It is of course a good thing to have a good job, you can find a good job, get a high salary, etc. But this is when looking for a job, and it does not mean that it is the same when choosing a spouse. Of course, a high degree of education will definitely give you extra points in the market for choosing a spouse, but it is not something that a high degree of education will definitely find a good spouse.
Love is about fate. If two people have no fate, it is useless even if you have a high degree of education. If two people are destined to be together, you will also gain love without education, so education is not proportional to marriage happiness.
If you think you can make any requests to the object with a high education, then you are very wrong. Everyone has their own preferences, and everyone’s needs are different. Some people pay attention to education, while others don’t care about education at all.
The girl went on a blind date with a doctor, and her expectant mother-in-law made high requirements
Xiaoya is 28 years old and has no partner yet. Her mother is urging her to get married almost every day, which makes Xiaoya very upset. In fact, Xiaoya also wants to find a partner as soon as possible, have a good relationship, and then get into marriage. But she was helpless. Xiaoya had never met a suitable partner, so she had no choice.
Xiaoya has also gone to date, but she has never met anyone she likes, so she is no longer interested in blind dates. Later, the aunt wanted to introduce Xiaoya to a partner, who was a doctor, 32 years old, just divorced and had no children.
Auntie showed Xiaoya and her mother the photo. Her mother felt that although this doctor was divorced, he was a doctor and had no children, so it was not important to divorce. She felt that this was a great opportunity, so Xiaoya must seize it, otherwise there would be no store after passing through this village.
Xiaoya is quite satisfied with the doctor's appearance and thinks other conditions are good. In addition, her mother is constantly instigating her, so she agreed to go on a blind date. The aunt immediately contacted the man and made an appointment for the time and place of meeting, and then asked Xiaoya to go to the appointment.
originally said that the two of them met, but when Xiaoya arrived at the agreed location, she found that the doctor's mother was also here. Xiaoya felt a little unhappy, but she still acted very friendly on her face. She greeted the doctor and her son with a smile.
After Xiaoya sat down, the doctor ordered three cups of coffee and some fruits, melon seeds, etc., and then started chatting while eating. The doctor's mother said that she came as a prospective mother-in-law, because his son failed once in his marriage and could not fail again, so she wanted to help her son check.
Xiaoya thinks that this prospective mother-in-law is not unreasonable. It is pitiful to all parents in the world. It is also human nature to want to help her son check it. But what the prospective mother-in-law said next made Xiaoya feel very unhappy. She felt like she was checking her household registration by the police.
The expectant mother-in-law asked about Xiaoya’s family in great detail, and even Xiaoya’s great-grandfather’s situation. Xiaoya thought to herself, would she ask all the eighteen generations of their family? Then she couldn't answer.
The expectant mother-in-law said that the reason she asked Xiaoya’s details was to see if Xiaoya’s family had family genetic diseases. If there is a family genetic disease, their family doesn’t want it. They only have this son and must inherit good genes. Their family has very good genes, otherwise they would not have been a doctorate.
Xiaoya rationally thinks that the prospective mother-in-law is right, but she is emotionally disgusted, so she can't help asking the man's family history. Unexpectedly, the expectant mother-in-law dealt with it with the words "our family is good" and said nothing else.
A prospective mother-in-law asked and said that they were very satisfied with Xiaoya’s situation. Let’s talk about marriage below! Because her son spent all his money in his previous marriage, he now has no money on hand. If Xiaoya marry her son, then Xiaoya will have to marry a dowry house and a car, which is a must.
Xiaoya was stunned. How could the man make such a request? The expectant mother-in-law continued to say that the house must be more than 120 square meters and should be bought near her son's workplace.The car costs more than 300,000 yuan, so that he can be worthy of his son's identity as a doctor. After marriage, he has to have two children, one man and one woman...
Xiaoya is already a little unable to sit still. What is the prospective mother-in-law? Is this a blind date? She felt like she was hiring staff. Xiaoya looked at the doctor and asked him why he got divorced? The doctor glanced at the prospective mother-in-law and said, "She is not filial to my mother and is unwilling to have two children."
The prospective mother-in-law said, "My son is very filial, but the daughter-in-law is not filial. For the dowry house and car , your family should be fine! Your father runs a company, and this little money is a drizzle for him. Our family just likes your father runs a company, otherwise how could we have an undergraduate student? My son is Doctor..."
I don’t think there is any need to listen anymore. They have no other advantages except for the “doctor”, but they are full of superiority. I think no wonder this doctor divorced, because their family does not respect their daughter-in-law at all, and the prospective mother-in-law is completely arrogant.
I couldn't help but say, "Who cares about the doctorate? I'm looking for a husband, not a company employee. My dad runs a company and earns his money. I don't want to use his money to dowry the wedding house and car. It cannot meet your requirements, so there is no need to continue talking."
finished speaking, I got up and left. The doctor was anxious and chased him out immediately, but I still left without looking back.
You must respect each other when looking for a partner, and don’t make excessive requests
Xiaoya went on a blind date sincerely, but the man’s family seemed to be talking to her about business, so she left angrily. In fact, it is not a problem to marry a house and a car under her family's conditions, but the problem is that the man's family asked for it like this, which made her feel very uncomfortable.
Everyone has to rely on themselves, don’t have the idea of relying on others casually. The man should not take the woman’s dowry for nothing, and the woman should not take the man’s dowry for nothing. Marriage has requirements for both men and women. When you make a request to each other, have you ever thought about whether you deserve these requirements?
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has to go on a blind date and take his mother with him. This is a bit abnormal in itself. Only mother-in-law men, or men with particularly poor abilities, will take their mother to date the girl. If a person does not have the ability to support a family, then don’t start a family, so as not to cheat others.
When a girl encounters a man’s family with a bad intention, she must stop the loss in time and do not be attached to other things in their family, because character is a prerequisite. It is indeed a good thing to have a high education, but it is indeed a capital, but it is by no means all. Finding a partner is a comprehensive consideration of a person's various aspects, and it depends on the total score.
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