Do you value the process or the result?
Love makes people happy and annoying. My love comes from love at first sight. It was something I never thought of, and it happened unexpectedly. It was just like this that I fell in love with it after taking a look, which has overturned the tradition in my bones.
When a relationship began, did you ever think about what kind of goals you were aiming for? marry?
Start a feeling, the initial beauty reminds people of eternity. This is how I started. I fell in love with a man who fell in love at first sight, and I was working hard in two different cities. Fortunately, the distance is not very far, and it takes about an hour to drive.
Every time I go over to see him, I will fantasize that in the future, I will come to this Hangzhou City and feel the tranquility of this city without losing its vitality. Every time I seemed to be disappointed, and he didn't ask me to come to this city, nor did I find the opportunity to come here.
It is like this that a few years have passed, and I occasionally shuttle through the two cities. Love him like a powerful magic, occupying all my brain nerves. If I talk about this situation like someone else, my friend will definitely say that I have water in my head and it is still a paste.
Every time I come to the city where he is, my mind is carrying the result I want, so every time I come, I feel like I have given myself a task in my heart, and I always feel uncomfortable.
Later, I felt different when I got along slowly.
Originally, people must constantly understand the relationship between people, and they must constantly understand themselves, let alone a person who has not had much intersection with himself in the first half of his life, despite his love, they are magnetically attracted.
On the weekend, I went hiking with him and listened to him telling me about the life philosophy that happened in my life, guiding me to think about the multi-dimensional life, and I felt that he was so knowledgeable and had a little more admiration. On the mountain climbing road from time to time, they play and joke, and scold each other. The world of two people is extremely harmonious.
When I was excited, I suddenly picked me up and carried it on my shoulders. I stood on his shoulders and felt the world. My heart is closer to him.
We don’t like to go to crowded places. On occasional weekends, we go to the fields, mountains and forests to ride, ride under the shade, and ride in the ancient town. Take photos quietly and teach me how to take videos.
learned a lot, enriched, happier, easier, and self-doing. This is what you want.
is visible. The process of getting along brings a lot of joy and beautiful memories, and the heart is very fulfilled. I am still looking forward to a beautiful result, but it is not an invisible pressure, but a beautiful expectation towards the pace of getting along.
has a process first, and the result will be derived, instead of asking for a result in yourself in your heart and then experiencing the process.
Great time, I hope we will not be in vain our time, enjoy every beautiful process, and pursue the result we want.
The result of a relationship is very important, let it blossom and bear fruit on its own. It’s not just to enjoy the fruit.
Love, very subtle and beautiful. Open your heart, plant the seeds of love, and reap the results of love.
