it is often the man who made two mistakes.
might as well compare it. If you are caught in some of these situations, but still cannot prescribe the right medicine to meet the real expectations of the other party, then give up, so as not to delay your life.
01. Didn’t find what she really wanted
Simply put, you feel that you are the man who knows her the most, loves her the most, and is the most worthy of her love in the world. No, you have to understand what the other person wants, yourself Can you provide it again?
Love is also a balance of supply and demand. What you want to provide is not the same thing as what the other party wants. Then no effort will be made, but it is a waste of effort.
Therefore, the kind of man who has been pursuing women for a long time, but the other party is completely indifferent and has no feeling at all. It is quite possible that he has not found what she really wants, but just considers what she thinks is good, and wants to force it. Just enter the opponent's hands. How does
explain this kind of thing? Simply put, for a woman who pays great attention to money and material, the other half she wants to find is definitely a man who has at least these elements.
If you do not belong to such a group of people, but you just want to use your loyalty, kindness, good character, and responsibility to impress and move the other party, then you are basically playing the piano, and it will not do anything at all.
and some women, just the opposite.
They want to find a man who is affectionate, temperamental, and has common interests and hobbies to spend the rest of their lives together.
So, at this time, a man with a wealth of money, but Sanguan completely irrelevant to her appeared, using these hardware as a bargaining chip, chasing after him, it is estimated that the other party will be indifferent and completely lazy.
From this point of view, the man in the back is obviously more suitable than the woman in the front with the same views, and his sincerity and dedication are misplaced! It's that simple.
02. A certain trait of her own makes her unable to give her sincere
There may be another situation where a certain trait of a man makes her unable to give her sincere. This trait of
may be diligent and restless; it may be arrogant and unstable; it may be strong and not gentle; it may also be that the living and living environment of both parties is too far apart, she feels unreliable and refuses to accept Love and so on.
, but it does not mean that the man must have problems, bad character, etc., in short, it is just that the other person thinks that you are dangerous and unreliable for her.
give an example to illustrate it, maybe it can help you clarify this idea of women. Z2z
, the popular Kangba handsome net red Ding Zhen, must be very familiar to everyone!
The mastermind behind him is Du Dongdong, who is born in the 70s. Standard engineering students had a decent and well-paid English translation job in Shanghai in their early years. In addition to professional translation of works,
also translated "Dark Tribulation", "Wanderer's Journey", "Bohemia-Charming Exile" and other literary works before and after his spare time. Douban scored very high.
Tired of high-paid urban life in 2007, went to Tibetan areas to experience life. Later, he became a reporter for "Tibet Human Geography" magazine and studied religious history at Tibet University. Later he became the general manager of Litang Cultural Tourism.
Du Dongdong is not ugly, he is a man with a refreshing temperament. Is his personal condition good enough? But it is a loser in love.
In Tibet, he fell in love with Quxi, a beautiful Khamba girl with deep crystal eyes and big greasy braids. He has been chasing after her for several years. For her,
also wrote the "Kangba Love Letter" with a full 150,000 words, with a Douban score of 8.5 points.
He described his heartbeat in it: "I was flying like a moth, sinking in." During the period, he often contacted her and expressed his love in various ways.
But in the face of such aThe Tibetan girl Quxi, who is an excellent man in a completely different world, with different social classes and life experiences and experiences, was still unmoved, and finally rejected him and married someone else.
is not only that, even the girl only feels a burden to his pursuit, and at one time she was quite unfriendly to him. After
read the book he wrote for himself after marrying, Qu Xi smiled and said, "So I treat you so badly." The two eventually just became friends.
Quxi is very beautiful, but is such excellent Du Dongdong not worthy of her? Obviously not.
is just that he lacks the traits needed by the other party and has a considerable identity contrast. All these have caused Qu Xi to be wary of him and unable to love him!
In addition to lamenting fate and making people, what else do you think Du Dongdong can say?
Conclusion:
meets material women, you can provide material; meet people who pay attention to the spiritual world, you can provide spiritual resonance;
two people do not have particularly big social stratification boundaries and differences, and have the same three Observation, being able to communicate smoothly...
, these are much better than blind people who provide everything they think are the best and look forward to impressing and moving women who have no special emotions for you.
You can see that in real life, not all people who get married are dragons and phoenixes among people, and most of them are just ordinary men and women.
Except for the parties involved, other people walking on the street are even too lazy to take a look.
But they just looked at each other right, and felt that they were the only one in the world who best met their inner expectations and could spend the rest of their lives together.
This also illustrates the importance of resource matching and similar interests.
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