Author 丨 Tongyu
Last night, a girl said such a thing. In the first two months of
, she talked about a boyfriend who knew it through a certain blind date software. They had a good opinion of each other. After meeting, they could talk more. , Determine the relationship.
is still immersed in the joy of happiness.
until one day, she asked her boyfriend to disclose their relationship in the circle of friends. At that time, her boyfriend hesitated, probably meaning that uncertain things did not want to make people know. But because of her repeated request, her boyfriend couldn't push off, and finally promised to make public.
was sitting next to her boyfriend at the time, watching him publicly, naturally her boyfriend did not block anyone and sent a circle of friends that everyone visible.
days later, her boyfriend proposed to break up. The reason why
broke up. It was the predecessor of the boy who saw this circle of friends and found it, and then the boy did not let go of his predecessor, so he broke up with her and reunited.
Her mood was particularly complicated at the time, was both shocked and sad. I did not expect the feelings that had a special coincidence in his own opinion. A state of two loves.
she has a feeling of being deceived.
But she still did nothing, but she blessed him generously, and then chose to delete the other party. What is
and the boy's attitude?
boys expressed apologies, and then said that everyone could not be a couple, and she could be friends. I hope she will not delete herself. If there is anything to find him in the future, he will try to help. What a generous one.
shook her head bitterly.
is because boys have never loved, so he naturally faces separation and is particularly geographically intellectual. He wants the other party to have a negative impression of him in his heart and leave a result of joy.
but she can't do it. Although
does not have been together for a long time, she is seriously treating this relationship and giving all her sincerity, because the boy is her first love, she goes to the purpose of her life with a particularly enthusiastic state of mind, but she goes for a lifetime, but she goes for a lifetime, but she goes for a lifetime. I didn't expect that I was with each other, and I just made up from the beginning.
will get along like friends in the future? That was to embarrass herself.
is white. The person who really loves the most decent separation is never good at gathered, but never again.
Those who can get together and disperse are essential Either that the past love has completely faded the passage of time, and neither of them no longer nostalgia, so they don't mind to continue to get along in another way.
Obviously, the person who really loves can not only do how generosity and to deceive your heart.
So she insisted on deleting him.
is just. After deleting, she still has some ways to follow the circle of friends of the boy and find that he has deleted the dynamics of the official announcement long ago and replaced the predecessor's selfie.
She said, "Why are there so many dishonest people in this world? I have known him for several months. I really always feel that he is a very reliable and responsible person. I thought I found it found out "
,"
, was light and light, and even when she broke up, she also blessed each other.
But in fact, this emotion has already rebounded on her. She complained about him, and she didn't understand, why would she encounter such a thing?
She began to have profound self -doubts. Do you think he is not worthy of a two -way rush? Otherwise, why did the other party lie to her so?
, she originally had the confidence, was basically destroyed in this deceived relationship.
, how can she not understand, she obviously looks so good, how can people set up so thoroughly?
In fact, it is the most direct reality. It is not the collapse of the boys' settings, but her preset collapsed. The boys have always been the same.
Of course, this is also a common problem for many people in love -when you love him, you may add a lot of halo to him. You think this person is very good and powerful. When this love cools down, you will recognize the reality after all.
people, always need to be seen at a critical time.
. I always hear some people and instructs some girls who have not been in love to make them brighten their eyes when they choose the other half, but some people have red eyes. See wrong.
will set up corresponding people in life, and naturally if you love love. Especially in the early stage, who would directly expose her shortcomings?
Therefore, it is normal to see the wrong person.
So, don't doubt yourself, not everyone, you can choose your true emperor when you choose for the first time. This not only requires strength, but also a lot of luck. Many people have a trial and error process, or if they are not uncomfortable, and then continue to accumulate experience in the process, they will eventually understand what kind of people are suitable for themselves, and choices will get closer to the correct options.
should not give yourself such a big psychological burden. There are both advantages and disadvantages. From another perspective of
, at least seeing someone at least before marriage, or understanding a reality, it means that the pain he suffered after marriage was removed by himself.
This is also a good thing.
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