often hear people around you sigh:
"I would have known that I would have done that before." "I would have been better if I had seized the opportunity earlier"...
No matter how much regret I have, I can't let time start over.
Everyone’s today is paying for yesterday; and everyone’s tomorrow will also pay for today.
There are some things that, once you miss them, there is no room for recovery.
No matter when, don’t go against the days.
Don't choose the best at the age of hard work
In the recent hit drama "These Ten Years of Us", Lin Beibei is recognized as a good dancer.
Dance Troupe attaches great importance to her and equips her with the best faculty and team.
But Lin Beibei didn't care. She was either late every day or sneaked out during rehearsal.
Why is Lin Beibei like this?
In fact, it is not because she doesn’t like dancing, but because she is focused on falling in love.
It turned out that there was a rich second generation who pursued Lin Beibei fiercely. He promised to buy the best house for Lin Beibei in the future and let her live a life of luxury.
Under the offensive of the rich second generation, Lin Beibei fell into trouble. She gradually abandoned her dancing practice and spent her days with her boyfriend under the moonlight.
1 Day after day, Lin Beibei's dancing skills gradually lag behind, and she can't even remember the most basic movements.
Rich second generation advised Lin Beibei to quit her job and get married. Anyway, she can rely on her husband to support her in the future and she will not have to work at all.
Lin Beibei was very moved when she heard this. After she returned home, she immediately discussed the marriage with her parents.
Still parents have foresight, they advised their daughter:
"Marrying is your own life, you just started the starring role. There are still long days for dancing in the future. Are you willing to throw it away?"
Parents' words made Lin Beibei hesitate.
In a later party, Lin Beibei completely saw her boyfriend's selfish and heartless side. She made up her mind and proposed to break up with her.
Since then, Lin Beibei has gotten up early every day to go to the dance studio to practice basic skills.
She turned down many holidays and finally caught up with the progress of the group. She was selected as the actor of the dance " Tang Palace Night Banquet ".
Later, "Tang Palace Night Banquet" appeared on the Henan Spring Festival Gala and became popular all over the country, and Lin Beibei became famous in one fell swoop.
If Lin Beibei had married a rich second generation, she would have to be a housewife in frustration and lost the opportunity to show off her glory on the stage.
Think of Bai Yansong said:
In a person's life, the God of Destiny will knock on you many times. The real challenge is that you are ready as soon as he knocks on the door and open the door quickly.
If you don’t think it’s right when he knocks on the door, or you’re not ready, when you figure it out and go to open the door, he signs the contract with someone else.
Yes, many opportunities in life are only reserved for those who are prepared.
is not grasped when it is right, and you can only make one mistake in the future, step by step.
So, don’t waste your talents because of laziness, and don’t miss your best years because of comfort.
The wind on the road to chasing dreams is of course very loud.
Only by withstanding temptation can we continue to improve; only by enduring loneliness can we move forward better.
In this world, no one will be your eternal support.
Only by accumulating strength and living as your own backer can you see the stars and seas you want to see, like flowers.
Don't put it flat when making money
Hong Kong Medical University , President Huang, who said to the students at the graduation ceremony:
"Lying flat for a short time may help to trim and think, but if you keep lying flat, it may be a good time for a while, and lying in regret for a long time."
Have seen too many people and think making money is very vulgar. At the age when you should work hard, don't fight or work hard.
They did not regret it until their lives fell into a dilemma.
Writer Lian Yue once wrote about a reader in an article. After she graduated from college, she stayed in Jingdezhen to make ceramics with her boyfriend.
Both of them have no clear plans for the future, they just want to stay in Jingdezhen and live the literary and artistic life they yearn for.
In the rented house, they drank tea with their friends and tasted the fragrance, which seemed very elegant.
In fact, their business was poor and they had no profit at all. Even the money for opening a store was given by their parents.
In fact, the overall environment at that time was not bad. If you go out to start a business, you may have more prospects.
But this reader still feels that as a literary artist, even if he is poor, he is respected.
She doesn't want to change the status quo. She thinks it's good to just live a comfortable life like this.
But she didn't expect that after she got married with her boyfriend, all the conflicts broke out.
Because the couple had no money, the couple often quarreled, especially after giving birth, their mother-in-law also spoke ill of her harsh words, and the family environment was suffocating.
Finally, she was overwhelmed and chose to divorce. Afterwards, the reader reflected on himself deeply.
She had to admit her poverty and incompetence, and admitted that her past "slow life" was actually an excuse for her to lie down.
In order to support her family, she could only look for jobs everywhere, but in the end she found only 3 jobs that were not professional and not suitable.
makes people sigh.
I remember the writer Zhang Cenxi said:
"Our cognition is an invisible ruler, which measures the result of your judgment of the outside world."
A person's cognition determines what kind of life he can have.
When you should make money, you don’t work hard and you can only worry about your livelihood at the age when you should enjoy it.
Don’t think talking about money is rustic and vulgar. Only when you encounter changes will you know that having no money means you have no choice in your life; don’t stay in your comfort zone and be content with yourself, otherwise you will find that people who are abandoned by the times will eventually be missed by the lives of the world.
Foresighted people know how to constantly iterate their cognition, seize the opportunity, and accumulate confidence for a stable life in the future.
The most fear of you being mediocre all your life, and you also comfort yourself with ordinary and preciousness.
In the world of adults, putting aside and working hard to make money is the greatest maturity.
Don't learn to cherish
Nobel Prize in Literature winner Doris Lessing , once wrote in "Survivor Memoirs ":
We waste our health to win personal wealth, and then waste our wealth to rebuild our own health.
We anxiously look forward to the future and forget the life in front of us. We live neither for the present nor for the future.
In the fast-paced modern life, many people infinitely squeeze their own health in order to compete for fame and fortune.
It was not until the body lighted up that it was that I had been in danger and had been walking for a long time.
CCTV host Yu Ting used to be a desperate three-niang at work.
In order to seize the computer room, she forced herself to get up and work before dawn every day, and she became accustomed to working overtime all night.
competitive mentality drives her to work like a motive every day, and refuse to rest for a moment.
However, the huge pressure quickly crushed Yu Ting's body.
When she had a physical examination, she was diagnosed with breast cancer .
Using the bad news, Yu Ting cried bitterly in the hospital, and she felt that her sky was about to fall.
In order to treat the disease, Yu Ting had to remove her breasts and went through eight months of chemotherapy.
That was her most painful period. The chemotherapy tube was inserted from her arm to the vicinity of her heart. The irritating potions inside made her "drinklessly vomit every time she took a breath."
In order to divert her attention, Yu Ting sometimes rolled around on the bed like crazy, and even hit the wall with her body.
She said: "If anyone said that giving him a million would make me feel no pain, I would definitely give him all the money without hesitation."
makes people sigh.
The most helpless thing in life is your body, which cannot support your ambition and ability.
If I had known this, why would I have worked so hard at the beginning?
In this world, there is no job worth fighting with your life, and there is no wealth worth fighting for with your health.
We work hard to live a healthy and happy life in the future, not to sacrifice our health for a good life.
Instead of spending the rest of your life in the torture of illness, it is better to take more time to take care of yourself and cherish yourself.
As said in " Seven Habits of High-Efficacy People ":
"Without the right life, there is no truly outstanding life."
The ideal beautiful scenery, poetry and distance require a healthy body to meet.
Only when people last for a long time can they talk about the future.
After all, how we live our lives are all scripts written by ourselves.
