What kind of third party poses the greatest threat to the original wife?
High-value mistresses, they are not interested in money, and they are rich themselves, and they cheat on cheating men. Mistresses like
can make up for the losses caused by a cheating man's divorce and reduce the cost of divorce for a cheating man.
The vast majority of men do not divorce because they are concerned about the cost of divorce.
This case is a real case that Lan Fang successfully solved last year for the original wife, Ms. Hu.
is a special case, so Blue Party was deeply impressed.
The original wife, Ms. Hu, has been married to her husband for seven years. She is five years older than her husband.
Ms. Hu works as a counselor at a university, and her parents are also professors at a certain university.
Her husband's family has average conditions, but he is very handsome. Ms. Hu also admits that she has a bit of a control over her appearance. What
likes is her husband's appearance. The two got together after her husband graduated. When
was an intern in her senior year, Ms. Hu also helped her students find some internship units.
Her husband went to the company of a relative of Ms. Hu, and Ms. Hu would visit occasionally. After
, her husband stayed in that company and kept in touch with Ms. Hu.
It didn’t take long for her husband to pursue Ms. Hu, saying that he had liked her for many years.
Before, it was a teacher-student relationship, and it was difficult to express love. Now that I have graduated, I want to bravely pursue love.
Ms. Hu also had a good impression of her husband, and they agreed to be together soon.
Ms. Hu’s parents were opposed to it at the time because they thought her husband might have evil intentions.
took the initiative to pursue it after I learned about Ms. Hu’s family situation after graduation.
Ms. Hu felt that it was not the case and believed that her husband was talking about true love, so she insisted on staying together regardless of objections.
Her husband also behaved very well in the beginning, worked hard and performed well in the company.
When Ms. Hu’s father was sick, he accompanied Ms. Hu to take care of her at night.
slowly changed the evaluation of Ms. Hu’s parents towards him, and they got together smoothly later.
The house where we got married was bought by Ms. Hu’s family, and Ms. Hu’s family did not ask for any gift money.
But there was still a way out. The house was purchased in full before the marriage, and only Ms. Hu's name was written on it.
At first, she wanted to ask the cheating man to sign a prenuptial agreement , but Ms. Hu gave up after she was unwilling.
After getting married, Ms. Hu and her husband got along very well and were very happy.
The only conflict came from Ms. Hu's parents, who felt that Ms. Hu was old and urged Ms. Hu to have a child. After
gave birth to a daughter, she kept urging Ms. Hu to have a second child, saying that she wanted to continue the family line.
The cheating man coaxed Ms. Hu, but he did not stop his parents from inducing the baby.
Ms. Hu was a little unhappy. She felt that the cheating man's family favored sons over daughters. The cheating man's parents did not respect her, and her husband was a bit of a mama's boy.
The two of them had conflicts with their parents because of the cheating man, but Ms. Hu would also let the cheating man go.
Because she feels that the cheating man is younger than her, and also because she really has feelings for the cheating man.
She never expected that she would be so good to a cheating man, and that a cheating man would cheat on her and betray her.
The mistress is a woman that the cheating man met while playing games. She is a rich second generation who does nothing and has a lot of money in her family.
The cheating man even had the idea of divorcing because of his mistress, who also directly provoked Ms. Hu.
Ms. Hu was unwilling to help the cheating man and the mistress, so she came to Lan Fang for help.
A common problem among many cheating men is that they want benefits and male self-esteem.
Even if they cheat, if they want to take advantage of the mistress, they will not be too submissive in front of the mistress.
Especially in this case, because of her previous marriage to Ms. Hu, Ms. Hu liked cheating men very much.
is very good to cheating men and protects the self-esteem of cheating men.
In a marriage, the cheating man is also a low-ranking party, but he has always been taken care of by Ms. Hu.
He will take it for granted that even if the mistress gives him benefits, the mistress still has to coax him.
Both women should support her and show their kindness to him in order to steal him.
The reality is that this mistress is different from Ms. Hu. Ms. Hu does not have a pampered character.
But the mistress is, the mistress is the second generation of rich people, and she has been pampered since she was a child.
She likes cheating men, so she doesn't care and wants to snatch him away.
This kind of possessiveness can tell that Xiaosan's character is definitely not easy to get along with.
Therefore, a mistress needs to be coaxed by a cheating man, and it is absolutely impossible for a mistress to coax a cheating man.
This is the most common point of conflict between a cheating man and his mistress.
Lan Fang’s advice to Ms. Hu is to first compare with the mistress to treat the cheating man better, so that the cheating man’s self-confidence will increase.
Ms. Hu spends money and buys things for cheating men, so that her wealth does not go to outsiders. What
used was marital property, and what it bought was still marital property.
Just like Ms. Hu exchanged a car for the cheating man, the car is the property of the couple.
The mistresses competed and bought cars for the cheating men. What the mistresses spent on the cheating men was what the mistresses spent on the cheating men.
When it reaches a certain level, Ms. Hu will stimulate the mistress and let the mistress have trouble with the cheating man.
What a cheating man wants is for both his mistress and his first wife to coax him obediently and cannot accept the mistress making trouble.
Even if the mistress spends a lot of money on the cheating man, even if the cheating man is the one who gets the benefits.
The mistress will not coddle the cheating man. The cheating man will show his authority in front of the mistress. The mistress is definitely more domineering than the cheating man.
Therefore, the cheating man and his mistress will continue to have conflicts and quarrels.
In the end, not only will they be unable to continue the extramarital affair, but the mistress also wants to make the cheating man pay back the money.
Because when the mistress and Ms. Hu were competing, they also spent money on the cheating man.
Now that they are no longer together, the mistress naturally wants to get back, but the cheating man is not willing.
The two of them had been arguing for a long time over money. The mistress was so angry that she even found her friends to stop the cheating man.
Not only is it impossible for the old relationship to rekindle, but it has also gone to the point of turning against each other, and the three of them have lost all their money.
Finally, Lan Fang wants to say that many mistresses do have advantages over their original wives.
The mistress can help the cheating man make up for the losses caused by his divorce from his first wife.
In this case, the probability of a man getting divorced because of his mistress is very high.
But it doesn’t mean that the mistress cannot solve it, because this kind of mistress also has her weaknesses.
Why do they choose to cheat on men, and what is their attitude in the relationship with cheating men.
is the breakthrough point for the original wife to solve the extramarital affair. Prescribing the right medicine can cure the disease.
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