text丨Tao Xiaojing
The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!
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What is destined to be?
The so-called destiny is actually the arrangement of fate. Fate tied the two people together, and the two were destined to be a pair.
There is a fate between the two destined people that cannot be cut or dispersed. It is like an invisible barrier that traps two people in the middle, and no one can get out of it, and no one can jump in.
The person in it may not think that this fate is so beautiful, but as bystanders, we are extremely envious and eager.
Everyone wants to be closely connected with the person they love, but only the two destined people can truly integrate into one and live and die.
They are two parts of a whole. After searching for thousands of years, they finally merged into one, and since then they have no intention of separation.
The two destined people do not want to separate, nor will they be separated.
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In the long journey of life, everyone will meet many people. Although these encounters are arranged by fate, they are different from deep and shallow fate.
Two people with a shallow fate will be destined to be separated in the end even if they come together through the crowd. Because the fate between them can only support their encounter, but cannot support their companionship.
Two people with deep relationships are different. They have a love relationship that has been cultivated for several lifetimes, and once they meet, they will never be separated.
Although reality has given them a lot of obstacles, because fate has been arranged, they can always get through it smoothly.
Although they have been separated, because everything has long been destined, they will still come together after going around.
People with shallow fate will be separated no matter how much love you are; people with deep fate will meet you no matter how far away they are. This is destined.
Maybe you have not encountered such a situation, but sooner or later you will understand that the two destined people cannot be separated no matter what.
-03-
The two destined people may be just friends, but the friendship between them is deep. To be more precise, they are confidants and friends of life and death.
The two destined people are the ones in this world who understand each other the most. They don’t need to communicate at all. They can understand what the other person is thinking just by just a look.
They are not lovers, but they are closer than lovers. They are not family members, but they are more dependent than their family members.
They are not always with each other, but they never forget each other. They didn't contact each other anytime, anywhere, but they still understood each other. Such friendship, such tacit understanding and understanding cannot be dissipated by time. No matter how time changes, no matter how the future changes, they are still closely connected.
The destined fate not only allowed the two to establish a deep friendship, but also brought each other unprecedented warmth and comfort.
They firmly believe that no matter what relationship the two parties get along with each other, they will be the happiest person in this world.
-04-
Each of us is looking for our own destiny, but we forgot that many things are unforgivable.
As the saying goes, "You must always have it in your destiny, and don't force it when you don't have it." If fate does not arrange such destiny for you, then you can only spend your life regretfully.
Maybe you don’t want to leave regrets in your life, but you also need to know that the arrangement of fate is not so easy to change.
destined to have, and will sooner or later come to you. What you are destined to lose, no matter how hard you force it, you can't keep it.
Everyone's life is like this. Everything seems to be under their own control, but in fact, fate has been arranged long ago.
Each of us is imprisoned by the iron cage of fate. When we exhaust all our strength and cannot fight our lives, we can only choose to accept our lives.
Receiving one's fate seems to be a coward, but it is also a good choice. Learning to accept fate will bring different gains.
You must believe that everything is the best arrangement, and your destiny will come sooner or later.
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Before you meet your destiny, what you have to do is not to envy others, but to work hard to strengthen yourself.
You must know that only you who are strong enough can you deal with everything in the world without changing your face. Only you who are strong enough can truly protect your destined fate.
Make yourself stronger and is the best watch for fate. When you become truly strong, your destiny will be full of your heart.
At that time, you must work harder to protect and manage more carefully. Only in this way can you never lose it.
This is life, there will always be some unexpected surprises. Are you ready to welcome the surprise?
No matter when the surprise comes, you must remember to be the best yourself. When the fate is destined, the years will be more gentle and life will be more perfect.
