You can’t hide your love for someone, and you can also like it.
In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, the relationship between two people needs to go through these stages:
Acquaintance, understand each other, develop a good impression, become like, and love each other.
From strangers who have never met, to familiar friends, they enter an ambiguous relationship, followed by falling in love or separation.
Boys and girls have different attitudes and thinking about feelings.
Boys are straightforward Linear thinking : "I like you, and I have to be with you; if you disagree, then I will leave."
Girls have a few more steps: "I like you, but I may not tell you; I want to observe you, learn more about you before making a decision."
Similarly, girls don't like you, and they will also give you some hints.
What signals will it send to you when a girl has no good impression of you?
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Strong sense of "distance"
What does it mean?
When a girl doesn’t like you, she will keep a clear distance from you.
Both the emotional distance and the physical distance are obvious.
There is a lyrics like this: "You sit on my left, but you feel like you are separated by Galaxy ."
This is the state when a girl doesn't like you.
Even if you sit face to face with her, you can feel her indifference to you;
Even if you can meet every day, she will turn a blind eye to you.
The most common manifestations are:
When you send a message to a girl, she often doesn't reply to you or just reply to you late;
She almost won't accept the gift you give her;
When you express your favor to her, she pretends not to understand or simply changes the topic.
If you act too proactive and enthusiastic, then girls will be indifferent to you.
And what is the physical sense of distance?
Psychology says that when we face strangers or people we don’t like, our brains will send us a signal.
At this time, our subconscious will involuntarily let us stay away from each other.
For example: When you walk outside, you will keep a long enough distance from strangers; approaching strangers or environments you don’t like will make you feel insecure.
The same thing happens when girls don’t like you.
have dinner together, she will sit at the farthest position from you;
When she has to meet you, she will also make a "defensive posture" and keep a distance from you.
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Clear "Border Sense"
What is the sense of boundary between the opposite sex?
For example:
No matter what kind of relationship a two people has, they will maintain enough respect and distance.
If you don’t like it, you won’t allow the other party to excessively invade your life;
If you like it, you will also maintain a distance of respect from the other party to avoid causing trouble to the other party.
When a girl doesn’t like you, she will have this clear sense of boundaries in the process of getting along with you.
Tell you a consulting case:
Boys are pursuing the girl they like, but he and the girl do not work in the same place, and the distance is dozens of kilometers.
In order to pursue this girl, boys will order a love meal for girls every few days, and occasionally someone will give them a bouquet of flowers to girls.
Girls are very resistant to this behavior.
Every time a boy gives her these things, she will say to the boy: "Please don't do this again next time. I hate this sudden thing very much."
subtext: "I don't like you, please don't do this."
But boys are still unwilling to give up and still do what they want.
In the end, the girl was so angry that she returned all the things the boy gave to her.
There will be similar examples during blind dates.
Girls have dinner with boys, and girls will rush to pay after the dinner.
This behavior itself shows the two mentalities of girls.
First: I feel good about you, and I hope we have the next chance to get in touch.
Second: I don’t like you, so I don’t want to owe you.
Girls don’t like you, and they won’t owe you anything. This is what a girl with a positive outlook will do.
From a psychological perspective, this is also the sense of boundaries for girls.
When faces people you don’t like, they will not allow the other party to invade their lives, as this will bring pressure and trouble to themselves.
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Uncovered "indifference"
What are the obvious manifestations of girls who don't like you?
The answer is: indifferent.
The opposite of love is not hatred, but indifference.
When people don’t like a person, their subconscious behavior is also indifferent.
does not follow everything about you, does not care about anything about you, does not reply to any messages about you, and does not want to have anything to do with you.
Don’t doubt the firmness of girls. They are really cold when facing people they don’t like.
Even if you have all kinds of skills, it is useless for girls who don’t like you.
This unconcealed indifference is the clearest signal that girls send to you.
What should I do if the person you like doesn’t like you?
There is nothing to be sad about, because this is the relationship between people; what you like may not be suitable for you; what you may not be suitable for you may not be suitable for you.
I like a line in " Gone with the Wind ":
"God of God didn't give you what you want, it's not that you are not worthy, but that you deserve better."
Today's topic:
How will you respond to people you don't like?
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