As the saying goes: Good will be rewarded, and evil will be rewarded. A person who is kind-hearted, speaks well and does good deeds will definitely be full of blessings. However, people often ask questions: If a person is too kind, he is often susceptible to "bullying" and suppression by others. Swallowing your anger is not the best way. Instead, it will make the evil people succeed and become more and more serious.
In fact, everyone's kindness should show a certain "sharpness". Only in this way can we stop evil and promote good in a timely manner. The following three sentences are worth remembering.
1. The heart can be soft, but the principles cannot be lost. People with kind hearts are mostly soft-hearted people. As long as others ask for it, most of them will agree. Or maintain sufficient tolerance and tolerance when dealing with other people's mistakes. Of course, these are also manifestations of one's own generosity. But tolerance is OK, but the basic principles must not be lost.
For people, you should be round on the outside and square on the inside. Treat others, handle things, try to think carefully, take the overall situation into consideration, and fully consider everyone's interests and inner feelings, but all this must be based on the internal principle of not breaking one's own.
That is, the basic principle of one's inner life and doing things is to be square and not biased. Only in this way can you establish a certain prestige among people. Only then will things develop naturally in accordance with the rules, otherwise they will only be confused and have no idea why.
2. Respect others and you must not lose your pride. Being respectful and polite to others is of course indispensable for interacting with others. However, respect for others must also be based on the basic principles of equality and harmony. You cannot obey the other party in a respectful way and let it be at your mercy.
That is to say, there are certain limits to concessions to others. Your pride must not be lost. Many times, I am hurt because I believe and respect those so-called "high morals and respect" people, but I do not know the true face of Mount Lu. At the same time, it is precisely because of one's own weakness that has encouraged the arrogance of some related and powerful people. This is absolutely undesirable.
3. Learn to say "no". People with soft hearts must pay attention to controlling their emotions and be the master of emotions, not slaves. You must have a sense of what you should do, what you should say, what you should not say.
For nonsensical, absurd, unprincipled, and unfinished things, you must bravely say "no" instead of blindly obeying them. Only when your personality is truly independent, your heart is truly strong, your knowledge and ability is truly rich, and your wings are full, will you be able to control everything. Don’t use the so-called "simplicity" as a shield as a reason for not growing up, not daring to face, and not refusing.
