Since ancient times, girls have been married, and few boys have been involved in the family. In people's ideas, boys stay at home to inherit their ancestors and pass on their family traditions. No matter how financial situation the family is, no boy is willing to go backwards because basically no one will appreciate it.
This is basically the case for being a son-in-law who is in a backdoor. There are many brothers in the family and the family conditions are not good. They cannot marry a wife. In order not to let their son be a bachelor, parents have no choice but to let their son be a son-in-law. Because of this reason, the son-in-law who is in a family can't raise his head when he is in his mother-in-law's house.
But now the times are different, and being a son-in-law may not necessarily get angry, because many families have one or two daughters, which hurts like a pearl in the palm, and they are reluctant to let their daughter get married. So if a boy comes to the house, the parents-in-law will feel as painful as their biological son.
htmlOn September 28, Guangxi, a man was going to marry into the woman's house. While everyone was helping him sort it out, he lowered his head and wiped his tears. This scene made many netizens feel very sad. Some netizens said they would rather be a bachelor than be a son-in-law.
Video shows a man in a black suit sitting on a chair, surrounded by a group of aunts and sisters helping him comb his clothes, ready to go. The man did not have the joy of the newlyweds on his face, but was worried, worried and reluctant. He seemed not so expectant about this marriage.
An old lady in red combed his hair and combed him again and again. I wonder if the aunt was the man's mother. She carefully combed her hair and talked to the man softly. The man sat quietly, listening to their advice to him, and did not say anything. He didn't look up at these people, but was just waiting for the time to go out.
A bride in a white wedding dress walked down the stairs behind him, and several bridesmaids followed him. When it was time to go out, the man was going to follow his wife to his mother-in-law's house. For some reason, the man couldn't help crying at the moment of leaving the door. He rubbed his eyes with his hands and tried not to lose his composure in front of others.
It can be seen that he doesn't want to go back to the door, and he is afraid of being wronged at his wife's house. Because in people's deep-rooted traditional ideas, being a son-in-law who is in a backdoor has no status, will be bullied and suffer all the grievances. He was also full of concern for his future, but he couldn't change the facts.
Of course, we don’t know why this man was going to be a son-in-law in the family. Maybe it was because there were too many brothers in the family and his parents really didn’t have the ability to marry him, and they didn’t want to watch him die alone, so they could only let him be a son-in-law in the family. Maybe the man had some last resort and had to go to the woman's house. But no matter what the situation is, he doesn't have to worry too much.
Just like a woman getting married, she may not be able to marry the right one, but she may not be able to marry the wrong one. She can only say that she looks at choosing a spouse. Of course, being a son-in-law has no right to choose, it can only depend on luck. If you have good luck, you won’t live so lack of status when you meet a kind mother-in-law’s family.
Netizens were also very sad to see the man crying. Some netizens said: If it weren’t for love, who would be a son-in-law? The life of a son-in-law is not easy. In addition to being a cow and a horse, he also has to accept it. So the man can understand his mood, so I can only bless him.
Some netizens said: Actually, there is no need to worry so much. People nowadays are more open-minded and no longer treat them with strange eyes when it comes to their son-in-law. Many son-in-laws are also spoiled as if they are born at their mother-in-law's house. As long as the couple is in love, it is not that important who marrys anyone.
Some netizens said: In fact, you can let the man marry the woman first, and the couple will return to the woman's house to live there. This will not only give the man, but also not change the identity of the son-in-law. After all, it is a man, giving him some dignity is more beneficial to the relationship between the couple.
Zimo Chat Interesting News: In fact, whether a woman is married to her in-laws' home or a man is married to her mother-in-law's home, she will have such a mood. There are always many uncertain factors from a familiar environment to a strange environment, and I am also full of anxiety about the upcoming marriage life.
As mother-in-law or mother-in-law, they should treat them like their own children, so that they can feel loved and respected, so that they will be grateful to their mother-in-law or mother-in-law and will be very filial to their elders in the future. Living is a matter for couples. Parents should not interfere as much as possible, otherwise it will lead to discord between husband and wife.
The times are different now, and son-in-law are more tolerant of their home-to-door son-in-law. There is little bullying. As long as the family respects each other, understands each other, communicates with each other, and creates a pleasant family atmosphere together, there is no saying that they can get in the door. Everyone is a relative, only love and tolerance, happiness and happiness.
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