I believe everyone is familiar with the term best friend. In real life, almost every woman has one or two best friends whom she talks to about everything. In my free time, I always invite my best friends out to eat, go shopping and watch movies. Everyone shares what they have see

Best friends, I believe this term is familiar to everyone. In real life, almost every woman has one or two best friends whom she talks to about everything. In my free time, I always invite my best friends out to eat, go shopping and watch movies.

Everyone shares what they have seen and heard in recent times, and even gossips about the people and things around them. As time goes by, my best friend has become the person who gives me advice when encountering problems, and is also the person I trust the most.

will tell each other a lot of unknown secrets about the couple, but what is unexpected is that one day the best friends will also lose contact. Sometimes, whether it is friendship or love, trust is a touchstone. No matter how close the relationship is, you must have a defensive heart.

You should stay rational about what the other party says, no matter whether it is good or bad. Not everything everyone says is correct, nor what the other party says to persuade you. You must listen or obey every word, because people's hearts are separated from each other, and no one can I don’t know if what the other person said is really good for me.

Event review: Wenwen (pseudonym) and her husband (Dawei) were introduced to each other. Because they were similar in age, the two of them felt as if they had met too late. Soon after, they confirmed their relationship. .

After getting to know each other in depth, they both decided that the other person was the person they wanted to spend the rest of their lives with. Three months later, they entered the marriage hall hand in hand with the blessings of relatives and friends. After marriage, Wenwen and Dawei's relationship became better and better, and Dawei loved Wenwen very much.

Wenwen was very kind to Dawei and her parents, and the family got along fairly well. Their harmonious way of getting along as a family was once the envy of their relatives and friends. But as time goes by, after the baptism of life of daily necessities, Wenwen and Dawei's relationship becomes weaker and weaker.

With the birth of children, living expenses have increased a lot. In addition, the way old people educate their children is different from that of young people. There are differences on the issue of educating children. Slowly, they start to have quarrels at home. .

Wenwen thinks that her father-in-law and mother-in-law dote on their children so much that their sons often make troubles and even talk back over trivial matters, which makes Wenwen very angry. Not only did she not reflect on her own education methods, she instead blamed her father-in-law and mother-in-law.

As the "civil war" in the family escalates, the family often starts wars over trivial matters, and no one is willing to give in to anyone. Wenwen's father-in-law and mother-in-law felt aggrieved because they had just retired and had to help take care of their grandson before they could fully enjoy their post-retirement life.

But it was thankless, because there were differences on the issue of educating the grandson, and then there were conflicts with his son and his wife. Maybe it was because of her youth and vigour, or maybe it was because of the generation gap between them, but Wenwen did not tolerate her father-in-law and mother-in-law because she was a junior.

Their family often has a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every five days, which makes the atmosphere at home more and more tense. This puts Dawei in a dilemma, but he is helpless because whoever he persuades will feel that he is It's a biased approach.

Wenwen and Dawei often quarreled over this. Because of family discord, Wenwen often called her best friend Xiaoling (pseudonym) out to get together and tell her her inner troubles. For Xiaoling, Wenwen is Trust her very much.

Because they have known each other for more than ten years, they have always been good friends. Xiaoling has a cheerful personality and is friendly to others, so Wenwen likes both unhappy and happy things. Share it with her.

Because Xiaoling not only knows how to help her solve problems, but also gives her advice. The most important thing is that Wenwen trusts Xiaoling and they talk about everything. Wenwen was not mean-spirited, and she also told Xiaoling some of her and Dawei's personal secrets.

On the other hand, Xiaoling is more cautious. Although Wenwen knows that Xiaoling and her husband are not on good terms, Xiaoling rarely talks to her about her and her husband's private affairs. Therefore, although Wenwen and Xiaoling have known each other for more than ten years, Years have passed, but she has only met Xiaoling's husband a few times.

As for Xiaoling, she often visits Wenwen's house and has a good relationship with Dawei. Occasionally, when Xiaoling needs help with something, she will directly ask Dawei for help. Because Wenwen trusts Xiaoling, she does not Didn't think much about it.

One day Xiaoling suddenly told Wenwen that she and her husband were divorced, and they had been divorced for a while. Wenwen was surprised when she heard this, because she had never heard Xiaoling mention it before.

Xiaoling’s explanation later was that she hid the incident because it made Wenwen and her family worried, and she didn’t want to bring up the past again, so she didn’t tell anyone, including her parents.

