The fast-paced life makes young people busier and busier, and young people will take care of the elderly and children less while they are busy. Especially for the elderly, they are less concerned by their children. If there is a wife, the two can take care of each other and life will be acceptable. But if only one party is left, life will be very lonely and tormented.
Fortunately, there are many ways for elderly people to care for themselves now, and many elderly people can hire nannies to take care of themselves. Some people say that hiring a nanny can’t get along well, because neither party treats each other sincerely. If you respect each other, your relationship will definitely get along well.
Uncle Zhang and Sister Li were also the relationship between employers and nanny. After a period of time, they got married. Sister Li said that although Mr. Zhang is a bit noisy, she enjoys her current life very much.
Self-reporter: Sister Li, 50 years old.
I have been a nanny for almost ten years, and have taken care of the elderly and children. Every family I have served is very good to me, and I also work hard to do everything well. There are still many employers who keep in touch with me now and we have become friends.
By working as a nanny, I also found my elderly partner, Lao Zhang. He is also my employer. I have taken care of him for more than a year, from the beginning to the constant conflicts later on.
I remember when he first came to Lao Zhang's house to be a nanny, it was very difficult for him to get along with him. He had already fired three nannies before. When his son found me, he asked me to help him no matter what, because he had learned that I was a gold medal nanny and had a good reputation in the industry, so I asked me to take good care of his father.
When I first arrived at Lao Zhang’s house, I found that the atmosphere was indeed wrong. He didn’t even look at me directly. As soon as I entered the door, he deliberately threw the dirty things on his clothes, so I could only wash the clothes quickly.
When cooking, I always ask Lao Zhang about his preferences in advance, but when he asked him clearly, he said he wanted to eat rice, but after the rice was prepared, he said he wanted to eat noodles. When the noodles were out of the pot, he yelled to eat pancakes again. Once the food is not up to his taste, he will pour it out directly and my salary will be deducted. I remember he took one-third of his salary in the first month.
Every time I buy the dishes, he has to weigh them himself, and he has to calculate them all according to the unit price, in order to prevent me from taking kickbacks.
He deliberately put the money in every corner. I found it while cleaning, and then handed the money to Lao Zhang without hesitation. It took me a long time to find out that he was testing me because the family secretly installed surveillance.
Although he makes things difficult for me, I am also a serious person. The more he is tricky, the better I have to do it so that he can’t find any problems.
I get up at around five o'clock every day and clean the house. Then cook according to the nutritional recipe, if Lao Zhang is not satisfied. Then I will cook other meals until he is satisfied. I have to clean all Lao Zhang's clothes in two days. I knelt on the ground to scrub the floor at home. Every time he checked, he didn't even have a hair.
Through my unremitting efforts, Lao Zhang's attitude towards me has changed, and gradually he has not deliberately made things difficult for others as before. It made him completely change his attitude towards me, but it started when he fell in spring.
One day I just came home after buying vegetables and saw Lao Zhang lying on the floor moaning in pain. After asking, I found out that he had fallen accidentally, so I quickly called the emergency number. I was afraid that the ambulance would arrive late, so I picked up Lao Zhang and walked downstairs.
The third floor has sixty or seventy steps. A woman with a 110 kilogram carrying Lao Zhang, who was more than 130 kilograms, didn't feel tired. It was not until the ambulance arrived that I breathed a sigh of relief and collapsed on the ground.
Lao Zhang was hospitalized for more than a month, and I carefully served him for more than a month. Through this incident, Lao Zhang was also influenced by me, his attitude was getting better and better to me, and he also began to rely on me.
Later I found out that Lao Zhang was scared by the previous nanny. He was unwilling to find a nanny to take care of him, so he tried his best to drive me away. Later, when we got along, he saw that I was more responsible, so he treated me better and better, and even proposed to me later.
To be honest, I have been single for many years and I also want to have a family to live a stable life. Through getting along, I found that Lao Zhang was actually quite good, so I agreed to his proposal.
We lived a good life after marriage, especially Lao Zhang was like a different person. His cheerful and lively side in life is revealed. He took me to fish today, took me to climb the mountain tomorrow, and asked a friend to have a party the day after tomorrow. Later, he also contracted a field to grow vegetables and fruits, and after harvesting, we took it to the market to sell it. In order to have a good harvest, we sprinkle water and fertilize, and spend most of our time in the fields every day.
Although it was dark and very tired, we lived a happy life. We take care of each other and have the same hobbies. We are really free now.
Conclusion: Now Sister Li and Mr. Zhang have been married for more than three years. It is not easy for the two to continue their conflicts at the beginning to their loving love now. This includes Sister Li's persistence and dedication, and Mr. Zhang's timely awakening, so that the two of them can live a happy and beautiful life today.
