gave birth to a daughter and was discharged home. The husband slapped the door, but the mother-in-law yelled from the house: "You can come in quietly from behind! I'm so embarrassed to make such a big movement outside! I know you're back! It's glorious to have a baby, isn't it?" The youngest daughter of
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was born in the winter of the 1990s.
In Lao Wang's memory, that winter was the coldest winter in his life.
On that day, when the child in Suzhen’s stomach landed, Old Wang, oh no, it should have been Xiao Wang back then. When the young second-born father, Xiao Wang, heard the doctor say: "It's a girl," he just felt that a scoop of cold water poured on him from head to toe. It was not only a heart-breaking cold, but a biting cold!
"How can I explain it to the family?" Xiao Wang muttered to himself. For a while, he didn't know that he took the baby from the nurse, and he didn't remember to see the parturient who was still lying on the delivery bed, standing in despair. There.
Little (old) Wang has three older sisters and one younger sister, who is the only male in the family.
When Suzhen gave birth to her eldest daughter, although her parents-in-law, who was first grandparents, were a little disappointed, she was still able to take care of Suzhen in her confinement.
At that time, they were full of hope: "Flower first, then bear fruit! Good training and nourishment, and strive to have a son in the next child!" All expectations of
were shattered when Suzhen gave birth to a young daughter. In the era of
, most people simply did not have the courage to fight three children.
When Xiao Wang tied the scooter carrying his wife and children to the rear frame of the bicycle by himself, and braved the wind and snow to pull it home, the door of the house was closed.
Xiao Wang slapped the door hard, but he heard his mother yell in the house: "You can come in quietly from behind! I'm so embarrassed to make such a big movement outside! I'm afraid that people don't know that you are back! I can't give birth. It’s pretty glorious, isn’t it?”
At that time, the young Wang really felt that not giving birth to a grandson to his parents was the greatest debt to his parents. The pallet behind the bicycle hunched its back and pulled the pallet toward the backyard door, but the wicket was too narrow for the pallet to pass through.
Suzhen had no choice but to wrap her head tightly around her daughter, and slip off the cart. The wind mixed with snow particles made Suzhen's face aching and painful. Suzhen had no other care, and hurriedly hugged her daughter from behind. The wicket is small.
Xiao Wang hurried to the kitchen, ready to get some food for Suzhen.
The cold pot and stove in the kitchen don’t even have a bite of rice, so it’s cleaner than a dog.
opened the cupboard, only a stack of bowls and plates, with dim light, coldly looking at Xiao Wang.
A family’s food, cooking can’t be so accurate. Every day leftovers are leftovers. My old lady has always been frugal. She has never given up any leftover soup after every meal. The old lady
walked in and said angrily to her son: "Don't look for it! Pour everything that hasn't been eaten to Wangcai!" Xiaowang
glanced at the kitchen, and didn't let every corner, except for the radish in the basket. Cabbage, I didn’t see any meaty things: "Suzhen wants to breastfeed. Give me some money to buy a hoof..."
At that time in the countryside, most of the households were headed by old people, even if there were no young ones who wanted to marry, son It will take a few years for the daughter-in-law to take charge of the economy, not to mention that there is a little girl in the family. It is naturally impossible for Xiao Wang to take over the family power from his father.
When Suzhen gave birth to the baby until she was discharged from the hospital, no one in the family took a look, let alone the money.
Xiao Wang's little pocket money, which was finally mixed with fish and shrimp, barely settled the childbirth account, now his pocket is cleaner than his face.
The water in the eaves is dripping in the old nest.
The old lady was pickled by her mother-in-law after giving birth to three daughters, and now she finally has a place to vent: "Money, money, money! I know I want money! The little money that I dig in the ground, this family eats and drinks Lazarus Not enough, where can I find free money to buy trotters? Find a way to go! Who made her not capable of giving birth to a son? This is not before, but she can fight for three and four children? This family is considered to be in her hands! Money, even if you have money, you still have to keep it to me, Liu Liu recruits son-in-law's son-in-law to pass on from generation to generation!"
Liu Liu is Xiao Wang's younger sister.
Xiao Wang really didn't expect that the status of his only child in the family fell drastically because of the second birth of a daughter, and even the words of leaving the younger sister at home to recruit a son-in-law were released.
Xiao Wang felt wronged,Without arguing with the old mother, he picked up the shovel and the fish and went out against the wind and snow. The old mother
jumped and roared in the back: "It's in the ice and snow, where are the fish waiting for you to go to the net? Give me back! She only has carrots and cabbage for a few girls!" "I gave it to my daughter-in-law without reservation. She knew that the daughter-in-law who was sleeping in the room must have received her heirloom quotations without missing a word.
Xiao Wang ignored his old mother's words and left in a hurry.
