It takes more than just patience, but also wisdom.
If we want to run a family, we need not only intelligence, but more importantly, patience.
When things happen, we must communicate and understand them well.
Three points of communication and seven points of tolerance.
Good relationship requires both parties to be tolerant and understand each other, and also to be patient.
No matter how close a person is, he may not really understand the other person, nor may he really understand the other person’s thoughts. And communication and persuasion are different. Communication is equal, and it is calm and tolerant of each other, rather than being arrogant and complaining to each other.
In a family, the more mutual understanding and tolerance the two parties understand each other, the more complete the family will be.
A truly good family relationship is that both family members have learned tolerate and understand each other, and that both parties have learned to be tolerant to treat each other.
When encountering things, we know how to understand each other and tolerate each other, and we also understand that both parties need to understand each other.
Three points to be clear and seven points to be confused
Only after we get older do we realize that not everything needs to be debated about winning or losing. Which family has not shown any signs of bumpy and bumpy relationship between them.
is not a reasonable place. If both parties have complaints and all become complaints, then the family is incomplete.
Happy families rely on mutual maintenance and care between family members, rather than on both parties complaining about each other and complaining about each other. People’s original views cannot be the same. Both parties should care for each other and maintain relationships. The family is not a place to reason, but a place to maintain feelings.
After you are used to the strong winds and waves in life, you will know the value of food, food, oil and salt.
Be more sober when facing big things, and be more confused when facing small things. This is not confused. This is actually the right choice.
Three-point recommendation, seven-point respect
Stay filial and disobedient with our parents, stay close to our lover but talk less truth. Be good at listening with our children, rather than criticizing and educating. . "
Good family relationships must have a sense of proportion, a sense of family, know how to give and work hard.
True love is actually respecting each other, not destroying each other.
A philosopher said: "A person can live in harmony with his family, which is a major achievement in life. ”
When you reach a certain age, you will understand that what is really important is actually your own family, your own family.
When we get along with our family, we must keep giving, respect each other, and communicate well with each other. This is the main reason why we must maintain our family well.
Author | Some things about psychology, I will never give up love and freedom in my life.
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