Although Wenwen was a little angry, she said she could understand Xiaoling. One day not long after, Wenwen had a fierce quarrel with Dawei over the child's education. Wenwen ran away from home in anger, and then moved to Xiaoling's house.

Xiaoling did not persuade Wenwen to go home after her anger subsided, but fanned the flames to persuade Wenwen to divorce and told Wenwen that she could find a better person after the divorce. Wenwen hesitated at first because there was no principle issue between her and Dawei.

In addition, her parents would definitely not agree to her divorce, so Wenwen hesitated. After that, Xiaoling asked Wenwen out to meet him every three days and exaggeratedly said that Dawei was wrong. In the end, Wenwen was successfully brainwashed by her.

Not long after, Wenwen suddenly filed for divorce from Dawei, but Dawei did not agree because he felt that they occasionally quarreled, but they did not reach the point of divorce, so he did not agree to divorce by agreement.

Wenwen threatened to die. She forced Dawei to go to the Public Security Bureau to apply for divorce with her, and refused to make any mediation. Wenwen ignored Dawei's pleading and resolutely chose to divorce Dawei. , Dawei bluntly said that Wenwen would regret it, but Wenwen disagreed.

As soon as she walked out of the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Wenwen immediately called Xiaoling to inform Xiaoling that she had divorced Dawei, and then asked Xiaoling to go out for a party at night to celebrate her return to being single. However, Wenwen's invitation was rejected by Xiaoling. He declined on the grounds that he had something to do at night.

Wenwen couldn't contact Xiaoling for several days. She was very worried. Then Wenwen went to Xiaoling's rental house to look for her. Unexpectedly, the landlord told Wenwen that Xiaoling had quit the rent not long ago. .

Feeling a little uneasy, Wenwen had no choice but to go to Xiaoling's company to find her, but Xiaoling's colleagues told her that Xiaoling had resigned a month ago, and no one knew where Xiaoling had gone.

The anxious Wenwen was completely dumbfounded. She never dreamed that one day she would lose contact with Xiaoling without any warning, because they had said that they would be each other's best friends for life.

What Wenwen didn't expect was that Xiaoling suddenly disappeared without a trace when she was most helpless, which she didn't expect. Recalling every bit of the past, Wenwen became more and more frightened because she did not tell her parents when she divorced.

And there was no principled problem between herself and Dawei, so Wenwen did not dare to return to her parents' home because she was blamed by her parents for her reckless behavior. After the devastated Wenwen returned home, she cried helplessly alone.

She regretted that she should not have listened to Xiaoling's persuasion, ignored Dawei's efforts to stay, resolutely chose to divorce, and did not want custody of the child, but it was too late, and she regretted it.

Conclusion: To be honest, best friends who really care about each other will try to persuade them to reconcile rather than break up. What’s more, there is no choice problem between my friend and her husband. It is actually quite good to persuade the couple to divorce in this way. An irresponsible act.

Everyone is at fault. Isn’t everyone’s life a mess? There is no perfect couple, only couples who can face and solve problems together when there are problems in their marriage. If you divorce as soon as a problem arises, no one will be able to go far in the long run with such a mentality, and such a marriage will not be happy.

Husbands and wives should respect and understand each other, both are indispensable. A marriage without love and trust will not last long. The biggest fear in marriage is mutual disrespect and mutual distrust between husband and wife.

I think no matter who you are, you shouldn’t trust someone too much, because people’s hearts are different and no one knows what someone is thinking. Furthermore, no matter how good the relationship is, a certain distance must be maintained, and you cannot tell the other party everything.

Because there is a saying that fire prevention, theft prevention, and girlfriend prevention are the same. Besides, how can there be any friction in a family? It just depends on what kind of mentality we use to face it.

The willingness of the elderly at home to help us take care of our children is a matter of affection rather than an obligation. We should be grateful instead of blaming the elderly for certain things, because with their help, our burden and pressure are much lighter.

Also, you must stay away from best friends like the one in this article, because she gives the impression that she is destroying the other person's relationship and deliberately persuading her friend to divorce.

In fact, this kind of mentality is very bad. Because you are not living as you like, you don’t want the other person to live better than you are, and then you try every means to persuade the other party to divorce. However, you are the one who bears the greatest responsibility because you don’t have enough trust and understanding of your husband. .

Text/Huang Xiaoguai

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