When it comes to love, some people always think that it is an instinct.
Instinctively, one will have affection for a person, instinctively want to be with the other person, and instinctively treat the other person with care.
Indeed, in a relationship, at the beginning, wanting to be close to someone and longing to have someone is indeed an instinct, but later on, loving someone is also a kind of ability.
People only have instincts. It is difficult to handle feelings well if you love only based on your own instincts.
It is precisely because of this that there are always too many infatuated men and women, too much love and hatred in love.
Throughout life, even if it’s love, we can’t always let our own whims take over, and we still have to remain rational.
With only emotion, it is easy to mess things up. Add emotion to reason, and everything will go more smoothly.
Believe in yourself and love bravely.
There are too many people who have never met someone they like and will complain all kinds of things. One day they meet someone, but they don’t dare to get close to them or fight for them. They are just very timid and have low self-esteem, so they only dare to like them secretly. , dare not do anything.
Then one day when I missed the other person, got separated from the other person in the crowd, and there was someone else around me, I began to regret it. I regretted that I was not brave enough at the beginning. When I could have done something, I didn't do anything. action.
When facing the person you like, you have too low self-esteem and lack of confidence. You always feel that the other person may not like you. This is never a good thing. With such a mood, if you do nothing, you will miss the other person in vain. It would be even more regrettable.
When we like someone, when we take the initiative to approach, the other person may be willing to come to us, or he may not. Although
may fail, we should not take any action directly. We should not predict our failure without trying hard. In any case, since we like it, we should try hard for a while.
You don’t have to look down on yourself so much, just believe in yourself more, believe that you are worthy of being loved, and believe that you are actually pretty good.
Don't have too many inner dramas, just take the initiative, tell the other person your feelings, and win a possibility for yourself.
Let the other party tell us what the result will be, and let reality tell us what the result will be for each other.
If you are lucky enough to have it, cherish it.
People seem to have a very bad habit. If they don't get something, they always feel that it is good. But if they really have it, no matter how much they like it at the beginning, they will gradually forget their original intention and feel that the other person is nothing more than that.
will start to be perfunctory and negligent, and will no longer feel that the other party is important or important.
It took a lot of effort to be with someone, but in the end, we don’t know how to cherish this relationship. This is of course not good. It will make each other very unhappy, neither of us will feel happy, and it will also make us lose each other directly. There will never be another one.
When you lose it, you regret what you have done and feel that you shouldn't have done that. It doesn't make much sense after all.
don’t want to live like that. Now that we have chosen someone, we must treat each other well after that.
always remembers how much he liked the other person in the beginning, and always remembers that the other person also rejected many people before coming to us.
always care more about each other, prefer each other more, accommodate each other more, and live a good life with each other.
Many times, the happiness we want is never elsewhere, but right now. The person who deserves the most kindness is never someone else, but the one who stays with us and faces us together. All people.
If you leave, just move forward.
Love is not that simple after all, it is quite complicated anyway.
will always have a lot of disappointments and a lot of separations.
Anyway, when walking with someone, we can no longer walk together and become separated.
When a relationship comes to an end, too many people clearly know that the other person is not worth it and they no longer love the other person. They do not want to have a future with the other person, but they still cannot get out of it and always hate the other person. Dwelling on the past.
often hate each other, often want revenge, and often regret the love and encounter they once had. They may even start to no longer believe in love because of this, and feel that all people of the opposite sex are not worthy of trust.
Because of one love, he changed his appearance and became so resentful. This is not a good thing after all.
That person we have loved may not have done well enough, and may have done something sorry for us, which is indeed very wrong. However, everything has already happened. After all, there is no way to change it. We are still Accept reality.
It is very stupid to dwell on the past because of the past and stop living the present life and planning for the future. Now that everything is a foregone conclusion and has become a thing of the past, we might as well stop caring about it and make the future days better.
The wiser way to love someone is to fight for it, to know how to cherish it, but also to know how to give up.
As long as you like someone, you don't have to think so much, just act first.
Don't choose someone easily. Once you choose, you should treat the other person well and give the other person the best treatment so that the other person will not regret choosing you and let you get the happiness you want from the other person.
If the relationship can always go smoothly, always cherish it. If one day you can only part ways, bury all the past. Don't let the past delay your current path.
Be more rational and open-minded, don't always look back, let all grudges go with the wind.
You must have the ability to love someone, the ability to manage a relationship, and the ability to let go of the past.
Don't embarrass yourself, follow your heart and respect your feelings.
text/Tan Meng
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