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Xiao Wang, who has always been spending money by fishing and prawns, is very good at fishing and prawns. He knows where and what fish are in the ditch outside the village.
When Xiao Wang rushed into the yard from the wind and snow, carrying a bag of lively fat crucian carp, it was impossible to say that he was angry.
Xiao Wang saw Suzhen wrapped in a headscarf, braving the wind and snow next to the well in the hospital, washing the bed linen and clothes that were soiled when giving birth in the hospital. (At that time, the rural hospitals always brought their own bedding, and under the conditions at the time, the bedding could not be replaced at all. Unless it was so bad that it was not usable, it would not buy a new one).
Clothes with blood stains cannot be washed with hot water, otherwise, the blood stains will condense on the clothes and can no longer be washed clean, so Suzhen washes them in cold water.
Xiao Wang ran over to grab Suzhen's blood-stained linen and clothes. The old lady who was roasting in the hall came over and pushed Xiao Wang three feet away: "Are you crazy? How can a man touch these? Filthy thing? Are you trying to save a lifetime of mold? Just for a girl movie?"
"Then...you help...wash it?" Xiao Wang's timid voice was weak and weak like an autumn mosquito.
"I wash?" The old lady gritted her teeth and said, "You see you were the first one I washed for you? Did you know that if I wash these things for you, she will suffer retribution! Going there in the future, She will always kneel in front of me, and she will never be overborn!" Although Xiao Wang knew that this was an old lady's stubborn fallacy, he wanted to ask: "Don't you want to be overborn in the future and wait for her?"
After all, the rebellious words were still not said.
was stunned for a moment, Xiao Wang still remembered the business, bent down, and picked up the crucian carp that was jumping on the snow.
Suzhen continued to bury her head and wash the "filth" in the mother-in-law's mouth. Z1z
Mother-in-law's behavior, Suzhen, is not very concerned, but her husband allowed her to continue washing clothes, but Suzhen's heart was frozen in the snow.
A scent of fish came, and Suzhen heard the family noisily surrounding the dining table in the room.
Suzhen put her arms around her little daughter, watching her close her eyes and vigorously instigating the milk that was still just a little clear water, she couldn't help but looked at the door anxiously, hoping that the milky crucian would come in quickly.
"What to grab?" The old lady's voice reached Suzhen's ears again with a strong beak: "Why can she eat so much by herself?"
"Humph!" Suzhen heard the man squeeze from her nose. There was such a sound, followed by the sound of a bowl stomping on the dinner table.
Suzhen feels even cooler. She has never seen her man confront his old wife. She is a real mom.
Suzhen put her little daughter on the bed, ready to get up and go out. If
is only because of herself, she will never fight with anyone for a bite, even if she does not starve to death.
However, at this time, for her daughter, she is bound to go out to grab some fish and a bowl of soup by herself. Before
waited for her foot to hit the ground, she saw the man stepping into the door with a bowl full of fish.
kicked the door shut and closed it.
There was silence outside, and it was probably Xiao Wang's behavior that shocked his old mother.
"Forget it! Eat!" The highest official of the family who rarely speaks said: "This fish was originally made specially for milking the moon mother and her son." Although the old lady
is domineering in front of the children, she always crosses. But the majesty of a man in charge.
Suzhen couldn't take care of other things, so she ate most of a bowl of fish in one meal, and in the end she drank a big bowl of thick white soup, which made her belly bloated.
originally thought it was going to cause an uproar because of the fish, but it was beyond Suzhen's expectation, and the night was calm. The
family of four, squeezed in a light quilt without a bed sheet, was not cold at all.
Especially in the middle of the night, Suzhen saw her daughter came to this world’s first real milk because she had eaten it.When I was full and sweet, the ice in my heart cracked and melted bit by bit.
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The next day, Suzhen caught a bad cold with a cough.
Xiao Wang went to the hospital and bought cough medicine. Soon, the Suzhen fever subsided, but she always felt that the throat was sweeping like chicken feathers, and she couldn't help coughing from time to time.
Xiao Wang used the cough relieving remedies commonly used in the country to fry cough water, and it was finally slightly effective. Suzhen slowly stopped coughing.
Whether it is sunny or snowing, Xiao Wang can use his own unique fishing skills to fish up all kinds of fat fish, and even dig out the eels that are rare in this season in the small ditch where only mud is left. Apart from leaving some for Suzhen to eat alone, the rest was sold and exchanged for trotters, chicken, duck, ribs, etc., for Suzhen to change his taste.
After a month, Suzhen is finally out of confinement. The catch is that Suzhen always feels itchy throat and coughs from time to time. The
little girl film also grows into a cute little meat ball.
Xiao Wang held his little daughter with his cracked hands, full of sense of accomplishment.
