As the saying goes: "Men are not bad, women don't love." In real life, men and women also require certain skills. When some men look very dull when they pursue girls, it is actually a kind of wisdom.
Tennyson once said: “Smart people love more and talk less.”
Not long ago, a reader in the backstage sent me such a letter. The following is the content of her letter:
me and me My husband has known the marriage for 5 years, and he took the initiative to pursue me. Before we got married, the relationship between the two of us was pretty good, but after we got married, I found that I became more and more anxious, especially after giving birth to my child. It's getting more and more unbalanced. In many cases, I would argue with my husband for no reason.
In fact, before we got married, my husband was also bad-tempered. At the beginning, we would have trouble with each other. We had to get divorced several times, but after getting married, I found that he was treating me better and better.
Every time he quarrels, he will be patient to coax me, and every time he makes a mistake, he will act like a baby with me. To be honest, every time I see him like this, I can’t bear to lose my temper. .
After listening to her story, maybe everyone will have a trace of feeling in their hearts. In real life, there may be many people who have encountered the same problem.
A man who really loves you will know how to understand your temper. A man who doesn’t love you will only think about himself. Some men look silly and stupid, but when dealing with husband and wife issues, they also There will be their own tricks, and it is often such a man that will make your husband and wife relationship more harmonious.
01. Confused men are not confused
Zhang Ailing once said: "Because of love, so compassion; because of understanding, so tolerant."
In real life, whether it is a couple or a couple.
Once two people get to know each other more and more, there will be a lot of conflicts, because after the formal communication, we may find that the other party is not as perfect as we imagined, but when you think about it, Jin Wuzhuang No one is perfect. Who is perfect in this world?
Some men like to pretend to be confused in their married life. No matter what a woman asks him, he will follow suit. Sometimes he even pretends to be crazy and stupid. Some women think that such a husband is not reliable at all, because when When he was talking to him about business, he never listened carefully.
But in fact, such men are the smartest. Confused men are not confused. The most fundamental reason why some men are unwilling to communicate with you directly is because they are afraid of conflict.
Because a woman’s temperament is like this, it burns at one point. When two people are discussing, if the scene is too intense, then conflicts will inevitably erupt in the end. Men and women must learn to avoid contradictions in the process of communication. Can make your relationship more ease.
Some men pretend to be confused in marriage, the most fundamental reason is because he does not want to lose you, he does not want more conflicts between you, and such men are full of wisdom.
When a man pretends to be confused in front of you, it is a way for him to maintain a marriage. When two people are together, one person must surrender. The man's approach is to reduce conflicts.
02. A man who knows how to behave like a baby is smarter.
Men are sometimes also older children. Although they may be very strong in the eyes of outsiders, they will also behave as childish as children in front of the people they like.
When a man plays coquettishly in front of you, he actually hopes to get more attention from you, because when men go out, they will also face a lot of troubles and boredom in life. When faced with work pressure, they also have a heart There will be unspeakable pain.
At this time, what they can rely on most is their wife and the women around them. When a man knows how to act like a baby, the relationship between the two of you can develop more harmoniously.
Some men look aloof at home, and women are actually disgusted with such men.
When a man knows how to act like a baby to you,On the contrary, it will be more lovely. Women are soft-hearted animals, so when facing men, they will naturally let him go.
Why are many women willing to give for a man unconditionally? The most fundamental reason for
is that this man knows how to consider their inner feelings, how to communicate with them correctly, and how to be submissive, so the man who acts like a baby in front of you loves you, and this is also a way of expressing love. the way.
03. The man who is willing to accommodate you loves you the most.
For a woman, the accommodation of a man to her is the best betrothal gift in her life. When a man is willing to accommodate you, it also represents his love for you. .
Marriage life is not easy, it is related to more firewood, rice, oil and salt, and conflicts between the two will erupt due to various trivialities in life. At this time, someone needs to stand up to alleviate this conflict, and a man's accommodation to you is also It represents his love for you. Although a man like
looks stupid on the surface, he is actually the most intelligent.
In life, marriage is something that each of us must experience, but in marriage, a man’s attitude towards you also determines whether your marriage will be happy.
Tolstoy once said: "Choose what you love, love what you choose."
Every man has his own different attitude after getting married, but the above three kinds of men are actually full of Wisdom, because they know the secret of a happy marriage and know how to bow their heads in marriage.
And the more a man spoils a woman, the happier his married life will be, because a woman eats soft but not hard, and a man’s whispering to them will make a woman even more desperate for you. These three kinds of men seem silly and stupid, but in fact this is also his wisdom.
