33-year-old Mr. Dai is the "diamond five" in the eyes of the girls in the company.
Mr. Dai looks handsome, graduated from a prestigious university, has great prospects in the company, and his monthly salary is higher than that of old employees who have been in decades. What’s important is that Mr. Dai’s family has good conditions, and he already has a house and a car, which is the golden age for marriage.
Mr. Dai seems to know that he is very popular and always hides from the young girls in the company, without looking at them, and is even more unwilling to contact them. Mr. Dai is like this because he does not plan to get married at the moment.
Life is simple
Mr. Dai looks different from his appearance. Mr. Dai looks fashionable and uses whatever is popular. His mobile phone is the latest model. There are 3 watches in total, and they are matched with different clothes. In addition, the young Mr. Dai also drives a car worth more than 500,000 yuan, looking like a noble man.
Those who come into contact with Mr. Dai for the first time will be bewitched by his appearance, thinking that he should be a rich fantasy type. In fact, Mr. Dai's life is very simple. When he goes to get off work and gets drunk with his friends, he will hide at home to play games or watch TV for more time.
Mr. Dai’s preference for watching TV is different from many people. Mr. Dai likes to watch the animal world and explores time and space programs. He rarely pays attention to movies or TV series.
33-year-old Mr. Dai likes life alone and pursues simplicity.
Currently, it is not planned to get married
Many people around me advise Mr. Dai to get married out of concern. His parents were even more anxious and used extraordinary means to force Mr. Dai every time. For this reason, when Mr. Dai was on the New Year and the Festival, he was very afraid of seeing his parents and listening to their curse for chasing marriage.
So far, Mr. Dai does not plan to get married, nor does he want to fall in love. He believes that getting married or falling in love is a waste of time and life.
Mr. Dai has a weak concept of starting a family. He enjoys his life more and does not want to take on family responsibilities, nor does he want to accommodate another person because of marriage. Mr. Dai thinks that will be very tiring.
Living alone, although I feel lonely occasionally, I feel very comfortable, without anyone to restrain myself, and I don’t need to spend more time to take on the responsibilities after becoming a husband or father.
Mr. Dai told his friend that he might be more selfish. He thinks more about himself, how can he live comfortably.
Mr. Dai is so confident because his salary is very high, which makes him live whatever he wants. Mr. Dai, who has a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, can make himself a "king". If you want to drink coffee, drink coffee. If you want to invite friends to eat Western food, ask friends to eat Western food.
Mr. Dai believes that if you get married, this freedom will disappear. Compared to this freedom, Mr. Dai would rather not marry.
Maybe in a few years, maybe after 40 years, Mr. Dai might want to get married, but at present he really has no plans to get married or fall in love. He just wants to enjoy a single life quietly alone.
The monthly income of 20,000 yuan is enough to make him live a rich and noble life. He likes this kind of life.
In fact, men do not want to get married
Nowadays, feminism always advocates how women don’t want to get married, how they are disappointed and tired of marriage. In fact, women don’t know that many men don’t want to get married even more.
Marriage is a huge responsibility for men. The wife and children are like two mountains pressing on men's shoulders. Men dare not have their youthful feelings anymore. Only by constantly working hard to make money can they cope with all the difficulties in life. There is no freedom, and there is no time to take a breath. The key is that I am tired and my wife may not understand it.
So, Mr. Dai thought selfishly, how good it is to be a person, and the whole family is not hungry if you eat one person, just take care of yourself. You don’t need to take care of others, it’s so easy.
The relationship between men and women seems to have entered a dead end. Men do not want to get married or pursue girls. Compared to falling in love or getting married, they would rather be alone.
And women are shouting about the scene of disappointment in marriage and refuse to enter the marriage.
Men and women become two straight parallel lines, waiting and watching each other, but not willing to get close to each other.
There are many examples like Mr. Dai in life. They refuse to enter marriage. They think there are too many responsibilities in marriage and they are afraid to take it. The pressure of life makes them consciously stay away from marriage and think that one person will feel more comfortable. They don’t want to consider the future, but they prefer them to live with the situation in the future. I don’t know whether it is right or wrong for a life attitude like
. I will give an answer in the future.