Suzhen saw her mother-in-law staring at her husband and her little daughter's crooked husband, and quickly reached out to take her daughter over.
On this day, Xiao Wang’s sisters seemed to have made an appointment, and they went back to her natal house together, and they also spent the night together in her natal house for the first time. It was night at
. After Sozhen washed her two daughters early, she cuddled up on the bed and teased them. She didn't bother to mix with the big family.
suddenly heard the sound of desks and chairs overturning outside, and roared with Xiao Wang: "Whoever dares to move my girl, who I will fight! If you don't believe me, try it!"
finished speaking, rushed into the bedroom, and brought in one The cold wind in the house.
"What?" Suzhen asked the man.
Xiao Wanghong stared, "They want to give Xiao Xiao away!" The second girl named Xiao Xiao.
Suzhen suddenly resembled an angry lioness: "Who dare? Unless I am dead!" When
is treating her daughter, the couple coincided with each other. The united front is Tietie's best ally.
At this moment, besides anger, Suzhen also trusts in men: Although he may not be a good husband, he will definitely be a good father. The two daughters are the strongest rope, which binds them tightly.
Others, nothing to fear. Two people with hands and feet can raise their two daughters, not only to raise them, but to raise them well. The cadres in the village came to inform Suzhen to do the ligation. Her mother-in-law jumped her feet to stop her. Suzhen got in the car without looking back and underwent the ligation without hesitation.
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People look at Xiao Wang's eyes full of disdain: This wimpy man can neither break his old wife nor hold his wife. He is destined to be a top spot that even a wrestler will not have in the next 100 years.
The old lady often criticizes the sanghuai at home.
Suzhen still tolerated at first, but later she couldn't bear it any more and she started to resist.
Since then, this family has started the village's first mother-in-law battle with the most serious plot. Before
, although the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often had a little friction, they were not like Pixie Zhen. They always pointed the needle to the wheat mang at every turn, and almost did it several times. The mother-in-law of
is a fierce character, knowing that she can't make a deal with her shrewd daughter-in-law on her own, so she changes her strategy and tactics and wins her son into her ally.
is the meat that fell from the old lady. Xiao Wang saw that the old lady didn't want to give the little daughter away, and he forgave the old lady's ignorance. In the early days of the battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Xiao Wang always maintained a neutral attitude, not partial or partial.
However, since the old lady changed her tactics, pretended to be pitiful in front of her son, and pretended to be a pitiful mother-in-law, over time, Xiao Wang began to feel a little bit as strong as his wife's righteousness.
Later, under the instigation of my old mother, Xiao Wang expressed dissatisfaction with his wife’s many behaviors. Even when Suzhen once again complained about the cough in the confinement, Xiao Wang said that he would not carry the pot: "Confinement If you have a cold and cough, it’s your own bad luck, you can’t always blame others! My mom said, she gave birth to us back then, didn’t have a day of confinement, so she’s still fine?”
Suzhen shivered with anger. Pointing to Xiao Wang just kept shaking, just couldn't say a word.
Xiao Wang gradually fainted in Suzhen's knife-like eyes.
But Su ZhenxinThe ice tufts in the area that had melted away, gathered a little bit and grew bigger.
However, she never thought about divorcing and leaving home.
No matter how bad this family is, there is a father of her child. At
, where there is a child's father, Suzhen recognizes it even if she lives on a steel knife. For her daughter, Suzhen is like a warrior in armor, who never goes and fights.
Moreover, Suzhen also sighed: she must be a good student for her children, so that the two daughters will be successful in the future, and let those who once laughed at her for not giving birth to a son, see that there is no difference between a daughter and a son.
This is also the advantage of married couples, Suzhen sees it thoroughly: men are the most unreliable creatures. A man who gave his youth and gave birth to a few children, even if he treats himself this way, can he expect to meet someone who treats him well to his children after his divorce? Don't be whimsical! As long as the children are raised by relatives, they can grow up happily. After the sister-in-law of
got married, Xiao Wang finally inherited the position of head of the family and became the head of the family.
He wants to be a fair family member, the first thing is to ask his wife to let her mother-in-law be more respectful to the elderly.
has a fearless provocation against her mother-in-law, so Suzhen naturally refuses to accept her, and her mother-in-law wars more and more frequently. Xiao Wang was dissatisfied with his wife's ignorance of the prestige of her own family. Over time, under the pitiful acting skills of the old mother, the balance of the family slowly tilted towards the old mother.
may be the attitude of the husband favoring the old lady, or the uncomfortable coughing day by day, or even both. Suzhen hated her husband in her heart, and the original feelings of husband and wife slowly faded and dissipated in Suzhen's heart.
Xiao Wang also felt aggrieved: I can't count the patriarchal account of my old lady! Apart from quarreling with my mother all day long, the nose is not the nose and the face is not the face. What do you want to do?
