"Men are afraid of entering the wrong career, women are afraid of choosing the wrong man." Marriage is a lifelong event and must be treated with caution. The significance of marriage to women is far greater than that to men, so women should be treated with caution.
When looking for a partner, you should put the other person's character first. Only by marrying someone with good character can you gain happiness. Marrying a person with a bad character, even if his other conditions are very good, he will not be happy.
29-year-old Liu Ya has had three love affairs, but all failed, which made her very confused. My first love dated her for three years, but in the end she left with a divorced woman who was 8 years older than her first love, and abandoned Liu Ya who was deeply in love.
Liu Ya's second relationship lasted for only one year, but it had reached the point of talking about marriage. On the eve of the marriage, her boyfriend asked Liu Ya to marry a car worth 300,000 yuan, but the Liu Ya family disagreed, so the marriage was hyped.
The third relationship lasted only half a year. Because her boyfriend was transferred to work, after he went to work in another place, the two got together and gradually became distant, and the relationship ended in the end.
After experiencing these three relationships, Liu Ya is no longer keen on love. But she got older and the pressure of getting married made her unable to breathe, so she had to go on a blind date. During a blind date, Liu Ya didn't know how to judge whether the blind date was kind, and she was afraid that her new relationship would end in failure.
In fact, when a girl is looking for a partner, she will know if the other person is a kind person and have a meal with him.
1. See how he orders
Generally, men with cultivation will hand the menu to the girl and ask the girl to decide what to order. This is respect and value to the girl. If the girl refuses and asks him to come and order, then he should consider the girl's taste when ordering.
If a man does not seek the girl’s opinion when ordering dishes, but just orders according to his favorite taste, it means that the man is very selfish and he is self-centered. After a girl marrys him, he will be macho and does not know how to respect his wife, so he is definitely not a kind person.
Ordering food seems to be a small matter, but in fact the knowledge is quite great, and girls can see the big ones from the small. Assuming that he ordered too few dishes or the price was very cheap, the girl could tell that he was either a very stingy person or was financially unlucky.
2. Look at his attitude towards the waiter
When men pursue a girl, they always show their good side to the girl as much as possible, and the girl will easily be unable to see his true face. So, the girl should understand the man from the side and see what his attitude towards others is.
He can treat others badly and have a bad temper today, so he can treat his wife like this in the future. When a girl eats with a man, there may be no more people, so let's see what he is about to the waiter.
If you accidentally knock over the cup, or you want to take a tissue, you will have to trouble the waiter. It is impossible for a bad man to be very good at the waiter, and they will not respect the waiter at all. Therefore, if a girl meets a man who has a bad attitude towards the waiter, she can know that he is definitely not a kind person.
3. How to check out the
When you are in love, men usually pay the bill after dinner, which is an unwritten agreement. Of course, girls should also pay attention to their proper care when ordering food and should not consume a lot of money randomly. You should know that falling in love is a two-way choice. While you are observing this man, the man is also observing you.
Kind men usually rush to pay for the bill. Not to mention dating girls, even if they eat with other friends, they will rush to pay for the bill. Kind people are always unwilling to take advantage of others and do not want to owe others favors, so they will rush to pay.
If the amount of money a girl consumes is not too outrageous, but a man is unwilling to pay, then either he doesn't like the girl, or he has a problem with his character. When a girl encounters this situation, she must figure out why she is unwilling to pay, and then decide whether to continue dating him.
A man who likes to take advantage of the situation and wants the girl to pay for the date and does not want to pay for it is definitely not a kind person. Girls should stay away from him!
A person’s personality and temper will always be reflected in the details of life, so don’t underestimate the matter of eating. At the dining table, you can fully see the man's character, education and cultivation, and you must see the big one from the small.
Dear is a process of observing each other and working together. In this process, the girl should be more picky, observe more, and look at her shortcomings. If you feel that you cannot accept those shortcomings, then break up as soon as possible to avoid divorce after getting married.
After getting married, you should look at the other person’s strengths more and the other person’s weaknesses less. As for the other party’s shortcomings, you should turn a blind eye to one thing as much as possible. It is rare to be confused so that the marriage can last long.
To have a happy marriage, you must not only manage it well, but also choose a good partner. If you choose a scumbag, it will be difficult to get happiness no matter how hard you work after marriage. If you want to choose a good partner, you must first choose his character and choose a kind person.
After you marry a kind person, even if the marriage cannot continue and you have to divorce, he will not do anything that hurts you particularly. Because his nature is kind, the country is easy to change, but it is difficult to change. It is also difficult to make bad people do good things, and it is also difficult to make kind people do bad things.
If you want to know whether the man you are dating is kind or not, then have a meal with him! When eating, you must observe carefully and keep your eyes open. His character and living habits will be reflected in the details of the meal.
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