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Why is it said that the butt determines the head?

In fact, we have heard this since we were children. Let me briefly talk about it when we grow up. I hope it will be helpful and inspiring to everyone.

Because everyone is in a different position, so everyone's perspective on the problem must be different. The position of

is the starting point. The reason why people can solve problems from their own perspective and their own thinking and decide what way to look at the problem is determined by their ass, that is, by its position. , What kind of position will have what kind of thinking, what kind of position will have what kind of work results and results.

Do you agree?

So you see, a poor family borrows money for medical treatment because the family is too poor and has no money. Then, they go to a rich family to borrow money, because the rich family has a pawnshop and a store, and then they owe money. I have borrowed a lot of money from others, and then my family is completely destitute and I have no choice but to repay the money as scheduled. What should I do?

There was nothing in the family that could be sold for money, so this impoverished man had no choice but to betroth his only daughter to this wealthy family as a concubine to pay off the money he owed.

As a result, the next day, the daughter went to her father's house again, and then said to her father.

Dad...

I got married yesterday. Today, I came back to see you and asked you by the way, when will the money you owe our family be paid off? I don’t think the story of

is particularly funny. I may not have controlled my emotions well when telling it, so it’s a bit funny. In fact, this story shows that the butt determines the head.

When my family was very poor, I only thought about my own family and how to pay back the money. But after I got married, I changed my identity and my position, and I just thought about how to repay the money I owed from outside. More to come.

In fact, in real life, we often do things that others cannot understand because of our own position. However, we have always stood in our own position, so it is difficult for us to see the problem. That's why there are people who are obsessed with the authorities, and the onlookers can tell clearly. In fact,

is essentially a relationship of interests and interests. Only then can she speak from her own standpoint and express a kind of thinking from her own standpoint.

Although this sentence comes from " Dream of Red Mansions ", it is really very important to us. For example, in the current company, the boss is thinking about how to develop the company in a better and healthy way. Being able to do a good job for customers, being able to provide good customer service, and giving customers a perfect delivery, the employee thought that it would be best not to work overtime today because I have to fall in love, and the development of the company has nothing to do with me. In fact, does it not matter whether the company develops? If the

company cannot continue to operate, its employees will just change jobs.

So for the boss, the boss's perspective and the employee's perspective are always opposites. Right or wrong? There is no right or wrong. A little money from overtime is definitely not important to them. Is it possible? None, so we don’t pay much attention to work. For the employees in our current work scene, there must be some people like this. This is because the positions are different, and then the thinking is different. This is the starting point of everyone’s position. Different, our own thoughts will definitely be different. In all work and life, how we can better communicate with others, how to better use the buttocks to determine the position of the head, thinking is the most important.

In fact, you also need to know, what position does it stand on, and what are the issues that he is most concerned about, because only this kind of thinking can arouse the other party's interest, is that okay? What to take into account?

communicates the other party's desired position, so will good results be achieved during communication?

What do you think, so we are good at using some control points in human nature, and then use them to our advantage to truly achieve our goals and results. Let’s talk about that much today.

Let’s talk tomorrow, bye.