sanmao : If I don’t love you, I will not miss you, I will not be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I will not lose confidence and fighting spirit, and I will not be in pain. If I can not love you, how great it would be! This is true for
. Love will not only be unable to help but contact the other person on its own initiative, but also be unable to stop missing the other person, and will not be jealous and jealous of the opposite sex around you.
When you really fall in love with someone, you will easily become jealous of the other person, you will also easily lose confidence and fighting spirit, and you will easily fall into a painful situation and be unable to extricate yourself. Why does this happen to
? In fact, perhaps it is because I am afraid of knowing that the other party has no intention of him, fear of being rejected when expressing his feelings to him, and fear of not being able to grow old with him.
The most unacceptable situation in the world is that you cannot love it. You love each other very much, but the other person is indifferent. It's like the item you like, but in the end it's informed that the item is discontinued.
Similarly, the happiest and most beautiful love in the world is the love between two people.
But, how should we know that the other person you love deeply also loves you?
In fact, a man who truly loves you will be willing to give you these two things.
, especially the second thing, the more the man who takes the initiative to give it to you, it probably means that he has recognized you in this life.
1 [He will give you the right to decide on major issues]
What is the best family style for a family? Forgive small matters, discuss big matters, do not argue for right or wrong, regardless of winning or losing. This is not only the best family style of a family, but also the best relationship.
Many couples or couples often ignore these points and always think that you love me, I love you, as long as there is love, it is enough.
It is certainly indispensable to have love, but love alone is not enough. It must also have other valuable qualities.
If both of them have the kind of strong personality that likes to compete for strength and does not know how to overcome hardness with softness, and does not know how to advance and retreat, then such relationships are mostly messy.
But if a man who truly loves you, he will definitely choose to forgive you in small matters and give you the right to decide on big matters, and will not or rarely compete with you for right or wrong and win or lose.
Everything will be based on your perspective to think about problems, consider your feelings and thoughts more, and also know how to think from the perspective of others.
will not be petty with you, will not sarcasticly at you, will not be far away and close at you, and will not play hard to get.
, but will be treated with a sincere and gentle heart as beautiful as the first meeting. Even if you see your bare face, you still love you, even if you know your shortcomings, you still tolerate you, and even if you know your past, you still accompany you.
When a man is willing to give you the right to decide on major events, he most likely wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
Because, he believes that you are the right person he has been looking for in this life.
Although some people always say they love you, they still remain macho.
There are very few or no matter big or small things, and
instead makes a decision and find an excuse to circumvent you afterwards, saying that you are afraid of worrying about you and don’t want to trouble you.
is actually his machismoism. He never thought of discussing with you and making decisions on everything he likes.
For example, on a certain anniversary, he never asks you where you want to eat, but directly booked a restaurant;
When ordering, he would not ask you what you like to eat first, and just order food by himself;
Afterwards, he would also ask why you didn’t finish the food, just waste more food left. In fact, it’s not that you don’t finish them, but that you don’t like some dishes at all.
Although some men are a bit macho, they can restrain themselves in front of their beloved women and become a gentleman with a very gentleman.
2 [He will give you economic power]
In the popular drama "Dream Hualu", Gu Qianfan was infatuated in front of his beloved woman Zhao Paner, which is really enviable.
When Zhao Pang'er asked him if he was treating him sincerely, he took out the land deed and silver from his pocket and handed it to her to express his feelings.
For this reason, Zhao Paner was naturally moved and no longer doubted his true feelings for him. He just wanted to follow him wholeheartedly.
Therefore, when a man is willing to give you the financial power, such as adding your name to the real estate certificate and giving you the salary card, these are all traces of his true love for you.
If he doesn't plan to live with you, why bother to prepare these things for this?
Just just coax it with two or three sweet words. Why do you need to be so serious about giving you these things? It's a land deed and a deposit.
Since he is willing to spend this time and energy to prepare these things for you, it can be said that he really wants to have a future with you and wants to treat you sincerely.
After all, he is willing to hand over these valuable things to you. It is to make you feel at ease and to prove his infatuation with you.
If you are not regarded as the most important person, he will probably not give you these valuable things.
A man who truly loves you will often hand over valuable things to the most important people.
So, when he gives you these things, it means that you are the most important person in his mind.
Therefore, no matter how a man talks sweetly to you, he will always respond to his requests and obey everything, but if he is unwilling to give you these two things, it will not prove his sincerity to you;
, he will give the right to decide on major issues; if you will ask where you want to eat, what color you choose, where to buy a house, etc.
, it will give you control over the economy; such as adding your name to the real estate certificate, giving you a car key, giving you a deposit or salary card, etc.
No matter how many sweet words are, they are not as appropriate and true as material giving. No one says sweet words, but not everyone is willing to give material things.
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