What is love? One of the factors formed love is "passion".
is maintained mainly by dopamine secretion. This passion can only be maintained for 18 months.
, that is, the " Love Period " between most couples will not exceed 18 months.
has passed this period, and the love between the two will gradually return to a stable state, and then transfer to the contradiction period.
is different in different ages, and people's needs and ways to operate in love are also different. When
HTML is young, we are willing to pay more for love.
If you want to love it, you will give up if you want to give up.
, but when people are middle -aged, they are often hesitant in the face of love.
does not love the people, most middle -aged people still choose to settle in the status quo.
has an emotional case:
has been married for 20 years, and her relationship with her husband has come to an end.If it is not for the child, she will have divorced her husband, but she has no such courage and no reason to leave.
until one day, her life broke into another man.
two people are in love with each other.
and this middle -aged lady was in love, and she listened to the man's words: "You divorce, I'll marry you."
result was a woman who divorced her husband.
, she took the initiative to abandon the property at home, and took the initiative to choose "cleaning out of the house".
What happened to your guess?
turned out to be the man, he would not give up his family for her. He was just a fresh sense of the picture, so he would say that.
Woman is stunned. It is a man who deceives himself in front of him, and he cannot go back to home.
was in a dilemma, and she realized how stupid her love was.
also has similar stories in the movie " Bridge Dream ".
Fire -hero Franciska is a peasant woman. Although she has more longing and fantasies about the outside world, she still listened to the arrangement of her family and married a man in the town.
and the male lead Robert is a photographer who has been to many places in the world. One day after
, Robert came to the town of Franciska.
two people met for the first time, and there was a spark of love.
With the mutual understanding of Franciska and Robert, she gradually fell in love with the man in front of her.
You think:
, a farmer woman living in a narrow and closed circle every day, she is full of desire for the outside world. What happens what will happen to
?
fell into the love river and could not extricate itself.
But in the end, Franciska still chose a family.
Although she loves men, she also wants to leave with him, but she said:
"My husband has never hurt others in his life, and he should not be treated like this; my daughter's daughter should be treated. It's still small, if I go like this In this case, it will set a bad example for her and make a joke. A woman. When she is in middle age, it is inevitable that the relationship with her husband is becoming more and more alienated. If two people conflict every day and life is not harmonious, the marriage is even more crumbling. Women like live in a bland, torment and lonely state every day. Once a "break in" appears in her life, she is likely to be unable to restrain her feelings. is like freshness and passion. "I have not been on my husband for too many years, I have felt this kind of love -like feeling." will mistakenly think that they "fall in love" and meet true love. is unknown, and such love is also unreasonable. is desire. What does desire? Full -time Mrs. Full -time Mrs. I want to be freedom, longing for the outside world, and eager to make her economy independence, but she did not break the courage to live in front of her life. She is eager to leave, but she has no ability to live after leaving;
is more because they are more and less courageous under the long -term bad marriage.
When passion disappears, life will be plain.
is middle -aged. What should not be lost is that they like beautiful things, but they should not invest in a nihile love at will.
Take an example:
people like to watch.
has a paragraph on the Internet: men are 60 years old and still like girls in their 20s.
Why is it not a woman? Of course, women also have this right.
can completely control their lives and choose their own way.
can be liked, and can have a good impression. When you meet a good boy on the road, you can see a few more.
, but that's it.
Who stipulates that they can't have a good impression?
, but being able to suppress his uneasy heart and transform into another emotion, is a great behavior.
is middle -aged, and things that can improve their interests are not love. What should be? What should be?
is the ability to make money, the ability to improve career, and the ability to educate children.
Whenever you make a little progress, your sense of accomplishment and passion for life are far greater than love.
Middle -aged woman must not " love brain ".
You think you have encountered love, maybe you meet a hunter.
You think he is a true love for you. In fact, he is unwilling to give up your family for you.
can maintain passion and maintain love for life, but don't easily love your brain.
When you go the wrong way, you will fall into the cliff. What is the essence of
?
is to see through the bad things in front of you, still accept this bland messy stall, and tell yourself that you must change this bad life.
Topic today:
, how do you think of the love of middle -aged people?