The good news from the two daughters at school is the infinite motivation of Xiao Wang. He worked hard, not only farming, but also working hard outside, wholeheartedly asking his two daughters to study well. , Yixue was ashamed of others bullying his family without a son. The
couple coincided again. In this family, children can always be the best bond to maintain the relationship between husband and wife.
Suzhen hates her, but never lacks food, drink and clothes for her in-laws. Even if the mother-in-law had just quarreled with her, Suzhen still told her daughter: "Go! Call your grandma to eat! I have enough strength to fight with me again!" Z1z
Xiaoxiao still didn't understand: "You It’s not bad for grandma, but why do you always quarrel with her?"
Suzhen smiled: "She loves to quarrel with me to accompany me! Work while arguing and carry things with you! There is no delay!" Z1z
mother and When her grandmother expresses her incomprehension, or even reveals her disgust, Suzhen can't bear it anymore, and she tells her the main reason for their family conflicts.
Xiaoxiao blinked: "Where is my dad? What is my dad doing? Why doesn't he stop his grandma from doing this?"
hates her husband for always favoring his old mother, Suzhen casually said something ambiguous: "He As patriarchal as your grandmother, I just want to have a son!" These words of
are what Suzhen said casually when she was in a bad mood, but Xiao Xiao kept it in her heart and gradually became indifferent to her father.
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The parents-in-law are really old, so old that the mother-in-law no longer has the strength to fight with Suzhen, and people have to bring them into the room for meals.
Suzhen cooks and always throws it there. Even if her husband is busy, she has to wait for her husband to bring it into the in-laws’ room.
seems to be the only way to do so, so that Suzhen can feel that she has not lost to her mother-in-law and wins a round, and feels a little smoother.
Suzhen will never give her mother-in-law laundry the quilt. The enmity in the confinement of
is constantly reminded by the pain of coughing over the years, and Suzhen will never forget it in her life.
The girls and sisters inevitably have to take turns to change the clothes and quilts for the old lady, and inevitably take the opportunity to arrange Suzhen.
seems to say that if one person says you’re wrong, it doesn’t mean you’re wrong; if two people say you’re wrong, then it’s worth considering; when
and three people say you’re wrong, then it’s a lot of money. You are really the wrong person.
's arrangement of the four sisters, big and small, has once again blurred the position of the head of the family, who has entered middle age and turned from Xiao Wang to Lao Wang.
He forgot the most important one, that is, the four sisters can only be counted as one person at best. They all have a common goal: to protect their old mother, and other things are ignored.
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At this time, because Lao Wang has changed from his usual ambiguity to haha and turned to the camp of his siblings to defend his mother, Suzhen's heart is cold again.
Lao Wang stepped on his husband and wife relationship, and finally won the crown of a filial son. The relationship between the
couple can be imagined.
However, no matter how cold the relationship between husband and wife is, it does not affect their enthusiasm. For the common goal of becoming a child, the two have never had any disagreements.
Later, the parents-in-law passed away, and the family finally calmed down. The two daughters did not live up to Suzhen's patience and humiliation over the years. They were admitted to a key university, the lintel of Lao Wang’s family, and the daughters’ college notice arrived. At that time, the brilliance reached the extreme. With excellent grades, the daughters of
severely slapped those shallow people who laughed at this family without a son.
Sozhen and his wife are finally exuberant in the village. Pharaoh walked and hummed a little song, venting his beautiful mood of life without regrets everywhere.
Old Wang thought, now it's time to have a good time with Suzhen. He planned to make good compensation to Suzhen when he was young.
Although Pharaoh has always used Harmony to coax her on family issues, but Pharaoh has a book in his heart and clearly remembers Suzhen's grievances.
Therefore, in certain sections, Lao Wang's strength towards his elder mother and sisters is often closed. Anyway, Su Zhen is not that kind of careful eye.
Look at Suzhen, who usually quarrels with her old mother and refuses to admit defeat. She treats the old couple three meals a day, and clothes for the four seasons are all neatly prepared. There is never a shortage of tea and one meal. A thread and a thread.
Even the second sister who loves to pick things up, every time she goes back to her family's house and chats with people, she says that Suzhen is not forgiving except her lips and her face is too cold, so she doesn't have to pick anywhere else.
Old Wang always thinks that the couple will have a long time in Japan, and there will be opportunities for Suzhen in the future.
Ke Suzhen's resentment towards her husband has not decreased but increased.
is all because of that damn cough.
Suzhen is not as good as Lao Wang thought, she feels that her life milestone has reached the end perfectly.
Next, it's time to settle accounts with Lao Wang Qiuhou. (Novel name: "month of disease," the authors: from ending. [Public number: dudiangushi Prohibited reprint)
