saw a question from a netizen: "What are the mothers-in-laws who divorced their sons and clamored that "get away and marry better" now?"
is a bit outrageous at first. How could such a mother bend her son to divorce? What? In fact, it does. Some, the wife is in good condition in all aspects. This is the case with my friend Li Qing. Her marriage was almost destroyed by her mother-in-law. Although her husband is just a phoenix man, the house and car they married were all from their family. The mother-in-law didn’t appreciate it, and she still felt that the daughter-in-law had climbed up her son . ：Z3z
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may be because I have been relatively rich in material since I was a child, and I did not put the material conditions in the first few places when choosing objects. My parents have already prepared a car and house for me, and there is nothing missing. I just want to find a man who agrees. .
The conditions for my choice of a spouse are:
1: I like 2: Like me 3: Treat people sincerely.
did not consider any house or car.
I met the person I like most during the season of love. He is tall and handsome, works hard, lives frugally, lives in company dormitories, and wears evening clothes, but the parents are good, even if they wear dozens of dollars The T-shirt also exudes great charm.
I was deeply attracted. At a company party, we were the host together. He couldn't even bring out a decent dress. That time I accompanied him to choose the clothes. He only wanted to choose two hundred yuan. I gave him a set of two thousand clothes.
He refused to accept it, I insisted on buying it.
On that day, we talked a lot. He said that my eldest miss did not know Chai Migui. He had younger siblings in high school and college, and he needed to send money home.
I learned about the financial distress in his family, and I renewed my respect for him.
In the subsequent interactions, we naturally walked together. He was worried that my parents would despise him for being poor. My parents did despise him for being poor. But I really like him. Plus he is handsome and talkative. My parents objected. It was not particularly intense, and it was later acquiesced.
parents have only one condition: I only hope that he can treat me well for a lifetime. When
got married, my parents-in-law invited many relatives and friends to attend the wedding. All the hospitality expenses were paid by my family, and my mother-in-law received gifts. When we entertained relatives in the big house we bought, the mother-in-law was very proud, as if it was her. It's like a house.
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After marriage, the mother-in-law was reluctant to leave. It happened that my uncle was in college in our city. The mother-in-law wanted to live here. I could see my uncle every other time, and the house was enough to live in, so I had no objection.
thought she would take care of everything so that we young people would have time to better work and study. Unexpectedly, I had to take care of the housework when I came back from work. She occasionally cooks noodles.
I think the country folks have this habit. They are thrifty and don’t know how to cook complicated dishes. It’s not too late for me to get off work. I just cook it myself. Later, when my uncle came back on the weekend, I realized that my mother-in-law didn’t know how to cook. , I just don't want to cook, when my uncle came back, he cooked a big table.
later heard that she called her old family and realized that she thought that I was not at home, so she complained to her relatives that I was lazy, saying how her son worked hard until ten o’clock every day, and I got off work at five o’clock. If she wants her to do it, she just won't do it, let's see what this lazy wife does!
turned out to be because her son has worked longer than me and complained about his son.
Immediately afterwards, I was pregnant. My mother felt that I had to go to work with both bodies. The mother-in-law of was unable to do housework, so she went to find a babysitter. The mother-in-law was not happy at first sight, so she fired the babysitter and said me Mom's move was just to slap her in the face, thinking that she was not doing housework and eating idle meals, so she wanted to drive her away.
was going to have a baby later, and I ordered a confinement, and my mother-in-law got a little hairy as soon as I heard about 8,000 in January, "Isn’t it robbed of money for 8,000 in January? My son has worked so hard to make money, so he gave it to others for nothing? My mother-in-law didn’t take care of my confinement. I took care of myself. Now I am not here to take care of you? Please give me the money if you have the money and don’t spend it!” Z3z
Her son is very good, I don’t deserve her son, but I don’t want to think that my family lives in my house.With my car, the house alone costs millions, my husband only took a few thousand more than me in January.
After having a baby, she insisted on bringing the baby in the way my husband was a kid. She didn’t listen to anything. For this reason, she quarreled several times. My husband swayed among us, and talked to me in the bedroom. Her mother, let her mother listen to me when it comes to bringing children, but when he gets to his mother's side, it becomes listen to the fuck, say me.
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I decided to let my mother-in-law go home. I can either find a nanny or ask my mother for help. Anyway, I can't stay in the same room with my mother-in-law.
Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law made a fuss and insisted that my husband take me off. That’s right, that’s what I said. A woman like me who didn’t respect the elderly had been taken off long ago. She said her son graduated from college and worked in a big company. There are so many women, but still worry about not getting a better one?
I was always facing her mother when I was fair, but this time I stood firmly on my side. Z2z said that his mother was fooling around, and marriage means divorce, and the children are there.
disregarded her mother-in-law's mischief and sent her away. Never let her over again. The husband of
also realized that his mother was very confused in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. No matter what her mother said, she still wanted to come to the city, so she never let her come again.
I did not go home during the New Year, and my husband did not ask me. After the baby was older, my husband took the baby home to see the elderly.
My husband and I said that in the future, my mother-in-law will provide for the elderly, and I will only be responsible for paying the money. If he is willing to take care of him, he will go back by himself.
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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an age-old problem. The love for the same man has become a bond between two women and a point of contradiction. In the eyes of mother-in-law, 's own children are good, and children who look at others always feel that Full of shortcomings, completely unworthy of his own children.
As in the article, the heroine marries a man under the condition that she is obviously superior to the man, but she is still looked down upon by her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law ignores the house and car the woman gave out.
only sees that his son works harder than his daughter-in-law, earning thousands of dollars a month, and feels his son's authority at home is beyond doubt.
Regardless of who pays more financially, a family is originally bound by love. Even if the daughter-in-law is inferior to the son in all aspects, it is the son's choice. As the elders, you should not make any comments on your son's marriage. The son should not be divorced.
all said, "I would rather demolish ten temples than destroy a marriage", let alone the marriage of my son!
The mother-in-law is embarrassed in her own life and can't understand the superior life of her daughter-in-law. In fact, there is also jealousy in it. People will not be jealous of people who have nothing to do with them, but will only be jealous of those around them.
Her own life is embarrassing, and the environment of her children's growth has been embarrassed. She looks at her daughter-in-law's dignity, and her heart is extremely unbalanced.
And her Phoenix male son is naturally the proud son of the village. He must have been praised and envied by many people when he grew up. As a mother, she has always been proud in her heart. If faced with the superior environment of her daughter-in-law, her pride will suddenly Being pressed hard on the ground, he could only unconsciously raise his son's relatively superior point: a little higher salary than his wife!
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you must keep a certain distance if you want to get along well. Don’t interfere with your child’s marriage. If you divorce because of your parents’ intervention, your future marriage will be unfortunate. Leaving, this old man will not be happy in his old age, and it will certainly cause complaints from the child's partner.
is a wise old man:
1: take an objective and rational attitude towards the marriage of children.
2: No matter how your child is in a state of "suffering" in the marriage, don't intervene. As long as the child is willing, that is his happiness.
3: As long as the child has not really broken up and has applied for a divorce certificate, it is best not to fall out with the child’s partner. As long as there is a chance, the children will reconcile again. If the couple can reconcile, the mother-in-law will not. As long as there are contradictions, it will be a lifetime.
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