once again saw the video of the woman who was confirmed to have been abandoned by her mother-in-law and husband, Zhang Mengxue cried so hard that she couldn't help herself.
She cried for the woman in the video, and even more for herself, because she had just experienced this kind of disaster, and her husband also died in her heart during this disaster...

Zhang Mengxue's husband is called Niu Ziru, and he is a civil servant. His salary is not high, but he is more stable.
Zhang Mengxue is a preschool teacher.
They are high school classmates and have always had a good relationship. Even the long-distance relationship during four years of college could not separate them.
After graduating from college, Niu Ziru had the opportunity to stay and work in a big city, but Zhang Mengxue was an only child, and Zhang Mengxue's father and mother preferred that their daughter could stay with them.
Niu Ziru didn't want to give up his love, so he followed Zhang Mengxue's wishes and returned to the county seat, where he was admitted to work within the establishment and became a salary-earning person.
Zhang Mengxue has never forgotten Niu Ziru's sacrifice. Therefore, in life, she will always tolerate his little temper without limit.
Compared with Zhang Mengxue’s family, Niu Ziru’s family situation can only be regarded as average! Both his parents were farmers, and he had a younger brother at home. The fine used up all the family's savings.
Niu Ziru’s living expenses while studying in college depended on his work-study program. Even if he got a salary after working, it was only a drop in the bucket.
His eccentric parents would ask him from time to time to give some money to subsidize his second son who was not doing well.
So when Niu Ziru and Zhang Mengxue got married, their family couldn't even afford a wedding room. Fortunately, Zhang Mengxue's parents were enlightened and did not force their son-in-law to have a house, and even gave them a wedding room as a gift.
After getting married, Niu Ziru will take over his father and mother and live with them.
Although his younger brother is younger than him, he never went to college and got married early. Now his second child is one year older than his own child.
My parents are also getting old. It is really difficult to raise two children for my younger brother at home. Now that I have a family and a stable job, it is time to repay my parents.
Zhang Mengxue has never said that she will not support her parents-in-law, so she has no objection to her parents-in-law coming to live at home. Anyway, the house is big enough, so it is not impossible to live in it.
However, my father-in-law and mother-in-law had only stayed here for half a month before they had to go home. They said they were not used to living here and were trying to hold back their aggrievedness.
Niu Ziru thought Zhang Mengxue was giving them a bad look, so he quarreled with Zhang Mengxue when he got home, saying that since you can't tolerate my parents, you don't have to tolerate me anymore, let's separate!
This was the first time he said they were separated. At that time, Zhang Mengxue's belly was only more than seven months old. She was sad for a long time until her mother-in-law patted him on the shoulder and said to her, "I dare not say anything else, but Ziru is not that kind of person."
"Don't worry, he is just talking. He is a man with a strong sense of responsibility and will not really do anything..."
turned around and punished his son severely. It was not finished until his son apologized to Zhang Mengxue in front of them.
At that time, Niu Ziru's selfish nature had already been revealed. It was a pity that he had enough love and water at that time and didn't think much about it.

