3-year-old man: Now I finally understand why women must find a wife in their later years.
Introduction:
Meeting people is fate, especially for couples halfway through, and two people who were originally lonely, re-establishing a family, then It is a blessing.
The editor has learned about the story of a 73-year-old man remarrying a 65-year-old woman. What kind of sparks will they create? Let’s take a look together!
3-year-old Uncle Liu’s self-statement:
My surname is Liu and I am 73 years old. Originally, a half-buried person like me should not remarry, but somehow I met love. I was born in a small county town, the only child in my family. My parents were both government workers, so my life since childhood was relatively privileged.
I have never suffered anything, and I have never been hungry. People in my family have given me great favor. Even if my family is not particularly wealthy, I can still get something from others. In this way, I grew up in a family full of love. I am a very emotional person and regard relationships as very important. My personality is also optimistic and cheerful.
Later, when I grew up, my studies were still very good. Because I really longed for the outside world, so when I filled out my application form for the college entrance examination, I chose a school outside the province. Although it is sometimes far away from home, I think I will always return to my hometown in the future, so I might as well go out and have fun now.
After that, I went to a university outside the province as I wished. My family was afraid that I would be wronged in other places, so they kept sending me money. I usually used the money sent from my family to buy books. But when I was a sophomore in college, I met the love of my life. She was a very beautiful girl who had learned ballet and dance since she was a child. We got along very well. We met at a school anniversary event. Her name was Ranran. She was going to perform a solo dance at the school anniversary, and I was the host of this event.
At that event, her graceful dancing deeply attracted me, and my strong voice also affected her. After the event, we never saw each other again, but during this period I was always looking for him in the vast crowd, because I knew I liked him, and as long as I looked for him with my heart, I would see him again sooner or later.
His hard work pays off. When I went to the library, I saw her. I took the initiative to say hello to her, but she also looked at me shyly. Her smile really made me intoxicated and fascinated me. Stunned. Later, we sat and read together. We left each other's contact information and chatted every day. It didn't take long for us to fall in love.
We got to know each other after we fell in love. It turned out that Ranran also went to school, and her home was quite far from school. Although Ranran looks sweet, she is actually soft on the outside and strong on the inside, and is particularly stubborn.
She told me that both of her parents were teachers and had never approved of her learning to dance. However, she insisted on going her own way and was able to study dance, so she was admitted to this school. Ranran's professional performance is very good, and her temperament is very good. We often stick together, she plays basketball with me, and I wait for her to finish class outside the dance room. Ranran is my first love and the love of my life.
Time flies very fast, and the day of graduation is here in an instant. Graduation season is the season of breakups. Our hometowns are far apart, so how should we make a choice? After careful consideration, we chose to stay in the city where we went to school to develop. Our parents did not interfere. We stayed in the city and studied together. I was taking the postgraduate entrance exam and she was taking the dance teacher exam. We made each other successful and we never belittled each other. The other party has become the only light in their hearts.
After that, Ranran successfully became a dance teacher, and I also successfully entered graduate school. After graduating from graduate school, I successfully landed a job in a job posting, and we both ended up with a solid job.We were nearly thirty years old at this time, and our family was constantly urging us to get married. Ranran and I thought it was time to get married, so we arranged for our parents to meet, and both parents agreed. Our love and career were almost all going smoothly. Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared.
After we set the wedding date, we bought a house in the city where we were. After marriage, in order to keep in shape, we never chose to have children. I understand this. Although my parents put a lot of pressure on me to have children, I never put it on Ranran.
Originally I thought that Ranran and I could grow old together, but bad news came one day. I was at work that day, but I received a call saying that something had happened to Ranran. I rushed to the hospital like crazy, and what I saw at this time was the deceased Ranran. The taxi Ranran was riding in had a car accident, and both the driver and the passengers were not spared. Such an accident changed me and our family.
After Ranran passed away, I almost collapsed, and my father-in-law and mother-in-law were even more so. It would be a pity for such an outstanding and sensible daughter to be taken away by God. Just like that, I never remarried. My parents seemed to have looked away and never tried to persuade me. Occasionally, friends would try to persuade me, but I was unmoved. Maybe it was because I met someone amazing enough when I was young. As for other people, it is not her after all.
In the next few decades, I stayed with our family and never remarried. Gradually, my parents-in-law and my father-in-law passed away one after another, leaving me alone and helpless. One day I had a dream about Ranran. Ranran has rarely entered my dreams in the past few decades. She must be blaming me for not letting go! After I woke up from the dream, I thought about it for a long time. Sometimes letting go is better for myself than for others.
Now I am retired, with a pension of more than 10,000 yuan, two houses, and a lifetime of savings. This money is enough for me to live a prosperous life. One day when I was walking, I saw an elegant woman who was actually very similar to the late Ran Ran. I thought this might be fate.
Later, I added my contact information to this woman. She is 65 years old and lives alone. She usually likes to play the piano or sing and is very artistic. I had a slight affection for her and started to pursue her. At this time, in my subconscious mind, I thought that Ranran was back to accompany me.
A few months later, we fell in love and got married as we wished, and his children in the family also agreed. I originally thought that our life after marriage would only consist of music, chess, calligraphy and painting, and there would be no daily necessities, but this was not the case. After I got married to her, he began to ask for a house in my name to use for her son's marriage. After her persuasion, I agreed. Originally, we could live a solid life at this time, but we didn't.
She started to ask for the estimated savings in the pension card again, saying that she would keep it for me. If I didn't give it to her, she would say that I didn't trust her and threaten her with divorce. Later, I had no choice but to give her the card, but what I didn't expect was that she started using my card to buy various big-name bags and cosmetics.
What makes me even more unbearable is that she actually took my deposit and bought a full-price car for her youngest son without consulting me. This shocked me and I later blocked the card.
After I got home, I questioned her. Unexpectedly, she became angry and said: "You are so old. Since you married a young wife like me, shouldn't you pay some money? Do you really think I am attracted to you?" ? You are really overestimating your abilities. Don’t talk to me and be careful about divorcing you." , I almost lost my temper when I heard her words. Now I understand that maybe she married me because of the money in my pocket. !
Conclusion:
Although it is important to have someone to accompany you in old age, you must have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, and cannot be driven by emotion, otherwise you will be deceived. This ends
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