How painful is it to be betrayed by your closest and trusted partner?
The original wife's answer was: "There is no way to describe it, and people who have not experienced it will never understand it."
Blue side also has no choice but to empathize with the pain of the original wife, because there is no empathy in this world.
But the Blue Party can help you, cheer up, resolve extramarital affairs, and do your best to make you live a better life.
Previously, the Blue Party came to meet with an extramarital affair case. The original wife came to talk to Blue Party and kept crying after chatting for three hours. During
, I was sobbing that I couldn't speak several times because it was so painful.
But for the sake of the children and to continue the marriage, I had to face it, so I came to Lan Fang to cry and ask what to do.
Original wife: Twenty-seven years of love are not as good as a mistress who has been in three months.
This original wife and her husband have a relationship for twenty-seven years from knowing each other to having sex with her husband.
The two met when they were in their teenage years old and were together under 20 years old.
When they got married, her husband had nothing, and the two of them married in her husband's hometown.
has been living in a mud tiled house for several years, but she has never complained.
Her husband was also very nice to her. Later, she and her husband had their first child and went out to work.
and later saved money and started doing small business, and later opened his own factory.
supports each other and works hard all the way, and now the family has more than tens of millions of assets.
She said she always knew that men would become bad if they were rich, and even if they had a deep emotional foundation, she never relaxed.
, all the financial-related factories are brought out by her.
In order to do a good job, she also signed up for many classes to learn knowledge. When she was forty, she also took the adult college entrance examination . In the
factory, she also found a way to put all her relatives in it.
This original wife is not a silly Bai Tian or a housewife. She has always been very sober and is acting.
Even though she made mental preparations in advance and knew that her husband might cheat,
, but after really discovering this day, she still couldn't accept it and was in great pain.
Her husband cheated with a team leader in the factory. The mistress was a factory he entered after graduating from college.
was in the assembly line at the beginning, and later he was promoted to the management position, and began to have contact with the cheating man.
is not very old, but she is very good at being a human being. The factory has a good evaluation of her.
A cheating man is also very fond of mistresses. After spending time together for a long time, he gradually developed an extramarital affair.
arranges relatives and friends to join the factory. The original wife of this move was not wasted. Her husband cheated on him for less than three months. A relative told her that something was wrong with her husband and mistress, so she would pay more attention to it.
She was also a little skilled, so she immediately found another team leader in the same dormitory of the mistress and gave her some money.
also promised to get her promoted in the future. The mistress roommate agreed to help collect evidence and quickly sent the photos to the original wife.
The original wife was very disappointed when she got the evidence. She finally sorted out her emotions, which made her even more collapsed.
She went to find the cheating man to show off. Her request was actually to break up with the cheating man and the mistress and fire the mistress.
She is willing to let go of the past and help the cheating man conceal his extramarital affair, and the two of them continue to live a good life.
As a result, the man who cheated was unwilling to do so and insisted on continuing the extramarital affair. After a big fight, the man who cheated began to refuse to go home.
The original wife communicated many times but failed, so she told the cheating man that she wanted to divorce. The cheating man was unwilling to do so, saying that she wanted to maintain the status quo and that she had been in great pain and didn't know what to do. Her sister is a fan of Lan Fang, so she came to Lan Fang for help.
First, the Blue Party corrected the wrong thinking of this original partner.
In fact, the reason why this original wife was in pain was that in addition to the betrayal of the person next to her,
also has a very important point, which is that she could not accept the relationship for more than 20 years and defeated the mistress who had known her for less than three months after a cheating man.
This is actually a misunderstanding that many original wives often fall into. The original wives always feel that they have lost to the mistress.
But the reality is that the original wives lost in the hands of the cheating man. The cheating man did not have the intention, and the mistresses would not have the chance to get close to the cheating man, let alone the situation in this case.
A cheating man favors mistresses, but not just because mistresses are promoted to team leader, but want to develop her into a lover.
is not necessarily a mistress who intends to hook up in order to take a shortcut, but it may also be a cheating man to seduce the mistress.
So for this original wife, what she faces is not a twenty-year relationship that will be defeated by three months of extramarital affair.
is not a man who has been cheating for more than 20 years, and he is not as good as a young and beautiful mistress.
But the cheating man became suspicious. The cheating man wanted to betray the marriage and did not repent. This is the key point.
Secondly, if the original wife wants to separate the mistress, she must know why the cheating man refuses to break up with the mistress.
It is very clear that a man cheating on him is definitely not because of how deep the relationship with his mistress is.
From the point where a cheating man refuses to divorce, it can be seen that a cheating man is obsessed with and knows that divorce is not good for him.
The reason why he was unwilling to separate the mistress was that Lan Fang believed that he felt that his original wife would not divorce.
He can't bear to save half of his property, and he also believes that his original wife is also reluctant to give up.
As long as you don’t get divorced, how can the original wife make a fuss, it actually has little impact on him.
At most, it made everyone know that people around him were talking about him, and he didn't care.
This can be seen from his development of extramarital affair in the factory and being discovered by others. A cheating man is not afraid of being known.
Finally, it is how to resolve extramarital affair.
The original wife needed an attitude that made the cheating man afraid and insisted on divorce.
You can do whatever you are afraid of. If you make me suffer, I will not let you live a good life.
not only wants to divorce, but also like this original wife manages the company's finances, which makes it difficult for the cheating man to cause trouble.
To let the cheating man know, it’s not that you don’t separate the mistress, you can’t do anything about it if you play tricks on the original wife.
Extramarital affair is a psychological warfare. Whoever is afraid first will lose. Whoever is fearless will win the end.
at the end of the article, Lan Fang wanted to say that compared to entangled why a man cheated, it is better to analyze why a man refused to break up with a mistress.
Compared to the pain of loving mistresses more for men, the original wife might as well find a way to let the cheating man accompany you in pain.
In extramarital affair, the person who laughs to the end is often the person with a stable mentality and ruthless means.
If you encounter an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
