How much does a man love you?
People who have never experienced the emotions of men and women may never know what the answer to this question is in their entire lives.
Even people who are already in a gender relationship sometimes have little understanding of this problem. They think they have fully understood love, but in fact they are just the tip of the iceberg.
In the relationship between the two genders, sometimes the authorities are confused and the bystanders are clear. Sometimes it is when something important happens that you will know the depth of love.
When the emotions are natural, or is when both of them feel that it is worthwhile to deliver them to each other at this moment, and things happen to the two of them naturally.
However, when it comes to "sex" matters, everyone has different ways of dealing with each other, and there are thousands of faces.
Therefore, how much a man loves you, it is often easier to expose his nature after "coming a relationship".
Those who love you will be responsible for you
In Freud's hierarchy of demand , we can know that the expression of physiological needs and emotional aspects is the most basic needs, and "sex" exists in Among all ages, from infants' oral desire to adults' sexual desire, it is accompanied by the whole life. Due to the lack of satisfaction of the physiological foundation, men also pursue sexual desire more than women.
However, some men know what it means to have sex, and know that women will only entrust them to themselves by trusting themselves wholeheartedly.
So, they will not care about the other person's feelings just to satisfy their own selfish desires. After having sex, they will be responsible to women. They will either treat women twice as well or put marriage on the agenda. This is to give a woman the sense of security she wants, rather than to worry about gains and losses.
Shakespeare once said: "The power of love is peace, never taking into account reason, rules, honor and disgrace. It can turn all fear, shock and pain into sweetness when you suffer."
The power of love can soothe a person's heart Panic can calm a person in the midst of rage, and can make an insecure person no longer worry about gains and losses.
And only men who truly love us can do this. After having sex, their love will only increase and not decrease.
People who don’t love you will ignore
Qiu Yingying in the TV series " Ode to Joy " After having sex with Superintendent Bai, Superintendent Bai changed from his previous enthusiastic attitude to his subsequent indifference.
does not answer Qiu Yingying's call or reply to Qiu Yingying's message. Once, Qiu Yingying even saw Manager Bai and other women being in love with each other and saw him getting into another woman's car.
Obviously, before I had an intimate relationship, Director Bai said sweet words to him, and said that he would only love her for the rest of his life. In just a few days, he immediately changed his mind.
That's because Manager Bai doesn't love Qiu Yingying. In his world, Qiu Yingying is just used to vent her physiological needs. Since she has achieved her goal, why bother to spend time?
So, after an intimate relationship, he exposed his nature, or was too lazy to continue disguising himself, so he ignored Qiu Yingying.
Xia Qixi in the book "Later We All Cry" wrote: "The difference between lies and oaths is that one is the listener takes it seriously, and the other is the talker takes it seriously."
Many times, we always It is to easily believe what a man said, thinking he is responsible, thinking he will accompany him to the ends of the world, but it ends up being a waste.
So, this requires us to keep our eyes open when facing gender relations, not to get hot, and not to ignore them.
The best way for women to protect themselves is to be responsible for themselves, that is, to love themselves
In fact, for women, the best way to avoid harm is to avoid these harms at the beginning, that is, in order to avoid being treated after a relationship Men always abandon them.
So at the beginning, you must keep your bottom line and not agree to the requests made by the other party, even if you refuse, you will have unpleasant episodes in the future.
Luo Zhenyu once said: "The foresight of a true person who does things is to grasp the current and future trends in a timely manner, and can look at things from different perspectives and maintain sufficient possibilities for iteration."
If a man is angry because we refuse to have a relationship, we will refuse to have sex."
If a man is angry because we refuse to have sex." , then this man is not worth relying on, because he only considers the present, does not consider the future, but only considers his own needs, but does not respect our choices.
Because of emotional thinking, we will be more susceptible to hurt in a relationship and will sacrifice ourselves more easily.
So, this means that when we deal with our relationship, we must keep our bottom line. No one can force ourselves to do things we don’t want to do, even in love, it’s not possible. Only in this way can we avoid tragedy, and only in this way can we not be blinded by love.
