Why is the divorce rate so high? It's all for these reasons before you get married.
I believe everyone has heard about China’s divorce rate.
In fact, from the data point of view, China’s divorce rate is already a very scary country, and it is definitely among the best internationally.
This phenomenon is actually very strange. The older generation of people in China rarely mention divorce.
Like our parents and grandparents, you can basically live your whole life by marrying just one person.
But we are different now. We get married when we like it, and we get divorced when we don’t like it. Is it love? Rather, it is an impulse. Such emotion itself is not strong.
People today have many changing ideas. They want more and want more, so the material foundation for marriage is very necessary.
Don’t think that love can defeat all love, even the most basic material things.
Many people have been deceived by the stories in the book, thinking that liking someone is sweet even if they are around him no matter how miserable he is. In fact, no matter how deep the love is without money, it is also painful.
Only a life with a certain material foundation can maintain a marriage and maintain the sweetness and memories of the past. Poverty can only make people unbearable and then destroy this love with their own hands.
Remember that love is not romance. The romance you see is just covered with a gorgeous robe on the surface. What is hidden under the robe is money.
Marriage is changeable. Love cannot last long, nor can material things last long. If a marriage wants to last for a long time, it must have a certain financial foundation and the two people must be compatible.
The most important thing in love is mutual respect. I can’t stand today’s social atmosphere, which promotes henpecking.
Various short videos, showing husbands kneeling, cooking humble meals, being bullied, etc. I think this is very disrespectful.
The truth of a marriage that no one would be willing to accept is that they respect each other, men respect women, and women respect men. The two of them work together to help each other.
A good marriage requires the spirit of two people to maintain it. When you are sad, I comfort you, and when I am sad, you comfort me, support each other, encourage each other, and walk out of the haze together towards a better tomorrow. Such a marriage is healthy. Only by knowing how to respect people can you make your marriage happy and lasting.
Many people think that getting married means giving up your dreams and choosing to perish.
Many people think that you should strive when you are young and should not get married.
I think the ancients were very good at this. When starting a family, you should first start a family and then start a career.
There are many celebrities in history who started their own careers after getting married.
These are normal phenomena. The struggle is never one person’s, but the joint efforts of two people.
Every family has something to give and more to give. Few people support outside, while some support at home.
It’s like a two-player game. Only when two people cooperate with each other, understand each other, and support each other can they achieve something and make changes.
Only you can support me, and I can hold you and help me walk along.
Marriage is not a child's play. Marriage is about making two unsuitable people gradually become suitable. It is a matter of constant compromise and change. Don't think that your independence and sharp edges are unchangeable.
If you don’t change, are you ready to be alone forever?
I believe that the vast majority of people have not done well. We should constantly change ourselves. We must correct the bad and carry forward the good.
Only in this way can we walk through the gloomy days together and walk towards a beautiful and happy tomorrow together. This is the meaning of marriage, this is the true meaning of marriage.
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