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We often say that character determines destiny. In fact, a person's character is determined by his inner personality.
In psychology, people are divided into 18 personalities, which flow into two dimensions respectively, forming a total of 36 basic personality types, including type 18 balanced personality and type 18 unbalanced personality.
In other words, man himself is a contradictory body.
You can't be just one personality. Most of the time, we are a combination of several personalities, so we are contradictory. We can be rational, emotional, optimistic, and pessimistic at times.
Every personality has its own advantages and disadvantages. Even an unbalanced personality will have its attractions from different perspectives. For example, people with a conservative personality, although traditional and conservative, appear dull, but they also give people a sense of down-to-earth and loyalty.
However, we must stay away from men with certain personalities, especially when he exposes the following three personalities. Staying away in time is the greatest protection for yourself.
1: Hypocritical personality
The main characteristics of hypocritical personality are betrayal, duplicity, duplicity, lip service, hypocrisy, etc.
Such men are usually born actors. They are smart, flexible, and good at disguise. They have a fatal attraction for some women who are not experienced in the world, and they can easily fall into the trap of their smooth words.
But they are also hypocritical, selfish, cunning, and have a low moral bottom line. They lack a sense of responsibility, ignore commitments and responsibilities, and put their own interests first. Being with such a man is like a poisonous snake lurking around you, and you don't know when it will bite you. Men like
are actually easy to distinguish. You just need to be more calm and objective. Because no lie can be told for a lifetime. One lie always needs ten lies to cover it up, and in the end there will be more and more flaws.
What you have to do is to identify their lies, then get out as soon as possible and stop the loss in time.
2: Pessimistic personality
Which woman was not attracted by a melancholy boy when she was young? Women are born with a maternal nature, and they are unconsciously attracted to those melancholic men and want to be their salvation.
The characteristics of a pessimistic personality are pessimism, low self-esteem, narrow-mindedness, a dim view of the future, and a negative view of the development and changes of things. They are always depressed, everything in life is dark to them, and the sun cannot shine into their dark corner.
The most stupid mistake a woman makes in love is to regard love as salvation.
We fall in love with someone to support each other, not to be his savior and pull him up from the mire of pessimism. Your love is there to make you better, not to make you sacrifice yourself.
A country is easy to change, but its nature is hard to change.
A man's natural pessimism is difficult to change. Even if you try to become more cheerful, it will only be a short-lived reflection. Once you feel tired and can no longer provide him with energy, those negative emotions will pour out, pulling you both into darkness.
A man with a pessimistic personality is like a black hole that swallows up all the sunlight that comes close to him. You think you are saving him, but in fact you are sacrificing yourself.
Three: Lazy personality
Today’s young people like a word called: ruins .
"Being bad" refers to a laissez-faire attitude towards life, which is actually just a kind of self-deprecation under pressure. Most people only do it intermittently, as a short break in their busy life.
are men with lazy personalities, and their lives are a history of ruin. They are lazy, unmotivated, have no clear goals and plans, and just muddle through everything, doing whatever they can to save effort.When first coming into contact with men like
, women may be attracted by their "casual" attitude towards life. But after being exposed to them for a long time, you will find that true casualness is the open-mindedness after seeing through the world, and their "casualness" is just lazy escape.
There is no tomorrow for lazy men. Being with such a man is like carrying a heavy burden. You are the only one planning your future, and you will always struggle alone.
Moreover, negative emotions such as laziness are also contagious. If you often get along with such people, they will kill your fighting spirit and make you one of the losers.
No one is perfect, everyone will have their own shortcomings, but some men's shortcomings have become shortcomings. No matter how good a man's skin is, he can't hide the rot inside.
Keep your eyes open, don’t be blinded by love, stay away from men with these personalities, and don’t cast a shadow on your future.
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