In the past, as long as a rural person went to college, he thought he had the right to speak. He liked to point fingers at his relatives and give various suggestions, as if he could guide his relatives in the direction of progress.
In fact, all suggestions are in vain and a waste of time.
A friend has several sisters, and he often writes to them, wishing them to be loving husbands and wives, care for each other, be considerate to each other, and take care of themselves!
We must make a good family plan. When it is time to build a house, build a house as soon as possible; when it is time to find a husband for your daughter and a wife for your son, you should seize the time to find a wife; when it is time for your children to study, study for your children.
Don’t have the mentality of favoring boys over girls. Whoever studies well will be supported. Men and women are the same. Whoever gets into college will be lucky.
told my sisters to change the way they think about making money and think of other ways.
told her sisters that her parents are old and cannot afford any major events or blows. If you encounter any difficulties in the future, please don't tell your parents. You can only "report good things but not bad things" to your parents. Don't complain in front of your parents. Please try to swallow whatever bitterness you want by yourself.
In fact, the sisters do not listen to these words at all, and the husband and wife still do not love each other, do not care for each other, and do not understand each other.
Women still have to control their husbands, not letting them smoke, not letting them drink, not letting them go out late at night to date other women, etc. The husbands don’t listen at all, and then they quarrel and fight with them at home, even in their fifties and sixties. fight. Sometimes my sister's legs or waist were injured when she was beaten.
The next day, I went to the hospital to see a doctor.
Then, my sister definitely "reported the troubles but not the good news" and went back to her parents' home to complain about the fight, saying that she couldn't live a good life.
made the elderly parents so angry that when they saw their son-in-law on the street, the mother-in-law ignored him, just like a stranger. The father-in-law scolded his son-in-law, thinking that he was so courageous and vented his anger on his daughter.
In fact, it is embarrassing on the street.
And they have reconciled as husband and wife, which makes their parents hate their son-in-law in vain.
Knowledgeable people always like others to give their relatives opinions without giving them money.
In fact, others just go their own way and it is like turning a deaf ear. It's all in vain.
Knowledgeable people believe that by telling others what is right, people can change.
In fact, even if people know what is right, they cannot do it.
For example, tell a person that as long as he writes 70 million words, it is possible to make money. How many people dare to write it?
Knowledgeable people give up any idea of influencing or changing others. A person's change can only come from within, and external factors have no effect.
Intellectual people are better off keeping their mouths shut, doing their own thing well, producing more and talking less. Live your own life well and don't give any random advice to your loved ones.
