text/Time is up
Everyone hopes that the feelings they have given can be responded to, but not all thoughts and feelings have a good response.
You will find that the reason why a woman can give you positive feedback is because she gets positive emotions from you.
Relationship itself is a matter between two people. It doesn’t mean that you have to be with the other person just because you stalk her, nor does it mean that she has to accept it just because you pay for it.
To put it bluntly, if a woman doesn’t find the feeling she wants in you, then no matter how much you pay, it will still be an interruption.
You need to be measured when teasing a woman. If you don't get a response, don't force it. Otherwise, it will only make the other party feel harassed.
Keep a sense of proportion, keep a sense of distance, and remain polite even if you are rejected, so that you can start the next relationship better.
When the other party reacts like this, it means that you are not her type, so you should not continue.
Of course, many men may not understand the subtext of women. It doesn’t matter. Three male readers will use their experiences in relationships to remind you: when flirting with a woman, if you get such a response, stop pestering her.
Zhou Xianming, 28 years old, car salesman: When flirting with a woman, if she shows no interest, it means that she is really not interested in you, so don’t pester her too much.
There is a female colleague in our company that I like very much. I have expressed my feelings to her many times and invited her to have dinner and watch movies with her.
However, without exception, they were all rejected, either because they were a little busy or because they had an appointment at that time.
Although, I felt disappointed and vaguely felt that she was not interested in me, so she refused my invitation.
However, I still comfort myself that only by persisting can we usher in the dawn, and I have never given up.
Recently, I clearly feel that my persistence is wrong, and it seems that my liking has turned into a kind of harassment.
For example, when we met at the company, I wanted to go up and say hello, but she seemed to be running away and passed me quickly.
She seemed unwilling to face me, trying to keep a distance from me, not even willing to say a word.
When other colleagues talked about the two of us, she would try her best to explain that there was no other relationship between us.
Her series of behaviors to avoid suspicion made me suspect that she was not interested in me at all, and my persistence turned into something that troubled her.
I am trapped in a situation where I am moved, but the person involved feels troubled, so my persistence is a kind of entanglement.
Instead of making the situation embarrassing for both people, it is better to let go and return to the relationship of friends.
Zhang Shibin, 30 years old, excavator master: When a woman responds to messages in a perfunctory manner and seems not very willing to communicate, it means that she is not interested in you.
Some time ago, my family introduced me to a female friend from my hometown, so that we could get to know each other.
I knew that my family wanted us to develop the object, so I approached it with this idea at the beginning and wanted to develop it in depth.
Therefore, I took the initiative to contact her, wanting to discover common hobbies, and chatted with her enthusiastically.
However, she didn’t seem to be interested in my topic, and her replies were rather perfunctory, making it difficult for me to continue the topic.
Many times, she would ignore my topics and skip those contents directly, which made me feel very unfulfilled.
Anyway, communicating with her makes me feel physically and mentally exhausted, and I feel like I am struggling to support myself.
I am thinking whether I have affected others, which makes her not interested in my topic at all, and she is not even willing to communicate with me.
Therefore, I stopped chatting with her during this period. If she didn't talk to me for a long time, I would basically judge in my heart that she is not interested in me anymore, and I wouldn't bother her anymore.
I can actually understand how painful it is to have a forced chat with someone you don't like. It must be very painful.
Therefore, when I can understand this feeling myself, I should extend it to others and not make others feel embarrassed.
Wang Zengqiang, 29 years old, financial director: When flirting with a woman, if the other party is always very polite, it means that she has no other thoughts about you.
Anyone who has been in love knows that although both people have a sense of boundaries and are very polite in the beginning, as time goes by they will enter the ambiguous period and there will no longer be such an obvious sense of distance.
If you keep trying to show your kindness, but the other person is always polite and refuses to accept your advances, then stop disturbing them.
People are not interested in you at all. If they are interested in you, they cannot always be like a "sage" and treat you with all the courtesy.
Only if she is not interested in you but is afraid of hurting you or irritating you will she be so polite to you.
But you can't think that this kind of politeness means that the other person is interested in you, or that the other person is too reserved, and then keep increasing the firepower, then you are going in the wrong direction.
Don't be attracted to others just because they have good qualities. This may be an annoyance to others.
Moreover, if the other person is always so polite to you, it shows that the other person is really a very high-quality person, so you should have higher respect for them.
Stop disturbing each other and become a silent presence in the address book, which is a good thing for two people.
After all, business cannot be done with justice, so don’t ruin your reputation because of a relationship.
Time and Emotion Classroom:
When flirting with a woman, if the other party is not interested and responds to messages very perfunctorily; or if she always behaves in a thorough and polite manner, it means that she has no feelings for you.
At this time, don’t continue to disturb us. It is more appropriate to be friends with each other.
Beautiful love is a two-way effort between two people, rather than a unilateral effort.
The wrong person, no matter how much you pay or how long you wait, you will not get the result you want. It is better to let go early and find the woman who will respond to you.
