has been suspended for a while due to some things recently.
During this period, something happened that I especially want to share with you. It also made me deeply understand the truth that one must be reliable in life and work.
You must have all been borrowed money. This is also a story about borrowing money...
Some time ago, a good friend gave me a message: Brother, I have something to discuss with you. , let me tell you straight, the business in the store has been sluggish recently, and my children will start school soon. All my funds are on autumn and winter inventory. If you have money, can you lend me 20,000 yuan around the 28th (that day is the 23rd) It takes half a month, and the first batch of goods will be returned to you immediately after it is shipped. It’s hard to tell my family, because I’m afraid they’ll worry. If not, it doesn’t matter, I have other solutions, hahaha.
Because I have seen a lot of situations where borrowing money ended up in an unhappy situation, I was also busy when I saw the message. Because it was not needed right away, I didn’t reply immediately. After finishing what I was doing, I drank a glass of water. , I decisively transferred the money to him, and added a sentence: Brother, there is no need for the 28th, wait until later, there is no rush.
He replied to me: [取], and I gave him a comparison: ✌
The above loan information should be the one with the most words he sent me. He sent me a message on the afternoon of the 28th: Brother, what are you doing? Do you have time in the evening? The Qiaotou family's mutton hot pot is good, let's go together? But since I really had something to do that day, I didn’t go.
A week later on the 6th,: Brother, are you busy? Let's get together at the Sichuan restaurant downstairs at your home at 7:30 tomorrow night?
I said: OK, see you tomorrow night.
I am very familiar with this restaurant. When I arrived the next night, he was already waiting for me. There were two cigarette butts in the ashtray. He must have been here for a while. He ordered a few hard dishes and handed me the menu with both hands. I added two vegetarian dishes. He insisted on drinking the Wuliangye he brought, but I stopped him and drank beer instead.
The wine has passed three rounds, and the food has passed the five flavors. He took out an envelope from the backpack on the chair next to me and gave it to me. Needless to say, he must have returned my money. I was ready to politely say that I was not in a hurry, but he had already folded it and stuffed it directly into my coat. At that moment, I didn't say anything, I just looked at him and smiled at each other, and then drank. I said: You can count clearly. Don’t drink more than tens of thousands. We are not loan sharks ~
We laughed to ourselves and continued to drink the rest of the wine...
I don’t know what time it was. He sent me to the entrance of the community before leaving. After returning home and lying on the sofa for a while, I remembered that I still had money in my pocket, so I was going to take it out as a reserve. I took out the money and took a small note with me. I opened the neat creases and read his words on it: The extra 1,000 will count as interest, and you won’t charge it until you transfer it, and you won’t be allowed to refund it.
I couldn't help but laugh again ~
Accept it, I don't feel embarrassed. Why not fulfill other people's sincerity?
Since then, I have discovered that reliable people are really different. Based on the sharing of many friends, I have summarized 3 key points of whether a person is reliable or not at the level of work. My eldest brother is a reliable person. , boldly take Big Brother as an example:
Reliable people do things:
1. Be prepared in advance: discuss borrowing money with me 5 days in advance instead of suddenly opening the mouth just before the battle. This gives me enough time to digest and prepare. Even if I refuse, I still have time to find someone else. friend.
2, there was a response during the process: During the borrowing period, he invited me to dinner twice, and they were all my favorite dishes, which made me feel that he was really thanking me, and also reassured me from another level: he did not run away...
This is different from many people who borrow money. Some people disappear after borrowing money. If they contact you again, they may be short of money again.
3, there will be repercussions afterward: everything has an explanation and everything has a result, which is very necessary in both work and life. Not only did he repay the money, but he also paid me the so-called interest without any change. He was afraid that I would not accept it, so he specially invited me to dinner downstairs in my house ~
This incident is still fresh in my memory, and I would like to share it with everyone
Reliable people are efficient in doing things. There will be more and more friends.
Reliability is the most noble quality in life.
