文|Xueluowuchen
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once watched a video like this. There was a couple who had just been together and was going on a first date. Before dating
, the boy woke up early and started to clean up himself and change his sloppy habits.
He brushed his teeth several times, worked on his hairstyle for more than half an hour, and then started rummaging through boxes and cabinets looking for suitable clothes. He tried several sets, but he was not very satisfied. After
finally got dressed, he started cutting his fingernails, spraying perfume, taking pictures in front of the mirror, and shaking his head dissatisfied.
arrived at the appointment time in a blink of an eye, and he hurried over, twenty minutes earlier than the agreed time. He waited boringly. While waiting, he checked his clothes and hairstyle from time to time. The girl
showed up at the agreed time. Seeing the boy, she asked: "Have you waited a long time?" However, the boy said indifferently: "No, I got up and came here just after I got up. Time." The
girl smiled and nodded. He raised his hand as if asking for credit, and said with a smile: "Look at my nails, are they doing it clean?"
then felt that his behavior was not very appropriate. , He lowered his head shyly. The girl quickly smiled and held his hand, and replied: "Clean and clean, don't you hold it when you see it?" The two of
looked at each other and smiled, the sweet breath seemed to overflow the screen.
love is like this. The more "careful" a man is in front of you, the more he loves you.
Boys are cautious in their feelings, which makes people feel that they are not humble, but cute. At the beginning of the relationship, the cautious behavior of the other party is actually an expression of true love.
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, the famous French writer Hugo once said: "The omen of true love is timidity in boys, and boldness in girls." This is true for
.
If two people have not known each other for a long time, the other person will start pursuing you with all kinds of sweet words. Although love words are beautiful, they do not necessarily mean treasure.
treats you this way, and treats other people the same way. Without discrimination, how can love be expressed?
You have to understand that in love, the "faster" the man is, the less sincere he is to you.
Meng Lin and her boyfriend met during a hot summer vacation. At that time, Meng Lin had nothing to do, so she wanted to find a part-time job in a nearby milk tea shop, so she met her boyfriend.
He also works part-time in the milk tea shop and stays in the shop with Meng Lin every day. Meng Lin is very beautiful and has a very good body. There are many suitors around her.
exchanged contact information. Because they met every day and chatted too frequently, they soon got together.
In the first period of time, her boyfriend treated Meng Lin very well, putting her first in everything, and would inadvertently say some nasty love words or promises. The freshness of
made Meng Lin indulged, and the relationship between the two quickly heated up, and further relationships took place. The day when
had a relationship, the two had just been together for a month. The fake name of her boyfriend is that this is a sense of ritual, and Meng Lin, who was dazzled by love, did not realize the danger of this behavior. During the time of
, the relationship between the two people seems to have become better. They are stuck together almost every day, and no one can do without. Just when Meng Lin had begun to plan the lives of two people, her boyfriend's attitude towards her suddenly changed.
At that time, they had had a relationship many times. The change in her boyfriend's attitude left Meng Lin at a loss. The sudden coldness caused Meng Lin to collapse, but she did not dare to break up. The relationship between
has continued to ossify, and the two people's treatment of this relationship is much worse than before.
Until that time, Meng Lin and her girlfriend were shopping and saw her boyfriend being with another person, holding hands, like a loving couple. Meng Lin didn't go up to find him crying, as if she hadn't seen it, she went straight over. When
returned home at night, Meng Lin sent him a news of breaking up and blocked him.
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If at the beginning, the other party's performance is not cautious, but full of love, all kinds of sultry, such a man, to a large extent does not love you.
If he really loves you very much, you are ten in his heartHoly. He didn't even dare to think about you, he just wanted to protect you and take care of you carefully.
Some people quarrel because of the serious relationship between the other party's first love, have you ever wondered why most people have such a deep feeling for their first love, and they still don't forget the breakup for more than ten years?
is largely because, with his first love, that was the first time he truly loved someone and wanted to protect someone carefully.
With the changes in the world, various helplessness in life separate the two people, but although they are separated, the feeling for the first love is the softest and cleanest partner in my heart.
People who have a serious first love complex have lost the feeling of truly loving someone.
No matter what, in your relationship, you must protect yourself. Even if two people get together soon, don't answer the various requests of the other party as soon as possible.
After confirming that the other party really loves you, it is not too late to develop.
What's more, how can someone who truly loves you be forced?
So, how do we recognize people in love? Wouldn't you be hurt by loving the wrong person? I hope you, who are feeling lost in love, can read this set of adult psychology books.
This is a set of books with the theme of love. Love is actually a science. Don't think that you can manage love well with your heart. It also needs some suitable methods and proper handling methods.
For example, how do you get along with the people you like? For example, what kind of mentality should I use to love someone? If the way is right, your road to love will be smooth, and if you use the wrong way, you will miss love.
hope that you can be a person who really understands love. After reading this set of books, you can harvest your sweet love.
