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, I really can't stand it!
There is a roommate in the university dormitory who is usually very "interested" in other people's affairs. Who is in love with whom in class
; who is actually quite rich in class
usually pretends to be poor;
who is a single-parent family, and his parents divorced when he was in elementary school;
...
She knows the mess of things best.
Of course, living in the same dormitory, she is even more "caring" for us, and she can't escape her eyes and mouth in anything.
So, she is not only a "big speaker", but also an "intelligence transmission center", so we often have to "hide" her.
It is no exaggeration to say that some things, as long as they are known to her, may be spread throughout the class in less than a day.
In addition to being more "careful" about other people's affairs, she also likes to "blindly follow the trend". Someone in the dormitory of
went to find an internship, and she would follow her; some in the dormitory of
went to interview and find a job, and she would quickly submit her resume; some in the dormitory of
was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, and she would also hurry to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination.
, was so scared that the roommates didn't dare to tell her which university they were going to take. was very afraid that she would take the exam together. This is not a good thing. After all, a certain major direction of a university may only recruit 2-3 people. Telling her is equivalent to cultivating potential competitors for herself.
However, even so, I still can't avoid her.
She would follow me to ask about the review progress every day, and then compare it with her review progress . For example, which round of math review have you finished? How many English words have you memorized? Has the political review begun?
This also made me very upset!
If her review progress is relatively fast, she may say, "Your progress is not good, you have to hurry up. Everyone has reviewed to the second round..."
I really don’t know what kind of mentality she is like? I don’t know what her purpose is?
I am a person who is very easily influenced by others. The pressure of reviewing the postgraduate entrance examination is already very high and very sensitive. It is really unbearable to have such a person who follows you to ask about your progress every day.
At the beginning, I could handle her a few words, but later, I didn't want to pay attention to her anymore, and even scolded her a few words, but it even annoyed her and actually started to swear.
She also said that it was because I was too sensitive and my mentally fragile, and it would be difficult to become a climate in the future...
I feel like my lungs are about to be furious!
So, since then, we have completely broken up, no longer communicated, and rarely stayed in the dormitory.
Then, I wonder if you have ever encountered similar roommates, and how do you deal with it? Hope to give some advice.
or above, from a postgraduate entrance examination candidate who was deeply disturbed by roommates. Below, some suggestions are given to candidates who are troubled by similar problems.
postgraduate entrance examination review progress, you need to control
First of all, as a person who has been through the postgraduate entrance examination, for postgraduate entrance examination review, I personally think that " postgraduate entrance examination review progress " is a very sensitive topic.
Not only is this student in the article very sensitive, but in fact, everyone is very sensitive.
Because, Everyone is very afraid that they will review slowly than others, they are afraid that they will not have enough time, they are afraid that they will not finish reviewing, they will be anxious and nervous.
So, constantly inquiring about review progress with others is an easy way to affect others and oneself.
As for the review progress of the postgraduate entrance examination, personally suggest that you can plan in advance based on the seniors’ preparation experience of the exam. Then, during the review process, just make appropriate adjustments, and do not easily be affected by other people’s progress.
Because everyone's actual situation is different.
Everyone’s target colleges for postgraduate entrance examinations are different;
Everyone’s majors are different;
Everyone’s majors are also different.
So, other people’s postgraduate entrance examination review progress is not particularly comparable.
Finally, what should we do if we really encounter similar roommates?
Don’t tell people everything, just be sure of it
During my preparation for the postgraduate entrance examination, I personally don’t like to communicate too much with others.
includes your own target college for postgraduate entrance examination, major for postgraduate entrance examination, review progress, etc. Even if someone asks, it is just perfunctory.
Because, I think it is completely unnecessary and it is easy to affect myself.
For example, if you tell others that you are preparing to take the xxx university, then you may wonder if he (she) will also take the same university and the same major as you.
So, even if we look for graduates, we should not look for candidates from the same university and the same major. This is not a graduate student at all, but a competitor.
Finally, many dormitories have some strange classmates, which is normal. After all, there are a hundred people, and there are all kinds of people. Just don’t treat them as a “normal person”. Don’t be too serious about many things, and if you can handle them, you can handle them.
The key is to adjust your mindset yourself, especially in the later stage of the postgraduate entrance examination review. may be more nervous, sensitive and anxious. Therefore, the later stage of the postgraduate entrance examination review, the more you should pay attention to the adjustment of your own mentality and not be easily influenced by others.
or above, I hope it will be helpful to you. Thank you for reading. If you like the article, please like it and forward it!
