's ground is so dirty, he doesn't drag it for a moment.
bowls are piled there and don’t care about them at all.
clothes are thrown around, and I don’t know how to clean up.
In many marriages, women often have this feeling, that is, they are responsible for all the big and small things in the family, and they don’t care about the man around them, as if in his eyes, nothing is wrong.
He just sits on the sofa, playing with his phone, and immersing himself in his phone.
can only wash your clothes, then wash dishes, and then continue to mop the floor and do other things. Sometimes, I really can't stand it anymore. If I ask the other party to do something, the other party will be reluctant to move.
has two people. I am very tired at work and I still need to take care of all the housework. Men just have that attitude. As a woman, you will inevitably be very unhappy and will not understand why men are like this. Do you really cannot see the housework?
does not have that concept and has not developed a habit.
Some family education children will let children share some of the things at home from an early age.
will let the child wash his own clothes and wash dishes, and occasionally let the child learn to clean.
But there are still families who will really be able to get married and open their mouths for boys. They will not cultivate their independence at all, and they will not let them do the things at home.
grew up in such an environment, and gradually, as adults, he really doesn’t have much understanding of housework.
won’t think about it at all. The floor needs to be mopped to be cleaner, the mirror needs to be wiped frequently to be brighter, and the house needs to be cleaned frequently to be more orderly. I just feel that everything should be like that and I won’t think too much.
Even if you see your wife busy many times, you will automatically choose to ignore it and will not take it seriously at all.
Not every man will be more conscious and more conscious. When they can get married, they will change just in time. Many people will only continue their lifestyle and do not think that housework is a big deal.
After all, he has lived like that for twenty or thirty years. He has long been used to it. If no one has raised it, he will naturally not realize that there is any problem with this, and he will only keep doing this.
thinks that's your business and has nothing to do with him.
Even in this era, there are still some men with more macho personality. They think that for men, as long as they can make money, as for housework, it is all women's business.
If he makes money and a woman takes care of the family full-time, he will feel that everything in the family is responsible for. Even if the woman is still at work, he will still not change his mind and will only care about nothing.
will just sit there all the time, just waiting for the woman to take care of everything and deliver the meal to the table.
Because he is such a person, he has never followed the progress of the times, nor has he learned to respect and love his women.
It may be like this in his family since he was a child. It is his mother who takes care of everything. The environment he comes into contact with is like this. It is all women who are responsible for those things, so he only wants to stay out of it and is not willing to do it.
It seems that doing those things yourself will seem overused, lower your identity, and make you seem less majestic, and you will have no authority at home and you will not have such status.
people are like this. They feel that it is not their own business and they don’t care at all. They won’t be willing to take responsibility. They will only be unwilling to urge them.
can only try to do and act if you agree from the bottom of your heart, recognize that it is related to yourself and have the obligation to take responsibility.
has a high tolerance, and he can stand it.
Women and men’s views on housework will actually be different.
In the eyes of many men, even if the house is in chaos and there are a lot of dirty clothes, he may only feel that it is nothing. It is very comfortable to live in it and there are no housework.
But women are different. In the eyes of women, even if there is only a little dust on the ground and she has only changed into a piece of dirty clothes, she may feel that she cannot tolerate it and feels that the house is no longer in shape.
Because of the differences between men and women, women often feel that the home needs to be cleaned up, but men don’t feel anything at all. They just think everything is good, very neat, and can hold on for a long time.
So, the woman had already cleaned up several times before the man felt he should clean up.
has sorted out everything, making everything look brand new again.
is either active or passive. Men can always tolerate it, and they always feel that everything is not so anxious or necessary.
As a result, women often talk about men, saying that they always don’t know what to do and are always procrastinating. However, men think they are innocent and think that they don’t mean it on purpose. It’s women who do all the housework in advance.
Marry a man. If the other person is very good and knows how to do housework together from the beginning, it is a blessing.
Although cherishing such a man, and managing each other's marriage with him.
If the other party can’t see the housework, then you might as well take a look at why he is like this.
does not have that awareness. You can call him more appropriately, let him participate little by little, develop that habit, cultivate him into what he wants, and be responsible for his family together.
thinks that it has nothing to do with him, so it takes some time to reverse his concept and let him realize that home belongs to each other, and so is housework.
When the problem lies in tolerance, he is actually willing to do it, so he can command him a little and allow him to slow down a little.
Many men will not be as in line with their wishes at once. They choose a reliable one before getting married. After getting married, they just need to train them carefully, guide them carefully, and train them to what they want bit by bit.
text/Tan Meng
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