Introduction:
Many men’s dream is to wait until their careers are successful before marrying a young wife. Most men need to rely on their career achievements and the youth of their wives to get their sense of value in life.
So this life that can marry a woman many years younger is really enviable?
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Mr. Zhang finally succeeded in his career when he was 40 years old. There are too many ups and downs in his life. Mr. Zhang once thought that he would never be successful in his career.
But there are other surprises between the ups and downs of life. The 40-year-old Mr. Zhang finally waited for his luck.
Mr. Zhang has changed from a mediocre man to a man who is capable in the eyes of others. This kind of life gave him a sense of superiority and made him think that he was really an extraordinary person.
When a man is not capable, there will be no young girls around him. When he is capable, there will always be young girls admiring him.
Mr. Zhang likes to be admired by young girls. He thinks that by marrying young girls home, he can be worshipped forever.
However, after marrying a young girl home, I found that the young girl is not actually admiring him. After marriage, she knows the young girl clearly and really loves comparison. I always hope that I live better than my peers, and I hope the uncle will give it to them. Providing a noble life is the most fundamental reason for them to marry the uncle.
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Mr. Liu is 50 years old and married a 30-year-old young woman. After marriage, this young woman is in charge of everything in the family. She is in charge of everything in the family.
has been married for 5 years. Mr. Liu has a son and a daughter. Everyone says that Mr. Liu’s family is happy and blessed, but Mr. Liu himself feels that after marrying a young wife, the expenses of a family of six are on his shoulders.
Because his wife is much younger than him, his wife does not participate in all the responsibilities of supporting the family. The wife is only responsible at home and never goes out to work. The two children are taken care of by mother-in-law and father-in-law. The family also hired a nanny to cook. All these expenses are borne by Mr. Liu alone.
Mr. Liu feels that after marrying a young wife, he will have to raise this wife in the future. The burden of living is much greater than marrying a wife of the same age. Many couples marry a wife of the same age. They work together, struggle together, and support each other. But marry a wife who is 20 years younger. The young wife is only responsible for staying at home and never helps her husband share the troubles of work.
Concluding remarks:
In fact, if a man marries a young wife, it may not be a blessing. On the contrary, he may feel that life is burdened and tired.
