Sisters often come to Teacher Hu to complain about such a thing: is sending messages to her husband, but he either responds very slowly, or simply does not reply .
Let’s talk today, What should I do if a man doesn’t take the initiative to reply to messages?
Let me first analyze it from a psychological perspective. Why do men do this? Because he thinks the information you sent is not important .
Think about it, is it the same content every time you send him: "What time will you be back!
Tonight Don't drink too late! Remember to pick up the courier downstairs when you go upstairs.
The child has to pay the living expenses tomorrow. Please remember to forward them to me! "These are superficial and task-related information. .
When a man sees this information, what will he choose to do? threw the phone aside, and he didn't even look at .
In other words, what we need to do now is not to make this man very attentive immediately. Every time you send a message, he will come back every second. But let yourself, the information sent by , make men react . How to do it?
Today, Teacher Hu will teach you a very useful trick! That is, you have to learn to write little love letters to your husband. So what is a little love letter? It means you take the initiative to recall some important events that happened together in the past !
For example: Teacher Hu gives you a template. You can send a message to your husband like this: "Husband, do you know? I suddenly remembered something today. When we first met, it was in a htm at a friend's party. l5
I remember you were wearing a white shirt. It was very handsome! I saw it again when I was organizing the wardrobe at home. This dress suddenly brought back a lot of memories. Do you still remember this? ”
Look? What must this passage arouse in men? Some inner turmoil , even if he doesn't reply to you right away. Let me tell you that when you get home from get off work today, he will definitely bring you a surprise of and .
Many sisters may hear this and think: Teacher Hu, I can’t seem to speak out. I think such language is particularly disgusting.
You must not think this way, because some of the reactions of men to you now indicate that your relationship is not as close as before. . So all those things that will make your relationship better and better, what must you do? breaks through its own constraints and bravely changes .
