A video says, "A man who doesn't love you, choose to be silent when you have conflicts with others. The person who loves you will stand on your side, even if it is really your fault. He will first soothe your emotions and then solve the problem first."
suddenly reminds me of my current object.
At that time, he was still chatting and familiar with him after work. When I was at work, he rested, and came over and asked him what he was doing, and he said to see me. I couldn't lift the hot water bucket, and the male colleague next to me had never said a few words. If I called him to lift it, I would most likely reject me, which would be very embarrassing. We were familiar with each other, and when we saw him coming, we asked him to carry the hot water bucket, and he went to carry it. At this time, the supervisor saw it, it was just a trivial matter. I think she is quite meddling in other people's business.
Supervisor shouted my name and accused me of why he asked him to carry the hot water bucket? He didn't even wear work clothes. I retorted weakly, but I didn't say anything. But in fact, he walked to the bucket and touched the lid. After the supervisor said that, another boy next to me went to carry the hot bucket. He stood aside silently, without saying a word, and without saying a word for me.
Later, he thought about it. He was not very willing to help me. A person who really wanted to help me would jump out when others criticize me and say that he was willing to move. It was nothing to do, so he would help me. But he just didn't say anything.
So, he didn't like me at first, and he doesn't necessarily like me now. He was silent like this at that time, and he might be silent in the future.
