However, at the age of 30, when she had time to look back at her life, she realized that there was no time for herself. For the sake of her family, she has never dressed up or done anything for herself in 10 years.
"Maybe it's a little late, but I decided to live for myself from now on. When I was in college, in order to realize my dream of being an English teacher, I obtained the Children's English Teacher Qualification Certificate. After graduation, I wanted to study abroad and become a successful teacher. Educator, make up for the 30 years you lost."
Before, every time she thought about the past days, she couldn't help but feel sad, curled up on the ground and wanted to cry, but now, she is moving towards the future step by step, and she is even more looking forward to her future development. Not stopping somewhere and moving towards the goal in your heart, is there any greater challenge than this? She is not the only woman who can muster the courage to pursue a new life at an age when it is too late to do anything. There are many 30-year-old women around us who look ordinary but live extremely exciting lives. are realizing their counterattack.
Crying is also your own life. No matter how ridiculous or unfair it is, you must never give up. Even from the age of 30 you can say goodbye to your previous life. Because it's only 9 o'clock in the morning.
Of course, youth at the age of 20 is beautiful. I also know that choosing a different life in a different environment at the age of 30 is a scary thing in itself. I also fully understand the feeling of worry and uneasiness that may even lead to the loss of the little peace we are enjoying now. Because I was once like you, in my heart I wanted to do what I love and look for real opportunities, but my body was honestly afraid of failure and setbacks. I felt like I couldn't complete the challenge and could only shed cowardly tears. There is such a passage in
"Work like Hillary, succeed like Rice ".
There are two kinds of people in the world, the "perfectionists" who pursue maximum satisfaction and the "satisfiers" who are content with reality. To be a "happy satisficer" you worry that life will become boring without new challenges. To be an unhappy person "Perfectionists" worry about not being able to gain inner peace.