text丨Hao Yin
anchor丨Yanzi
Human life is only once. How to live as brilliantly as you want in a limited life and realize your dreams, the key is not to set limits.
From childhood to adulthood, our parents, teachers, and friends will tirelessly guide and remind us: how to study and choose a major, how to find a good job and get promoted quickly, when to get married and have children, and what kind of shortcuts can be taken in any struggle? What kind of life is the most comfortable? He said sincerely: If you don't listen to the old man's words, you will suffer a lot in front of you.
Their intentions are good and their words make sense. But it's not suitable for everyone. Why stick to one model? Just like the products on the assembly line are exactly the same.
No one can determine the best time and best appearance of a flower, a grass, or a cloud.
In fact, everyone is a different seed, with different flowering periods, and different flowers bloom at different times and places.
Don’t be limited by your thinking. You must dare to break through the conventional thinking of the outside world and pursue your dreams according to the direction of your own heart. Maybe you don't live an ordinary life, but your heart is extremely happy.
Just like Maugham's novel "The Moon and Sixpence", which was inspired by Gauguin, who said that the protagonist Strickland's life is not glorious and enviable?
Don't be limited by age. Our lives are often like a chart, with different contents filled in at different ages. But not necessarily.
Zhang Ailing said, "You have to be famous early." Some people have earned a lifetime of wealth and retired at the age of 40, while some people became president in their 70s and are still energetic.
Don’t be limited by gender. Although men and women have different psychological and physiological characteristics, the division of labor in modern society has undergone tremendous changes. Technology has reduced physical labor, and both men and women have unlimited room for development. Nothing is impossible. Genders can also be interchanged. Men and women can catch the moon in the nine heavens and catch turtles in the five oceans. Men and women are equally beautiful.
Don’t be limited by fame and fortune. Some dreams, hobbies, and inventions are not directly related to money. Some things that seem meaningless now may take a long time to be proven. "A Dream of Red Mansions" came out after the death of Cao Xueqin and became one of China's "Four Great Masterpieces"; Van Gogh's paintings were not recognized until after his death, and " Sunflower " amazed the world.
Don't be limited by difficulties. Life is a process of constantly overcoming difficulties and solving problems. "The pain in the wind and rain is nothing. Don't be afraid if you wipe away your tears." "How can you see a rainbow without going through the wind and rain? No one can succeed casually." "Lying flat" is only temporary, and struggle is the normal state of life.
You have to slowly get to know yourself, constantly discover yourself, and then find the love in your heart, the dream in your heart, challenge yourself, and challenge the impossible.
Our life is short and we will lose it eventually. So you might as well be bold and willful, love what you love, do what you want, follow your heart, have no questions about the West or the East, and have no regrets in this life.
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Source: Huakai Soul Station (ID: cnhk667788).
Author: Hao Yin, works in a provincial unit in Henan. He once worked as a university teacher and deputy editor-in-chief of a magazine. I like to observe the complicated world and record the fireworks of life with pen.
Anchor: Yanzi, whose real name is Fu Yan, loves life, likes reading and reciting, singing and hosting. She is grateful for life and is willing to express and convey beauty through her voice! Enrich yourself and warm others.
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