, once something like love occurs between two people, it will definitely reveal some "clues" to it.
Some people say that the young boys and girls who are in love at the beginning don't know how to cover up. If you are in love or hate, everyone in the world can know that mature middle-aged people are more subtle and restrained in this respect!
is actually not the case. In middle age, even if you really love someone deliberately to keep a low profile, there will be a "response" in the end. This is an instinct inspired by emotions. No one can escape this natural law.
01. If you love someone, you will not "understand" to reject
middle-aged men and women. If you love someone, you will not "understand" to reject.
When facing the request of the woman he admires, a man will not give a negative answer, no matter from words to actions.
because they understand very well that as long as they do this, the bridge between him and the other party will be immediately broken.
Middle-aged men and women are both very sensible and practical. When faced with an opposite sex who is unwilling to help themselves when they make a request that is not excessive, women will understand that this means that the other party has no special affection and interest in them. .
If a woman at this age meets the pursuit of the opposite sex and does not have a special affection for the other party, she will definitely not accept the other party's confession in a vague manner, but will reject it in time. Although
may not express it so straightforwardly, it also uses negative methods such as silence and avoidance to let the other party understand its decision.
But if she also likes this man, she will be more reserved, and she will only take a proper attitude. She will not always refuse the invitation of the other party to date, let alone communicate and communicate with the other party, because she is afraid that she will miss the opportunity .
02. Sincerely like someone, there will be physical reactions
Don’t think that once you have experienced failed relationships and marriages, middle-aged people will become insensitive and indifferent to the opposite sex they like.
really likes a person, there will still be physical reactions. For example, when you see the other person, you will be shy, blush, etc. This is a derivative that will be reflected in men and women as things like love come into being. Product.
Therefore, despite the experience of time and experience in life, middle-aged men and women are no longer as young and immature as they were when they were young, their personalities have become much more stable, and their understanding of love and marriage Understanding is also much more rational and realistic than when I was young.
But when they really like a person of the opposite sex, they will still involuntarily have physical reactions such as rapid heartbeat, helplessness, shyness, and flushing when facing each other.
will make them unable to control their inner tension and excitement when they face each other because of their sincere liking. If they can't keep calm and rational, they will involuntarily make these reactions.
03. When chatting, there is always a desire to share.
I have already emphasized that middle-aged people are very practical and realistic.
When they get along with and chat with their friends on a general level, they will know how to grasp the sense of proportion and will not add unnecessary burden to each other. Most of
will have things to say, and on top of this, they will say some social rhetoric that is courteous and polite. But middle-aged men and women who really like each other are different.
When they chat, they always want to share.
is like a child or a young man and woman. I really want to share all kinds of fresh and interesting things that I find at any time, some things that happen to me, my inner thoughts, joy or sad emotions, etc., to each other in time.
builds a special intimacy with each other by sharing and accepting these more personal and private things, and then responding to the moment, so that the relationship between the two parties can enter a kind of interpersonal and friendship relationship beyond ordinary Until a state of boyfriend and girlfriend.
This is a process that all people who fall in love must go through, I believe everyone will not be unfamiliar.
Concluding remark:
love, no matter what age level it occurs, the way of communication is similar.
If the men and women involved are particularly sensible, calm, and calm, it is no exaggeration to say that there may not be love between them, But out of a kind of cooperation of interests, I feel that two people are more suitable to stay together and establish a combination of emotion and life, each taking what they need, and sharing the cost of survival together.
Strictly speaking, the method of identifying whether there is true love between middle-aged people is also very simple. See if there are any of the above-mentioned obvious "responses" when they communicate and get along. Up.
Love will restore a mature man and woman to a boy and a girl, and none of the reactions that should be shown to fall in love will be absent.
Although men and women in the middle-aged age group, remarriage may not only consider the element of love and non-love, but if there is no feeling of true love, it is purely a very utilitarian and practical attitude to solve their personal problems. The problem is also quite big.
After all, life-long events are not a kind of commercial negotiation. You can't just negotiate terms and see if you can get the most benefit from it. In this way, marriages in the future may be mischievous, full of calculations and precautions.
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