The Spring Festival is approaching, and the annual blind date season has arrived. The first batch of unemployed young people have gone home, waiting for their seven aunts and eight aunts to arrange blind dates.
Anyone who has had a blind date experience knows that most blind dates are just a formality, and few actually succeed. There is a reason why many older men and women are left behind.
Older leftover women are mostly single because they are picky, while older young people are single because they are poor. In addition, the cost of getting a wife is constantly increasing. Many marriageable young men have no family background and are not particularly capable, so they have no choice but to be single passively.
But in the minds of the elderly, regardless of this, most of them do not think about the problem in a deeper level. They always think that young people cannot do without getting married. They think that there are also girls who do not value material conditions. If their children are willing to get married, it is because they do not work hard enough.
But now times have changed, and there are more and more older young women. When they meet the world in the city, their first step is to consider city people. If they cannot do so, they are forced to return to the countryside to find someone to marry.
Recently, a woman shared her blind date experience. She said that her requirements are not high. She does not require the man to have a house or a car. It doesn't matter if he is a little poor, but the other person must be down-to-earth and reliable.
It stands to reason that with her request, it would be a matter of minutes to find a partner in the countryside, but she has repeatedly hit the wall because of her experience. Others know her past, and the blind date has failed.
It turns out that the woman worked in Hangzhou before. When she first left the country, she worked in a factory, as a waiter, and as a shopping guide because she had little education. She eventually joined a KTV to work.
The woman believes that no matter what industry she works in, as long as she can keep her true heart, she will be a good person in this society, and she does not need to care about other people's opinions.
As time went by, the news about the woman working in the KTV spread in the village. Everyone, men, women and children knew that she had become a celebrity in the village without going home, and some people even pointed fingers at her.
The woman has never taken the initiative to talk about her job to her family, but it is inevitable that people in her hometown will leak it. The woman herself is very confident and bought a house in her hometown city through her own efforts.
is now in his 30s. He doesn't want to continue wandering outside, and the market is not very good, so he returns to the village early to celebrate the New Year. He wants to take advantage of this period to find a partner and get married if he thinks he is suitable.
No matter how a woman is, there will always be matchmakers competing to introduce her to her, and women are no exception. I met three blind dates within half a month after returning home, but they were all declined due to work reasons.
Women don’t understand what’s wrong with working in KTV. They don’t rely on their own hands to make money. Besides, in this era, it’s shameful to have no money. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. The
woman also said that as long as she meets a boy she likes, it doesn't matter whether he has money or not. As long as he is down-to-earth and reliable, she will marry her. After many years of wandering, she discovered that the most important thing for a man is to be responsible.
But she seems to have overlooked an issue. Some things are easy to talk about but not easy to hear. Even if she can stick to her heart and never do anything messy, others will think there is a story when they hear it.
In fact, there are many girls who have this idea. The above-mentioned women are not the only ones. After staying in big cities for several years, they will gradually find that it is not easy to find a rich partner.
Some people will gradually understand that they can adjust their mentality and position, go home and find a suitable person to get married. It doesn't matter whether they love each other or not, as long as the two people's personalities are compatible.
Young men may not reject older leftover girls, but if they are girls who have worked in the service industry, I believe everyone will consider it carefully. After all, no one wants to leave hidden dangers to their marriage.
There was a wise saying on the Internet, Women who have been engaged in the service industry will never be able to do anything else. If the generation is frustrated in life, it is very likely that they will return to their old profession. Men cannot stop them, unless you are the kind of person with a lot of money who can give them a carefree life.