Until the national epidemic prevention policy was relaxed this time, there were more and more foreigners around us. Unfortunately, Zhang Mengxue and her two children were all infected.
Because the kindergarten had been on vacation long ago, the father and mother who helped take care of the children returned home. The two children, the elder was eleven years old and the younger was four years old, were taken care of by Zhang Mengxue alone.
My mother-in-law used the excuse that she was not used to it, so she did not come back for the second time after serving her confinement. It was her mother-in-law who always helped.
Let your parents take a break while you have time. After all, they are all in their sixties.
Because she has a child, Zhang Mengxue is very careful when going out and entering, fearing that she will bring back the virus if she ignores it.
It's easy for adults to say that they really can't carry it, but the child is so young, what should I do if he gets infected?
Who knew that things were so small? Why should I be afraid? That afternoon, Erbao first developed a high fever. His face was as red as and apple . When the thermometer was measured, it reached 39.
The child cried and asked him to hold her. She had no choice but to call Niu Ziru while looking for medicine and asked him to bring some vegetables home.
Niu Ziru asked her why she didn’t go out to buy groceries by herself? She told him that Erbao's high fever might be caused by Yang Yang.
"What do you think? You still let me go home when your child is positive. Are you happy that the whole family has been infected?
I have basically had no contact with him in the past two days, so I won't go back. You can take care of them at home. I'll continue to work to earn money to support the family..."
Before Zhang Mengxue could react, the call over there had been hung up. I dialed
again, but no one answered.
Zhang Mengxue no longer had the energy to be angry with him. She found out some antipyretic medicine and gave it to Erbao. She coaxed him to eat some noodles and the three of them ate a meal in a fool's errand.
However, the effect of the medicine was not obvious. At night, Erbao's fever had not gone away. She stayed up all night and wiped the child repeatedly with a wet towel.
Before the child's fever went down, Dabao showed symptoms again. He was so lethargic that he had no energy at all. The temperature was over 38 degrees.
She also didn't dare to take it lightly. There were so many children on the Internet with high fever and convulsions, which made her feel timid. She stared at the two children in turn without even blinking, lest something unexpected happen.
The result of a sleepless night was that the next morning, her head felt dizzy and she felt helpless when walking.
She also fell into the trap.
She braced herself, made some breakfast for the two children, and coaxed them to eat some. Then she called Niu Ziru, asking him to come back to take care of the children and herself.
Who knew that Niu Ziru even fell down when she heard this, and didn't dare to come back:
"Experts have said that this is nothing serious, it's just a bad cold. Let's do this, wife, you can overcome the difficulties and take care of the child by yourself for a few days. What if I get infected when I get home?"
When he heard this, Zhang Mengxue simply wondered why she had forgotten to wear glasses in the first place to fall in love with such an irresponsible guy!
Zhang Mengxue's symptoms seemed to be particularly serious. The two children were active and active after the fever subsided, but she was lying in bed unable to even get up.
My waist hurts as if there is a knife going back and forth in it. It is difficult to even sit up, let alone go out.
She didn't dare to call her parents. They were already old and had underlying diseases. If they had known about it, they would have come to take care of her regardless of the danger. If they were infected again, the gain would not be worth the loss.
Fortunately, Dabao is well-behaved and sensible. Zhang Mengxue does not coddle him at ordinary times, and he can also do basic housework.
Zhang Mengxue instructed Dabao to cook for himself and serve his younger brother, and he just managed to survive for two days.
Zhang Mengxue's condition has not improved, but her fever seems to have gotten worse, and even taking medicine does not work.
Niu Ziru didn't make a single call in the past two days, let alone ask them how they were doing at home.
It is a lie to say that he is not sad. As the saying goes, husband and wife are like birds in the same forest. When disaster strikes, they fly separately. There is no big disaster yet, so he just ignores himself.
On the third day, her mother-in-law called and wanted to talk to her grandson. Erbao then told her grandma that her mother was sick and that she and her brother had just recovered.

"Where is your father? Isn't he at home?"
"Dad said he was afraid of being infected. From the first day we got sick, he never came back..."
Although Zhang Mengxue's mother-in-law usually favors her younger son, , is also very strong, but not an unreasonable person. She also knows that what her son did in this matter is unreasonable. After hearing what her grandson said about this matter, she immediately rushed to the city by car:
"Mengxue, this matter is Ziru's fault. Don't bear any grudge against him, but I think he also has his concerns.
What's more, men should put their career first..."
She had a high fever for two consecutive days, which made Zhang Mengxue's face turn pale. She looked like she was fished out of a beggar's den, with no trace of spiritual energy left in her body.
She listened. Her mother-in-law just smiled bitterly and said nothing more.
Fortunately, her mother-in-law stayed here and her two children were taken care of, so she felt relieved.
At that moment, she was very grateful to her mother-in-law. I wonder how many people in this world can be like her mother-in-law. How can he take care of her regardless of his own danger?
But her mother-in-law is her mother-in-law, and Niu Ziru is Niu Ziru. She has not yet figured out how to face Niu Ziru.
Another five days passed, and Niu Ziru then remembered to call and ask how his family was doing, because if everyone at home turned negative, he could come back.
How can living outside be as comfortable as at home?
Zhang Mengxue did not answer.
Where should such a marriage go? Does she still need to persist?