The word love is too narrow, so narrow that it can only be used on one person. This is our conventional cognition.
However, there are many people in this world. They are different from ordinary people. Their love is too broad. As long as they meet someone who makes them excited, they can give their feelings.
Although it is our right to love someone or not, and when we are single, as long as we do not touch the interests of others, it is the freedom of others, and we have no right to rely on and interfere.
However, if we enter a relationship, we have the right to know whether our partner is meeting someone who loves each other.
We naturally hope that our partner can stick to our hearts and give all the purest feelings to ourselves. We can know whether people know each other's face or not, and we cannot guarantee whether we will meet those who do not value feelings so much.
So, we need to explore it.
Psychological research shows that if a man has loved many opposite sexes, he cannot hide these three "details" in his body.
As soon as he appears, it just meets all your needs for your partner
There is such a person. When he appears in our lives, it will make us realize how could there be such a fit person, how could such a person who completely satisfy our fantasy for our partner.
When we really meet such a person, don’t rush to be happy first, but keep a certain alert.
Who can do without mistakes in a sage?
Even if our first love carries our beautiful love, it is undeniable that it will also have flaws, such as suspicion, such as sensitive and suspicious, such as strong desire to control, such as cold violence in quarrels.
is a person who has shortcomings, not to mention that there are two different individuals, and when they get along, there will be friction due to some differences, which is normal.
. A person who satisfies all our fantasies about his partner has a good temper, a very stable mood, humorous, gentle and considerate. Even when we have menstruation, we will not just say "drink more hot water in ", but will prepare warm sticks and brown sugar water for us.
They are not born to understand these things, but only experiences that they have only after loving many people.
Isakovsky said: "Love is not a heart that beats the other heart, but a spark that strikes the two hearts together."
Previous people plant trees and later generations enjoy the shade, and sometimes it is not beautiful.
Even if it is the first time meeting, it can always resolve the embarrassment appropriately
in the TV series " Love Apartment " is a veteran in the love field. Because he has had too many emotional experiences, he can get along with the opposite sex he first met with, and he has never had the embarrassment of having nothing to say.
The reason why Lu Ziqiao can chat and laugh freely with any opposite sex is because he has experienced too many people and has accumulated experience, so he will naturally not be unfamiliar.
When interacting with people, a process that requires continuous cultivation and accumulation of experience is like when we eat hot pot. At the beginning, we must start with slightly spicy food. After eating too much, we will challenge spicy and extra spicy food.
is gradually increasing, and you will feel that eating spicy pot bottoms is a piece of cake. The same is true for love.
Lin Yutang mentioned in "The Art of Speaking": "Speaking is equal to expression, but to express a good sentence, it requires intelligence and intelligence. If you don't say it well, it is easy to offend people."
The reason why we feel that when we get along with each other, there is never the embarrassment of having nothing to say. No matter what topic we say, the other party can catch it.
or when we first meet each other, the other party can easily resolve a lot of embarrassment, giving us a very comfortable and comfortable feeling.
Don’t secretly be happy that you have met someone with high EQ. It’s because the other party has experienced too many people that makes us have this illusion.
Because I have loved too many people, I will not value any relationship
I remember that when I was young, I especially liked dolls, but because the financial conditions were not so good, I could only buy some cheap dolls, and the expensive ones were only a favorite.
Later, my aunt gave me a doll. I couldn't let it go and I had to take it with me wherever I went, and even hugged it and went to sleep at night. After
, I got more exquisite toys, and I still couldn't let go of one, but because I "dive evenly with rain and dew", I love each one, so I don't love each one either.
The same is true for love, just like drinking a bowl of porridge with ten people, one can solve the problem of food and clothing, and the other can only barely solve it.
If you share more love, it will not be so strange. There are more people who have loved you. When you meet other people, even though you can still love, this love is not so unique.
Wilde said: "If a man's love is not dedicated, he will not feel happy when he is with any woman."
is indeed the case. If you only love one person in your life, you will focus all your attention on one person, and you will be more likely to feel happiness.
If you love too many people in your life, you will distract yourself. In this way, it will be difficult to experience sweet love again.
