A young man born in the 1990s fell in love with a "pocket girl", and life is an uncertain journey
Author: Mr. Xiao Han
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On Valentine's Day in 2018, Xiaowei drove 400 kilometers to the home of her beloved girl. Flowers, gifts, and delicious food were all delivered to Amei. At that moment, Xiaowei was happy, because he had been pursuing this online dating partner for two years, and now he finally met her.
Amei’s parents cooked a sumptuous lunch for Xiaowei. During the meal, no one spoke. After all, it was the first time they met, and both parties were somewhat shy. After the meal, Amei’s parents excused themselves to clear the dishes, leaving space for the two young people. They looked closely at this girl who was only 116 centimeters tall. Apart from her height, her face was very beautiful.
Amei asked: "Won't you regret being with me? Can your parents agree?"
Xiaowei only replied: "You and I are the world. We can't stop our parents' opinions and the eyes of others."
It was this sentence that made Amei determined to marry Xiaowei.
The journey was far away, and Xiaowei could not stay for long. At five o'clock in the afternoon, the two reluctantly went back. Before leaving, Amei's parents said to Xiaowei: "Xiaowei, go back and tell your parents clearly about Amei's situation. Don't have any disagreements in the future. We don't want betrothal gifts. This is just a daughter. I will try my best to help you in the future."
Xiaowei did not speak, just nodded heavily, and then drove away.
01, Online dating girlfriend is a pocket girl
Xiaowei was born in a small village in Hengyang City, Hunan Province in 1996. His parents are farmers and he has two older brothers. In this family, life is barely passable, but not rich. The three brothers have not read many books. The eldest brother and second brother are in decoration, but he likes to drive. He learned to drive after graduating from high school, and later worked as a driver for a boss.
The eldest brother is already 28 years old and has not dated a partner yet. Even though he introduced several blind dates through a matchmaker, the relationship ended with nothing due to his family's financial difficulties. Xiaowei is well aware of the difficulties of this family, so he doesn't want his parents to worry about his relationship, but he is just an ordinary driver and doesn't earn much money.
Starting in 2016, Xiaowei met a girl 400 kilometers away on the Internet. The girl spoke very politely. After getting acquainted, they sent photos to each other. The girl's name was Amei and she made it clear that she was a pocket girl. If you don't mind, you can never contact her again.
Amei's frankness and outstanding appearance impressed Xiaowei. The two of them went back and forth and dated online for more than half a year, but Amei refused to meet. In fact, Xiaowei could understand that the other person had physical defects caused by low self-esteem. Otherwise, with Amei's appearance, he would definitely look down on himself.
But Xiaowei did not give up and continued to impress Amei with his sincerity.
After two years of online dating, on Valentine’s Day in 2018, Amei wanted to meet Xiaowei. This made Xiaowei very excited. He immediately agreed, bought flowers, gifts and Amei’s favorite food, and drove to Amei’s hometown in person.
It took nearly five hours, a full 400 kilometers, but Xiaowei was humming along the way and was very happy.
02. Meeting you is the beginning of my happiness.
Xiaowei set out at six o'clock in the morning and arrived at Amei's house at eleven o'clock at noon. Amei's parents personally welcomed Xiaowei. The moment they saw Amei, he was pleasantly surprised. He seemed to be a lover he had not seen for a long time and said cordially, "Amei, here I come."
Amei's parents had prepared meals early, and the family sat together and ate quietly. Amei's parents never asked about Xiaowei's family background, his future plans, or any gifts.
After dinner, the two of them had some space to be alone. Xiaowei and Amei talked a lot about the past two and four years, their current feelings, future plans, etc.!
Amei is very satisfied with Xiaowei. After all, her body is like this, and there is no reason to choose. As long as the other person can sincerely love her for a lifetime, she will be satisfied.
The moment Xiaowei saw Amei, he felt very happy, as if the two were born to be a match.
Each other felt each other's sincerity. In the afternoon, Xiaowei had to go back because he had to go to work the next day. Amei's parents asked Xiaowei to tell his parents frankly about Amei's situation. If they agreed, they would decide on the wedding.
On the way home, Xiaowei drove the car very slowly. He thought about everything that happened today, feeling like he was dreaming, and thought about how to tell his parents when he went back. He has not told his parents about this yet, but Xiaowei felt that his parents would definitely agree. Even if they disagree, it doesn't matter. He has the final say.
Thinking of not wanting a bride price or a house, Xiaowei felt that it saved his parents a lot of pressure. At this moment, he entered a happy world from the moment he saw Amei.
03. To marry you, but also to protect you
When I got home, I told my parents about Amei’s situation. Their parents were hesitant and worried that Amei could not have children. Xiaowei had not considered this. Even if she could not have children, it didn’t matter, as long as the two of them were together, but these words could not be said in front of their parents.
’s parents considered it over and over again and finally agreed.
In less than a week, the parents of both parties decided on the wedding date. Xiaowei's parents also knew etiquette and gave them a gift of 60,000 yuan. But Amei's parents knew that their in-laws wanted to make them look good, so they couldn't be vague, so they directly gave her a car worth more than 100,000 yuan.
After getting married, Xiaowei and Amei lived an ordinary and happy life. Amei did business at home, and Xiaowei worked outside. In their free time, they would go out to play together.
What made Xiaowei feel even happier was that within a few months, Amei became pregnant. The doctor's advice did not stop Amei from wanting to give birth to a child for Xiaowei. Fortunately, she got pregnant in October and everything went well during the delivery. Amei gave birth to a son. Xiaowei felt that this is the power of love.
Life itself is an uncertain journey. When you meet love on the journey, you will stop and enjoy the love. If you don't meet it, you can only keep moving forward. Xiaowei met love and also had happiness.
