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A few days ago, I joined a reading community. This month's reading task turned out to be "Swordsman". This film and television drama, which I have seen countless times in my childhood, can almost recite the martial arts classics, but I have never read its novels.
opened the reading software with an indifferent mood. Just after reading a chapter, I began to regret that I read too late.
Today, what I want to share with you is Lin Pingzhi, a classic supporting role in the book.
mentioned Lin Pingzhi, I believe that in our impression, he must not be called a decent role, in order to revenge, he will not hesitate to wield a knife from the palace and win love with a horizontal knife, and fight against the protagonist Linghu everywhere. However, we all ignored his previous goodness. The first act of his appearance was the hero saving the beauty, and the road was not peaceful; he carried the body of the boomerang by himself regardless of the danger of his life; he dared to act and be filial to his parents, he also had He is a young man with a fresh clothes and angry horse!
Why does Lin Pingzhi have a perfect native family?
Parents love
There are not many sentences describing the love of Lin’s father and Lin’s mother, but there is a scene:
enemy comes to provocation, Lin Zhennan and his wife decide to ask friends from the rivers and lakes for help, in the name of his wife’s birthday.
Lin Zhennan said that he would celebrate his 40th birthday for his wife, and his wife asked:
, why did I give me a year old? Am I still old enough?
Lin Zhennan shook his head and said:
Where are you old? You don't have a single white hair on your head. Mrs.
turned her head to think for a while, and said:
and it's up to you, what gift would you give me?
Father Lin whispered in her ear:
next year we will have another big fat son!
The crisis is at hand, the enemies are everywhere, and Lin and Lin have not forgotten to spread dog food to the audience. This is undoubtedly the proof of their love.
In such an urgent juncture, the husband and wife did not complain to each other, did not tear down each other, but worked together to overcome difficulties, and did not forget to make fun of each other. While Father Lin was worried, he still remembered to reduce the fear in his wife's heart and joked with her.
The best love for children is that father loves mother. This sentence of
is undoubtedly the best interpretation of Lin Pingzhi's native family.
2, the father did not hesitate to affirm and praise
Lin Ping went home away from home, his father wanted to test his skills, but he thought that his murder had been known to his father, and he did not avoid letting his father beat him.
Father Lin saw that his mood was wrong, and the pipe rod did not fall on him, and asked him: What's wrong? Although the words contained blame, there was still a smile on his face.
Seeing that his father was not going to scold himself, Lin Pingzhi picked up the feather broom on the coffee table with his backhand and pierced his father's vest.
It can be seen that it is common for father and son to make a move. While the father is urging his son to make progress, he will also pay close attention to his emotional changes. After the two of
dismantled their tricks, Father Lin smiled and said:
is very good, very good. I have made progress every day. Today I dismantled four more tricks. Although the son of
lost, he still received his father's affirmation and appreciation. Even if it is a small improvement, his father will tell him: I have seen your progress, very good!
3, parents are very careful to protect his self-esteem
Lin Pingzhi got into trouble and brought disaster to the family. When the parents knew it, they didn't blame or complain to him, but first comforted him, and then tried to work together to fight the enemy.
Father Lin pointed out that his mother is not in good health, and the enemy is currently, and he wants his son to sleep on the couch outside their room these nights while protecting his mother.
Lin’s mother was about to refute, but she quickly understood her husband’s true intentions. Her son was arrogant and would not want him to rely on the protection of his parents. He might be unhappy and went out to the enemy on his own. challenge. So Lin's mother took the initiative to show her weakness, saying that she was suffering from rheumatism recently, and her hands and feet were sore. Her husband took care of the whole situation and could only protect her weak self with her son.
Finally, Lin Pingzhi gladly accepted and said that he would accompany his mother. Z1z
, Lin Pingzhi who first appeared on the stage really took up the protagonist's edge. The intelligent mother, responsible father, and naive and chivalrous son have to say that this is a very healthy and perfect family combination.
In the modern family, an absent father, a JiaoThe worried mother and an invisible son caused tragedies one after another.
And Lin Pingzhi's family is perfect because the father has taken on his father's responsibilities, and he will also pay attention to the child's mental health while teaching his son. The mother's timely display of weakness and gentleness and relief, no matter how complicated things can be wiped out in the mother's tenderness.
Children only need to grow up slowly. Parents allow their children to make mistakes and encourage them to take responsibility for their own mistakes. At the same time, the parents will take responsibility with him.
is just that, Lin Pingzhi, who was just out of the world, may have made a mistake for the first time, but it was also the last time someone paid for his mistake.
